"Your actually a lot smaller than I thought you where" said a gentleman with a suprised look on his face;) hehehe

Had a good inner giggle as a result of that comment, we can't control how people precieve us or react to our reality when actually seeing us face to face:)

But the fact that I am now seen as a bit less than expected was quiet a change lol, normally I am a bit more than some expected;)

I am waist thick, I don't have a waist and have a mommy tummy, I have boobs, enough of it. I have calve muscles thanks to a lifetime of hockey and swimming. But I ain't tall, I am a short shit, I don't have an ass,I could have done with some more padding in that area, someone once told me mid session that someone stole my ass, sent me into a giggling fit for a good 10 minutes. I don't have big thighs or big feet either, I wear a size 4 or 5 shoe.;)

Yes I aint the tipical bbw(big beautiful women) but I ain't the tipical skinny petite either, I am somewhat confusing to some men it seems;)

I find that to be an amazing opportunity and challenge to introduce then to a different kind of body..one that is all women and soft and firm at the same time, willing and so very pleasing if you allow your mind to stop doing mental gymnastics around the slightly different than expected.

For guys I think mental images might not be so far removed from reality as you have some visual aids like profile photos ect to help, except maybe when it comes to faces as a lot of ladies do not show faces.

We ladies on the other hand have nothing to work from to build a mental picture except the odd comment here or there on the forum or a chat over call or what's up , maybe we get lucky and there is a whatsap profile photo, so meeting punters sometimes are quite surprising too.

Sometimes they match that mental image you built to the T, the guy with that something "extra" that makes them stand out a bit and you just know that is the person without even an introduction.

Other times they don't match that mental image at all and you left wondering where is that "extra" I don't see it, I would never in a hundred years have matched the name, the conversation the mental image I had with the reality;)

In the beginning the voice i would speak to would potentially raise an image in my head.

I learnt very quickly to put that aside as deep voices do not mean big burly men as the softer one does not mean a smaller framed man i.e. that was my personal perception.
Today, though, if i think the voice sounds too young i will ask for the age as i do not entertain very young Gents.

I don't tend to look at the pics as i learnt very quickly many are false images simply to lure one into whatever that person was thinking.

What has proven to be near 100% as to what sort of man shall be walking thru my door, is the communication between them and I.

I give everybody a chance to speak to me BUT, am very aware of warning bells and thus will drop a conversation IMMEDIATELY if those warning bells go off, and am not keen to give that person a second chance.

Do i honestly care what the Punter looks like? Not at all.

What i DO CARE ABOUT is the cleanliness, the hygiene, the mannerism and behaviour and the show of respect toward me.

I know i am not everybody's cup of tea in looks and shape but, i do know i hold some guys interests and willingness to share of their time with me for many other reasons.

But yes Ms Red u are right.

Question though....if the SP did know what the Punter might look like , do u think she would be as open and willing to enjoy herself with them?

Would there not be a subconscious block thus jeopardizing a potentially excellent share?

Just reading some of the remarks made by some SP's I get a feeling they would tell certain Punters to simply fuck off....no holds barred.

RB.

.....Do i honestly care what the Punter looks like? Not at all.

What i DO CARE ABOUT is the cleanliness, the hygiene, the mannerism and behaviour and the show of respect toward me.
.......


In this my dear RB I feel we might be the same.... I do not care at all about physical appearances.;)

I think we all appreciate cleanliness,higiene and the show of respect towards us, just as gentlemen appreciate that from us.

I do find manerisms and behaviours to be the first and final tilt of the scale of whether I will be attracted to someone or not.

As for this comment....

....Just reading some of the remarks made by some SP's I get a feeling they would tell certain Punters to simply fuck off....no holds barred....


I think you are 100% correct in that observation.. ;)

Which might be sad for them in the end because in this space if you as an SP are placing more value on the physical appearance of a potential client than all the other above mentioned attributes,you are bound to loose out on meeting genuinely amazing people.

My post might have been a bit of kilter and not explained well when saying ," I don't see that "extra"...

That had not so much to do with physical appearance as it had to do with the fact that the person character if you must, did not quiet fit the picture I had in my head;)

And I never said the picture not matching was a bad thing..;) it was actually a very pleasant and most welcome surprise to find a respectable somewhat reserved person ,instead of the in your face "I am the man " image that had been built over time.

On 2022-07-30 12:14:37 Miss Red ( Aka Louise ) said:
"Your actually a lot smaller than I thought you where"

I am also very small

Hehehe...at Minime... I have absolutely no idea how to respond to your statement... Hehehe somehow I just know I will be putting my foot in it no matter what i say lol

I was about to give a long extended reply... but thought about what I REALLY want to say...

@Miss Red and @RB I love you both very much. I just genuinely appreciate every comment, every insight and every thread where your names appear. That's all. Just some love. Just some appreciation.

Have a great day <3

On 2022-07-31 11:44:29 Raphael_ Xclusive said:
I was about to give a long extended reply... but thought about what I REALLY want to say...

@Miss Red and @RB I love you both very much. I just genuinely appreciate every comment, every insight and every thread where your names appear. That's all. Just some love. Just some appreciation.

Have a great day <3

Many hugs ..thank you so much for those compliments.. And just so you know the feeling is mutual, you are definitely one of my favourite reads when you do post or comment so never let anything stop you from sharing your thoughts and views.

On 2022-07-31 11:07:35 Minime V10.1 said:
On 2022-07-30 12:14:37 Miss Red ( Aka Louise ) said: "Your actually a lot smaller than I thought you where"


I am also very small

Really...?

;)

R_X

...and in return appreciation for much insight u post when it comes to things very different to what I thought I knew.

Thank u for the education.

And.

Thank u for ur appreciation.

RB.