On 2017-02-08 09:33:54 FMS said:
I play in the BDSM scene regularly frequently and often.

Now I am a Dom and I firmly believe that before anybody should Dom they should sub for a few plays.

I have recently had the pleasure of playing and exploring boundaries with a delicious young WG on the East Rand and while she initially said she wanted to be a sub she was actually looking to be physically controlled. She did not want me to control her mind.

She thoroughly enjoyed her spanking and orgasms and watching her surface from subspace was a great experience.

I must warn potential players that there a lot of extremely weird people out there and extreme care must be taken in selecting a partner you can trust as there is very little that you can do when propery restrained.

In fact there is a Dom who resides in the northern suburbs and who plays (preys?) mainly on the east rand who has been banned from the BDSM community for his excessive violence. Some of his young wannabe subs have ended up in casualty with broken limbs.

Playing is fun.
With the right person who you trust.
And trust has to be earned, it is not a given.

Spot on! Do you have any details of the guy you mention? If he has been shut out of the bdsm community, we are likely to be the next best thing/targets and somehow he sounds familiar. Please pm me if you are able to share any of the info.

Veronica you have a text

Thanks FMS....I will post on the girls forum tomorrow once I receive word from you just in case we are the next targets of that psycho!

xxxx

if i might add my 2c i wouldnt trust myself to dominate someone especially miss franco, ive never viewed her profile because i was never in jhb looking for just encounters always specific things and i have regulars for that but since i did and seeing her face shes unbelievably lovely on the other hand giving up to be dominated that is entirely dependent on if she is offering thats definitely one huge dent int he wallet im willing to happily consider worth every penny ... (and if you read this miss franco hope youre in a good mood )

Christian Grey. Has his own upperclass venue toys and equipment, unfortunatley does not advertise on ESA. LOL :) Hope you find your dom Kayleigh and have some good safe fun.