Racism is about hatred.
Personal preference is about choice.

Don't conflate the two, they're not necessarily related, to imply they are, is racist in and of itself.

Now, Condensed Milk in one's coffee is all about getting fat, and shame on you people for reminding me I love it.

On 2022-08-24 17:17:28 IOverflow said:
I think they are equivelant.
I am comparing racial preference with sexual preference.
At the end of the day you are rejecting other parties because of physical features/appearances.
I could also say that people only see their own kind because of cultural and religious norms.

You are just as bad as the person being racist because you don't want to sleep with a Gay/Trans person. Think about how the Gay and Trans people were excluded back in the day, they were heavily shunned upon.
Having to resort to pretending to be people who they were not.
People were beaten to death because of this...

At the end of the day, we are all human beings who deserve equal opportunity as any other human being.
Don't think that being racist is a serious crime above the rest, it is not. If you can say that you are happy to sleep with anyone regardless of their sexual orientation, only then can you critisize about other people.

Even on those grounds your point doesn't stand (in the context of an industry norm like ROAR). Consider this, SPs don't even get to see what any of us look like before agreeing to provide us with their services, regardless of race. We all have different body types, heights, looks, body art, personalities. SPs (including those with racial ROAR policies) already see punters who don't fit their sexual preferences regardless of race.

As for this: "I could also say that people only see their own kind because of cultural and religious norms." That's exactly what's being discussed here. More precisely a social and historical context that leads to a "sexual preference" that's predominantly expressed in an exclusionary manner against one group. I even asked someone to post an ad of just one lady of colour who doesn't see white punters solely because they're white - and even though more than 80% of the 1000+ ads on here are by women of colour I have almost no doubt he won't find one.

As for your last point, I actually do engage in sex with people of all genders and sexualities. The reason there's no equivalence though is because homosexuals by definition aren't attracted to heterosexuals, and vice versa, and this has a lot to do with biology (though culture and religion factor into it as well). The same can't be said for race.

And all we had to do was wait for Katy/Roxy to come in and prove the point. There's a bit of amusing irony in that even when ladies of colour have racial ROAR policies in place, those policies still exclude men of colour. It's also a good example of how racism and white supremacy infects everyone in this country, not just white people.

On 2022-08-24 18:22:33 Lady Alexa said:
Innocent question for kaycee,

Why do you always say everyone is on drugs?

Also, maybe she started young because of circumstances,

I don't think that response is appropriate, especially on a sex site.

Look at her and Roxy, same whatsapp group