If one is in an exclusive relationship with someone not from any adult site, it's okay to have it raw if you can trust the guy. But as long as they are from sites like this, don't trust both the ladies and the men. Like Kim said, raw is war!

On 2026-03-18 18:17:46 Harmony Hands said:
Kim,did you have a baby in 2024?

Yep!

It's always interesting how this topic brings out the judgement, especially here in the purple world where we all face enough stigma from the vanilla world already.

We all know the dangers --- repeating them doesn't help or change anything. Raw happens way more often than some admit: threesomes, gangbangs, long sessions, parties, or moments where swapping condoms just isn't realistic. Plenty of guys and girls here have done it, and too many providers offer bareback, raw oral or swallow for the right price for us to pretend otherwise.

Shaming feels pointless --- it's like telling high school kids to just abstain. What would actually be useful is more honesty: openly sharing practical ways people reduce risks when they do go raw. Things like more frequent testing, PrEP, options after exposure, and building trust with regulars through recent mutual tests.
Judgement just drives real talk underground and makes it harder for people to get info that could actually lower risks. Let's be real with each other in the purple world.

I was looking at the response to an old enquiry.

Under extras was raw at R200 but rimming was R500. Scary stuff.

On 2026-03-16 15:28:51 Issy6969 said:
Hi there

I'm seeking a lady I can be regular with and have raw fun after some testing.

HMU if interested.

Thanks!

Unfortunately, no luck.

On 2026-04-01 06:24:17 RobertLoblaw said:
I was looking at the response to an old enquiry.

Under extras was raw at R200 but rimming was R500. Scary stuff.

Maybe she meant raw as in bareblow. Cause clearly that must be a mistake. I know of girls who charges from 2k upwards. And thats from black girls. But then again there are the deperate girls who is not busy that wil do it for much cheaper

Have been offered raw multiple times by SPs with very solid ratings in the purple world. Often the only requirement is "just don't cum inside me".

And then there is the "I have run out of condoms" scenario. I recently had two of those.

I always decline and negotiate for an extra like CIM.

I have also had a number of condom breaks. I remember the first one which had me running to a doctor in a panic. He was very relaxed about it and said that contracting HIV with a condom break is very unlikely. Did not make me feel any better though.

Would it be fair to assume that sensible SPs would be on PrEP? It seems to have few side effects and long term use pose little risk.

Any punters on PrEP?

@danny_dd

I have actually had a condom break too and as result I cummed inside the WG. That was about 2 months ago.

I did jump on pep Within 2 days after exposure.

Scary as hell and I have not punted since. I still need to go for screening.

Scary part was I found out that WG was offering raw as a service and she was actually chilled when I put my seed in her which made me panic more.

Need to find a place in Centurion to get tested ASAP.

Totally considering leaving this hobby now

On 2026-05-01 09:06:12 danny_dd said:
Have been offered raw multiple times by SPs with very solid ratings in the purple world. Often the only requirement is "just don't cum inside me".

And then there is the "I have run out of condoms" scenario. I recently had two of those.

I always decline and negotiate for an extra like CIM.

I have also had a number of condom breaks. I remember the first one which had me running to a doctor in a panic. He was very relaxed about it and said that contracting HIV with a condom break is very unlikely. Did not make me feel any better though.

Would it be fair to assume that sensible SPs would be on PrEP? It seems to have few side effects and long term use pose little risk.

Any punters on PrEP?

There's still herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhoea and syphilis to be concerned about.

On 2026-05-01 22:26:21 moehk704 said:
@danny_dd

I have actually had a condom break too and as result I cummed inside the WG. That was about 2 months ago.

I did jump on pep Within 2 days after exposure.

Scary as hell and I have not punted since. I still need to go for screening.

Scary part was I found out that WG was offering raw as a service and she was actually chilled when I put my seed in her which made me panic more.

Need to find a place in Centurion to get tested ASAP.

Totally considering leaving this hobby now

You can do test after 30 days. Not quite as accurate as after 90 days, but may give you some calming of the nerves. Use google/ai to give you the respective accuracies.