My clients happily talk about their wives , kids , work , even show me pics of their family....

What's the big deal if I have a family too?


In fact 99 percent of my clients are married. ...

Uhmmm......

And I get asked all sorts of personal questions,,,

I must say it is an enjoyable experience to know a SP has a husband... it makes the whole seem a little more kinky. I generally buy content before booking a lady to make sure I like what I see and the videos where their husband/bf fucks them is so sexy!!! I must say Katya's one video of her husband/bf fucking her doggy style until she cums is fucken sexy!!!!

Who knows. Maybe to make sure you don't get involved with her young asking to much info or she feels u need to back off. And than you get instances where she wants you to understand why she is the way she is be it abuse physical or verbal. Or she wants to keep things sexual or maybe that's clients fetish having a married sp when it's supposed to be someone of limits.

On 2025-02-07 12:17:50 Leeu loop said:
I have searched the forum to find a possible answer....

Lately I noticed more and more SP's are very keen to tell you during or after a session that they have a life partner.

So my question is why?? Why is it so important that the message gets landed. This isnt a dating site and I never looked for love. So why tell a punter that?

Cause all it does is making me feel uneasy. Not into a fantasy of banging someones wife / lover.

It breaks that connection immediately and I most likely wont return. Cause in the back of my mind I am going, did I come accross desparate. Did I make her feel I want more? Did I at some point make her think I want BB??
Why else tell me that? Times have really changed.

SPs are humans too. Perhaps in future you can avoid this by laying down your ground rules at the beginning, which could include not hearing about partners? I don't think that SPs intend to leave you with those thoughts as they do have an incentive for happy clients.

@ KT123 thank you !

On 2025-02-07 12:17:50 Leeu loop said:
I have searched the forum to find a possible answer....

Lately I noticed more and more SP's are very keen to tell you during or after a session that they have a life partner.

So my question is why?? Why is it so important that the message gets landed. This isnt a dating site and I never looked for love. So why tell a punter that?

Cause all it does is making me feel uneasy. Not into a fantasy of banging someones wife / lover.

It breaks that connection immediately and I most likely wont return. Cause in the back of my mind I am going, did I come accross desparate. Did I make her feel I want more? Did I at some point make her think I want BB??
Why else tell me that? Times have really changed.

This is your own insecurities and self doubt. You did not do anything, to the contrary if you did do anything wrong, the SP would close off and not feel comfortable at all for even sharing anything with you. You're clearly a nice enough guy that you made her feel comfortable and safe enough to be herself. In future just relax, you are the 4th client for the day, the 12th for the week. You're overthinking it. Whatever you think you may have done, she put a guy in his place for yesterday and similarly you would have known if you crossed a boundary. And if it really bothers you, just tell any SP ahead of time what your preferences are in terms of conversation, they will gladly oblige.

Some guys also don't like it because deep down they have a fantasy of a special connection with the SP which for them gets killed when it's clear that she already has that connection with someone else. Even if an SP is single there is always a boundary so the chances of any connection does not automatically increase. I've had great connections with girls in relationships who sometimes also uses the industry as an escape, and some have partners who don't even know what they really they do which tells you a lot. The point is we don't know what goes on in anyone's personal life, whether they are single or not, so don't let it bother you, and speak up if you don't want to hear such details. The SP you think is single is most likely not and still in an on and off relationship with her baby Daddy or "ex".

On 2025-02-11 15:02:17 Lowden said:
On 2025-02-07 12:17:50 Leeu loop said:

I think you spot on. And what you said makes perfect sense.
Well to me personally. I am definitely over thinking this.
Thank you for this.

Happy valentines day to all the couples out there. May you have a day filled with love and happiness