On 2025-07-14 10:52:36 JC420 said:
Great points. My mini rant below.
Morale of story is that, I'd like a bit more professionalism, some basics go a long way.
Ladies, please sort out your opening message or rates info.
It such a pain when I have to send multiple messages to ask for specifics and options. What's included and not.
It gives me confidence in the punt if I see its all laid out clearly.
Similar to other punters, my schedule only allows certain gaps which I punt in during the week and is more flexible on weekends.
I often message well before intended day. And give a range, saying i'll contact closer to the time. This is so they dont lose a booking if I dont confirm.
I try to confirm around 1-3 hours before. If its for the morning, it will be the evening/night before and many times ladies have let me down on a confirmed time.
So caught inbetween on which is better strategy. I just play it by vibe now.
Some ladies seem to get extremely offended by clarifying questions or asking about if any extras are available. I'm only doing this so we are on the same page when I arrive, even then, some ladies have to open up the messages to confirm what we discussed. C'mon if we've confirmed, you should do all that before we get there.
I dont message ladies unnecessarily to avoid wasting their time, but it seems some ladies prefer a bit more of a convo.
Some ladies, I confirm a time, knowing I have something after. Say 12h00, 1 hour - expecting to head for next meeting around 14h00. Knowing we may extend or whatever. Then, i'm waiting in car for 25-30 mins for them to finalise getting ready. Yes, dont rush hygiene and getting ready, but then lets coordinate time better.
My rant over. All i'm saying, fixing these things will make me more likely to return. I understand certain things is preferred to be discussed in person, then please just say that and guys be respectful of that.
On 2025-07-10 20:42:26 Allora said:
On 2025-07-10 17:18:44 FrecklesLover said: On 2025-07-10 14:58:34 Allora said:
You know what I've realised though , is that some times I will switch that available indicator on, and get calls immediately. And you wanna know what's funny? Some days I do the same, then wait 30 minutes after 30 minutes and no calls, no text, but the minutes im occupied, and now my availability indicator is off , then my phone loose it, and ring out of control, with number of requests on my what's app
All we see is the last online time on your profile which I think updates every time you log in .
If you were last online at least 8 hours ago most punters will message you because we are assuming you're still working today.
The available stuff is just for you to show up on the available now section which only desperate punters use.
Really?
Wait I'm confused, you say you cant see the current available ladies now? And only the desperate punters can?
Who are the desperate punters Who are so fortunate to have this options, because each time we switch that available now indicator, we avail our self for them, I wanna know who are the desperate punters? Are the Gold members? Because according are a basic member right?
Unless you saying to me , you guys are saying, you are not looking for the current available ladies, but the specific lady of your choice
Then I think I will understand
Allora