How do u explain to a wg that u can change in a very unpredictable way but get a kick outta really agressive sex and she needs to pull leash every now and than and ask for her limits so u know how far to take it. But she has to initiate it. And how to ask her if squirting pleasureable or painful for her or even if she'd like to experience it not because u wanna see it but if she genuinely likes it. Same for extreme bondage or anything that gets her turned on. Outta curiousty how many wgs here liked squirting or find it an enjoyable experience.

What makes you think that squirting is in any way painful?

I can only use myself as an example. I don't do pain in the bedroom... So when something is uncomfortable or bordering pain thresholds... I go dry as the desert.

And my advise on the above as with anything else on life. Just say it. Start the conversation. It can go one of two ways. And if it's towards the awkward side, rather keep what you have with the one sp. And find another that caters to that specific niche.

May the odds be ever in your favour ;)

I hear you brother but what you are asking for requires trust....when she knows you and you know her cos pushing the limits requires trust...and can be fuck8ng phenomenal when you have it with someone. Cos when you have it and during the encounter rose says no but you know she NEEDS yes. She knows it and after there's no repercussions...cos you mean no harm. But achieving that level of trust takes time or next level connection...good luck I hope you find it!! Cos if it's found both you and her will surpass boundaries you both never realized!!!