If you want to be sure of what you get, then only book ladies who show their faces and use the gold member functionality to scrutinize photos in detail. That way you know what you are getting appearance wise and won't get stuck with booking someone you may find unattractive or too old.

Having said that, I have found that men and women who are not my type in terms of what I find to be attractive or handsome and body type, tend to be much better lovers than those who I am attracted to.

If I had a pic of myself in my profile, no wg would ever want to see me. Lol.

If you arrive at a ladys' place and its blatantly evident that she has lied about her size or age, you have the full right to leave. These are usually the situations where you feel you need to lie...The whole "I left my wallet in the car" spiel! There is always the fear of the lady getting offended and perhaps threatening.

If however you get to her place and you just dont feel an attraction to her, no fault of hers or yours, rather just say that she wasn't what you expected. Then a cancellation fee would be appropriate. I would not be the slightest bit offended if that happened and would graciously accept that I am not everyone's cup of Horlicks (who gets this?!?! lol). I dont show my face, so when someone worryingly enquires about that, I guarantee them that when they arrive and they dont like what they see, they are welcome to leave with no hassle. That seems to put their minds at rest and noone has ever run screaming when I've opened the door. Only perhaps fainted when they saw my awesome boobs.

Wow Sarah.
What a brilliant concise and literate response. No wonder you a lady of grace.
Now just to get you to Gauteng....... pls?
Gunts

On 2016-12-14 18:00:49 Sarah said:
Then a cancellation fee would be appropriate. I would not be the slightest bit offended if that happened and would graciously accept that I am not everyone's cup of Horlicks (who gets this?!?! lol).

LMAO. Horlicks!!

Two of my best ever experiences came from girls I normally wouldn't have seen.

I remember at the time thinking "unclench and just live a little", and boy am I glad I did. Very few girls have come close to those experiences since.

Open your mind ever so slightly and you never know what you'll find. If you don't do something you normally wouldn't have done, you'll never get something you normally wouldn't have got.

It's always best to be open about it and hopefully the lady will understand. You probably would have wasted her time but your time driving to her is wasted too.

I personally don't support the cancellation fee thing.

I think a lot of guys are afraid of the reaction they may get from their rebuff. Some girls could get aggressive, make a scene etc. And I guess most nice human beings dont enjoy offending people, and the ego can be an ugly thing when rejected, and so telling a lie as to why they cannot stay is easier. Or staying when they really dont want to.

I too would not ask for a cancellation fee, but if they insisted and it made them feel better about it, who am I to stand in the way of that. lol

Many years ago I went to a place and the lady said "I'm the only one here at the moment." The venue was a bit shabby and the lady wasn't very appealing and I thought quickly and said "Well I was just passing by and maybe I'll come back another time".
She said "Yes, that's what they all say" and then she laughed, we both laughed and it was all cool.