On 2025-11-27 14:43:27 JackParrow69 said:
On 2025-11-27 10:03:46 Russian Bridgitte said: On 2025-11-27 09:19:17 JackParrow69 said: On 2025-11-27 08:54:21 Griffindude said: Most of us are here as a result of that matrimony kak.

Lol, too true. Probably the biggest cause of punting.

JP69

If only all the men claiming matrimony kak punted...sighhhhh.

I wonder if it may boil down to something else maybe?...and not just "matrimony kak".

:)

RB.

Most are too scared unfortunately. They stand to lose everything so they sit at home and wank, hence the proliferation in porn and content sales. Even that too gives them a moer skrik in case their owner catches them. Any man would rather actually fuck but most have their balls in a jar under lock and key.

JP69

It's called "old pickled balls"

Laughing emojis....

On 2025-11-27 14:32:07 MickyGH said:
I was going to write a whole long essay on this.

A year of co-habitation gives me insight.

My lady was Thai. I was a generous SG. We also had a lot of fun. Not only the 5 star hotels, but doing simple fun stuff that provides daily Tik Tok, FB and IG content for everyone back home to see was fun. Of course my generosity was not enough as the "debt back was also just a little more".

I suspected things, but in general the rose tinted glasses came off and I was sleeping next to someone who didn't know her own country's history never mind my job or current affairs anywhere.

After dumping her, it took her 10 days to move in with a customer and get a tattoo of him on her body. The guy was really regular and I saw on her comms he irrigated her by pitching up if she didn't answer and wanted to spend the full time he paid for all the time.

Mine swallowed pills when I broke up with her once. Cost me a a lot of money. She was comatose for 2 full days so don't give me any comeback of how yours is different.

Anyway, here is the lesson. This is a wild place. These WGs are mercenaries. They don't give a damn about you. The only thing that didn't make me lose my mind, was that I broke up with her first. Being low priority for a WG is the bottom. What's going in that room is back ups being developed. Never get what number 1 gets. But you are not the only guy in her life when she works, and probably after.

Intense!

So here's a story.
A true story.

Sitting in my favourite bfst spot in CT , and when I travel I travel for weeks and not days for work work, I noticed a pair.

He was an elderly gent. In his late 60's or so
I wouldt have minded him being my man. Nice looking guy . A demeanor quiet yet, confident. He looked and "smelt" of a successful life.

Every morning he would be joined by an Asian lady. Nice looking woman. She always arrived after him.
They hardly spoke to each other.
I thought maybe a language barrier.

Some mornings they left together. He paid the bill.
Some mornings, she would get up and leave after finishing her food.
He paid the bill.



I promise you .Not an iota of recognition or intimacy between the two of them. She never ever looked at him and at times ate her food as if it had wronged her in some way.

He would glance at her now and again and I wondered what he might have been thinking.

Then one morning I saw him climbing out his car....The new Porsche Cayenne.

Damn!!!

In my head it started to possibly fucking make SOME sense.

It was about two weeks odd when things changed a bit.

He got up from the table and left bfr her and, didn't pay the bill.
She sat their cool as a cucumber and the only sign that she was in any way affected was the fast tapping of her foot.

I wondered.

Was she my "pier". Grin.
A mail bride?
Looking for a way out of her woes?

Was he a man looking for a companion?
Bride?
Needed some tlc?
Looking to "save" her?....feeling she may gain as much as he could too?...without too much fuss or demand.

I didn't see them after that.

What a pity he didn't at least come to bfst....smile.

And so it got me to thinking of those men who need companionship and ladies looking for an answer to their woes.

There are more of "them" out of the purple world than in the purple world...and can play the game better and get away with it than any "hoe" in the adult world. Why ? Because men will buy into "their" story without judgement or cynicism

I wonder how many "Asian brides" are there on this site?
I know. I know...smile.

RB.

My two cents -

Falling in love is a natural human instinct.
It has no rhyme or reason .
So definitely very possible to fall in love with anyone especially a wg as you share intimate secrets.
I've found wgs to be easier to share deepest thoughts because once you have intimacy a lot of social boundaries are broken down.

The problem is like falling in love with any couple.
Things and priorities do change.
It won't be the same energy excitement etc as when you do a booking.
Also with love comes the usual baggage like emotions and jealousy.
Therein lies the issue with dating or marry a wg.
Found unfortunately men who marry wgs tend to be leeches and pimps.
They can perhaps get away from the jealousy etc that we all feel because they depend on the woman for money whether to feed a habit etc etc

Surely if you as a man love a woman you wouldn't want her having sex with different men .

So unless the wg completely stops it's going be difficult.
I do know a friend who married a wg from summit in fact lol.
They emigrated to Canada and were married for over 10 years.
She got a normal job etc.

Marriage broke down due to normal issues that couples face .
The time she worked as a wg was long forgotten and not at all the cause of the breakdown.
So it can be done -

The happy ending in Pretty Woman can be a reality .

I think Trust will be an issue since both are part of this purple world ,unless they very open minded

Rather do the hourly marriage lol

#shithappens