On 2026-01-22 07:26:59 Griffindude said:
JP you are 100% correct. Back in the day a SP was a woman that one could actually relate to at least on some level and the service that one received was on par with expectations most of the time. Even back in the days when there was not internet in order to facilitate a punter/SP interaction.

Nowadays most SP's tend to ignore the reason why the client is there in the first place and only want the money the client has. Don't get me wrong, not all SP's are like this but the majority for sure as shit is.

Nowadays the SP's want to have the benefits and financial security a marriage provides yet they want it all without having to do anything for the punter.

As a result, a lot of punters now refer to SP's as a mere life support system for a poes that is rented for an hour or so but also comes attached with a kak attitude and an opinion. The when the punter disapproves of the service he received the life support system insists on a "cancellation fee" as if she is entitled to one like a tool hire establishment.

[QUOTE;5890619;JackParrow69] On 2026-01-21 16:05:46 DaveJones said: This sex business is like being an expat abroad in the high risk zones.

The higher pay there is not really related to your skillset - you are still the same engineer in SA or in the war zones. The pay is super high because you may actually NOT come back alive so there has to be proper "compensation" for the discomfort/danger.

If a lady likes a punter enough only either chemistry or the RIGHT amount of compensation will then justify her enduring things she does not regularly offer.

Got it - LOL

That's where professionalism has fallen away of late. Professional wgs could deliver world class full service no matter the client. That's why they were professionals m it's a skill to be able to do the job irrespective.

These moonlighters now see it tomorrow like paid dating where they pick and choose who to give what and still get paid and the simps accept this like they're not the ones paying for explicit service and being done a favour to get what they paying for.

This industry is fucked. Miss the true professionals.

JP69

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I'm new here and this is sad reading for me. I was full of hope.

On 2026-01-22 13:32:56 MysticMike said:
On 2026-01-22 07:26:59 Griffindude said: JP you are 100% correct. Back in the day a SP was a woman that one could actually relate to at least on some level and the service that one received was on par with expectations most of the time. Even back in the days when there was not internet in order to facilitate a punter/SP interaction.

Nowadays most SP's tend to ignore the reason why the client is there in the first place and only want the money the client has. Don't get me wrong, not all SP's are like this but the majority for sure as shit is.

Nowadays the SP's want to have the benefits and financial security a marriage provides yet they want it all without having to do anything for the punter.

As a result, a lot of punters now refer to SP's as a mere life support system for a poes that is rented for an hour or so but also comes attached with a kak attitude and an opinion. The when the punter disapproves of the service he received the life support system insists on a "cancellation fee" as if she is entitled to one like a tool hire establishment.

[QUOTE;5890619;JackParrow69] On 2026-01-21 16:05:46 DaveJones said: This sex business is like being an expat abroad in the high risk zones.

The higher pay there is not really related to your skillset - you are still the same engineer in SA or in the war zones. The pay is super high because you may actually NOT come back alive so there has to be proper "compensation" for the discomfort/danger.

If a lady likes a punter enough only either chemistry or the RIGHT amount of compensation will then justify her enduring things she does not regularly offer.

Got it - LOL

That's where professionalism has fallen away of late. Professional wgs could deliver world class full service no matter the client. That's why they were professionals m it's a skill to be able to do the job irrespective.

These moonlighters now see it tomorrow like paid dating where they pick and choose who to give what and still get paid and the simps accept this like they're not the ones paying for explicit service and being done a favour to get what they paying for.

This industry is fucked. Miss the true professionals.

JP69

I'm new here and this is sad reading for me. I was full of hope.[/QUOTE]

Just book a girl and stop reading the forum. You are sad after 2 days on ESA!

Is this enough detail Bongz?

"I may have not cum...." stuck out to me.

www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php

On 2026-01-22 07:38:50 Sage said:
:) Back in the day tits had stars on and men went to war.
Men treated escorts as ladies and humanity as a whole were a lot less entitled.

Change is the only constant.

Keep choosing where you spend your money and who you choose to grace with a review.
You have the power.

I can't even fault you on that last part, Sage.

@JackParrow69 I couldn't agree more! When I first came into this industry with no backround or experience in this industry.. I was genuinely so surprised and confused to see how most of these girls fake it from start to finish. Sometimes about too much if you ask me..
Each to their own but I myself simply cannot bring myself to fake it because then I'll be treated accordingly and I personally don't want to be treated like a piece of meat or part of a conveyor belt system.
I'm a people's person and with me you will get the REAL GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE because I will give you the good, the 'uitkak' and the make up sex..lol;)
Chemistry and connection makes such a BIG difference ladies... Just keep it natural and enjoy the moment. xoxo