So a profile comes up on Facebook. Looks like a seriously aexy MILF I have been eyeing on ESA. I mean fantasy fuck stuff.

I check her photos and there are some of her esa photos on her profile.

The I see quite a few work mates are following her.

Most of them are on Facebook - also many of the WGs are following other WGs on Facebook. I have found some new ideas by watching their profiles

It goes the other way also. I had a regular sending me a FB message after I popped up on her friends suggestion

I never thought of that, need to start unfriending some SPs on FB, lol ... but first let me go see who else are friends ... roflol ...

But on a more serious note, on ESA everyone considers their anonymity as sacred, then go and do ...

So maybe we should just be. All this fake identities is to much to keep track of. If only ones fantasy life and real life could be one life

You guys don't have a back up Facebook account to use when searching and checking out the ladies? Tsk tsk lol

Or are you using your real phone numbers when booking?

If you're using a punting phone and alt Facebook account you certainly wouldn't have them pop up in your recommended friends etc.

Dixxy....These days even if you surf any website on your phone/laptop/desktop and access the your usual social media from the same or any other sync'd device, the pop ups are common.

Try searching for something vague and new for you like, red colour suede shoes with black laces on you search engine for a few minutes.

Then login to you social media from the same device after sometime, it will give you suggestions for various shoes and possibly red colour also.

So nothing in our digital footprint is isolated these days

100% @uwillwantme

Thats why for this and any punting related, cheating and other extra curricula activities:

Use a Punting Phone!!!

On 2026-04-23 17:44:28 uwillwantme said:
Dixxy....These days even if you surf any website on your phone/laptop/desktop and access the your usual social media from the same or any other sync'd device, the pop ups are common.

Try searching for something vague and new for you like, red colour suede shoes with black laces on you search engine for a few minutes.

Then login to you social media from the same device after sometime, it will give you suggestions for various shoes and possibly red colour also.

So nothing in our digital footprint is isolated these days

Interesting. I hear you but I've honestly never had this happen to me. I'll give it a try thanks.

I don't have enough knowledge of all the privacy stuff, but I run a VPN on all my devices with an alias registered, don't use any of my personal mail addresses or numbers on any alt accounts (each account has its own alt mail address), I access my alt Facebook account through the Friendly app, only access ESA through Brave, and run most other personal internet through DuckDuckGo. All work internet is split between Chrome and Edge and only accessed on work devices.

If anyone with better tech knowledge has more privacy tips I'm genuinely all ears. I try and leave as light a personal footprint as possible.

On 2026-04-23 17:44:28 uwillwantme said:
Dixxy....These days even if you surf any website on your phone/laptop/desktop and access the your usual social media from the same or any other sync'd device, the pop ups are common.

Try searching for something vague and new for you like, red colour suede shoes with black laces on you search engine for a few minutes.

Then login to you social media from the same device after sometime, it will give you suggestions for various shoes and possibly red colour also.

So nothing in our digital footprint is isolated these days

You don't even have to login and search. Just talk to your friends on in person with your phone in your pocket or on the phone about a pink beetle with yellow seats and all your social media on any platform or device will send you ads for one. Privacy ain't anything. That's why they have permission it listen for "Ok Google" so they can listen to everything under the pretext of it being function related but information gathering is 24/7.

N4P

On 2026-04-23 20:02:58 Dixxy said:
On 2026-04-23 17:44:28

Interesting. I hear you but I've honestly never had this happen to me. I'll give it a try thanks.

I don't have enough knowledge of all the privacy stuff, but I run a VPN on all my devices with an alias registered, don't use any of my personal mail addresses or numbers on any alt accounts (each account has its own alt mail address), I access my alt Facebook account through the Friendly app, only access ESA through Brave, and run most other personal internet through DuckDuckGo. All work internet is split between Chrome and Edge and only accessed on work devices.

If anyone with better tech knowledge has more privacy tips I'm genuinely all ears. I try and leave as light a personal footprint as possible.

It tracks locations, wifi location, IP address etc to throw up suggestions and recommendations. We are being tracked even with location services off and all permissions to all the apps denied. Simply keeping a device on is a leaving multiple footprints on the digital universe.

As it's famously remarked, 'If you are not paying for it, YOU are the product'

FB, WA, INSTA, X(well majority of it) is free. What comes free these days?