Hi all,

I have had quite a few pm's from curious and apprehensive members, who have asked a few questions.

I am sure we all felt this way before we attended a social, so rather than me trying to explain it. I thought I would post this thread and everyone could respond with their personal experience. That way everyone gets a general perspective on the socials.

Some questions were
.. what happens at the socials?
What if I bump into someone I know?
Will people judge me at the socials?

Please post your experiences.

Thanks

Arz

I'm have only attended one at Celeste's place, albeit a small group one. Everybody was really chilled, chatting like old friends.

I was really nervous but relaxed quickly. As for the punters, they were all normal okes like me.

My experience is immensely positive. Not only are the other punters " normal okes like us", just like I am who I am said, so are the girls.

I also find that I can be less reserved than I would ordinarily be, in that I know that we all play in the "naughty adult world" and, as a result, there are fewer taboos that need be observed.

That said, attending an ESA social, for the first time, can be intimidating.

Does depend on exactly who attends I guess.

We're also not really strangers at these events. The girls and punters have their profiles and ESA names and are already known by these, together with their forum posts.

Absolutely Q. There are also few better than Arizona at making these events memorable and enjoyable.

I have only been to one a few years ago when I was invited by a lady that was attending.

Everyone was cool fun and enjoyable company. Just like a really good fun work based get together except with very sexy women and the almost certain prospect of getting ones rocks off before the night is out.

No trouble, chilled atmosphere and lots of laughter.