I've noticed some men come in with a literal grocery list of requirements, but they forget to bring the energy. You can't "order" chemistry like a pizza. To me, a man's vibe is the difference between a "transaction" and a "core memory"

Let's settle the debate:

GENTLEMEN: What's more important to you?
A girl who checks every mechanical box on your "service" list, or a girl you actually have a witty, electric connection with?
Can you have one without the other?

LADIES: Does it kill the mood for you when a guy treats the encounter like a technical inspection instead of an experience?

MY TAKE: I'm a teaser by nature and I live to please, but I've found that the best "juices dripping" moments happen when the checklist is thrown out the window and the manners take over.
Skill is easy to find; Soul is rare.


Which side do you bet your money on? Skill or connection?

The flow of chemistry makes the session.

Spot on, Jr. But in your experience, is that chemistry something you can feel right from the first hello, or does it take time to build up during the session?

Often the minute I walk into the room , sometimes it takes a bit of time .
On one occasion the girl was much bigger than I expected and I wanted to walked out again . She apologized for the outdated picture said she understood . No cancelation fees etc. That made me change my mind and we had a great session.

Chemistry is everything surely it paves the way for skills to flow with ease

Interesting point, Jr. It goes to show that honesty and a good attitude can completely flip the energy of a room. It's less about the 'perfect' look or list and more about how someone makes you feel from that first hello

The chemistry for sure...
As the bucket list will follow naturally with someone you connect with after a few bookings, and with the chemistry, be even better than just the list without chemistry..

For me chemistry, for sure. Skillful massage skills are high on my list. The mature ladies do it for me.

Exactly.... When you connect with someone everything just feels lighter and effortless. Dealing with pure skill without that connection is nothing but heavy, rigid technicalities. You can't fake soul.