Some punters and WGs simply click and they become regulars. What is the qualities that a punter or WG want to see in a regular partner? Surely we all have different preferences (but some basics are the same lol)

Reliability.
Trustworthiness.
Some willingness to open up.

For me it is first and foremost how well we can carry a conversation together and also whether or not the girl remembers who I am and atleast snippets of what he discussed in the past to still be able to reference to sometimes - it might be silly but personally it just shows me that she doesn't just think if me as some nameless faceless ATM transaction, also gives the impression that she maybe enjoys our interactions atleast in some ways to be able to remember details (maybe just a trick to get me to think this way but even so, it's working!!)

My best and only regular who I keep going back to for years and years now is none other than the amazing Rachel*. There is honestly nothing that another girl has that she doesn't or can do better (sorry ladies) and by now we have such a great and strong understanding of each other that the sessions just flow seemlessly. (*ad active atm)

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I have a regular who I connect with over tea and biscuits.

He has been seeing me every month at least once or twice a month since I went independent and it's simply because in his words, "I don't treat him like a piece of meat." He has always been STRICTLY sensual massage. But we connect over laughter, old music, Chai tea and biscuits.

I love that his definition of intimacy is sending me pictures of his garden and telling me stories of his formative years as a real charmer amongst both sexes.

I hear the same stories every time I see this man and I genuinely never get sick of hearing it because he is such a beautiful soul and he is REAL.

So for me, I love depth, raw Unapologetic character, respect and knowing that you feel safe enough to share things of importance with me.

I really can't even keep a cacti alive. I know nothing of plants except that I think some are incredibly beautiful.

But it's important to him and in exchange I get to ramble on about astrology.

Each client is different. But energy exchange is more than cash and it's just allowing both parties to feel safe enough to be themselves without judgment.

There is no price on that.

My favourite regular comes once a week. We have an amazing sexual attraction. We've become such good friends, often calling each other only to chat. He "gets" me and I "get" him. The sex is phenomenal, some of the best I've ever had. It is all about chemistry. Both parties should feel it, without that it's pointless becoming a regular.

We all just want to connect.
To see and be seen.
To be recognized.
To touch and be touched.

Our search for intimacy
Is about feeling
Vulnerable and safe
At the same time.

These are are rare,
And when we find them,
We return again and again,
To bury ourselves.

On 2022-08-01 18:46:10 SloJoeJhb said:
We all just want to connect.
To see and be seen.
To be recognized.
To touch and be touched.

Our search for intimacy
Is about feeling
Vulnerable and safe
At the same time.

And that very last sentence is probably the most important part of any relationship.. be it SP and Punter or in one's private life....

We need that connection that know that you are safe no matter how you bear your soul to that person you with .. that you won't be judged or treated than less or even shamed for your vulnarable ties.

On 2022-08-01 18:46:10 SloJoeJhb said:
We all just want to connect.
To see and be seen.
To be recognized.
To touch and be touched.

Our search for intimacy
Is about feeling
Vulnerable and safe
At the same time.

These are are rare,
And when we find them,
We return again and again,
To bury ourselves.

Well worded....

What will remove someone from the potential regular list is treating a punter like an ATM or cash loan business...or calling me Babe...Angel, Sweety etc.


Babe come for me gets me to f*** off very quickly....

On 2022-08-01 18:13:41 you53 said:
Some punters and WGs simply click and they become regulars. What is the qualities that a punter or WG want to see in a regular partner? Surely we all have different preferences (but some basics are the same lol)

Impeccable hygiene, as well as manners (no, it doesn't mean you may not get nasty at the right time).
Good banter.
Don't be stingy.

On 2022-08-01 19:12:28 Sabrina @ Le Belle said:

Impeccable hygiene, as well as manners (no, it doesn't mean you may not get nasty at the right time).
Good banter.
Don't be stingy.

Stingy... Physically or Fiscally?