On 2022-07-31 11:01:49 Victoria The Original said:
My detractors can't be "spot on" about a service they have never received!

Kooni is a well known liar

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You are your own worst enemy Victoria, and obviously to close to the forest to see the trees. That makes you not only perpetually rude, but also delusional.
But whatever, you be you, and if your shitty attitude is what you need to shield you from your own obvious unhappiness, then do that. It's nobodies business but your own.

On 2022-07-31 12:37:36 StaalBurger48 said:
On 2022-07-31 11:01:49 Victoria The Original said: My detractors can't be "spot on" about a service they have never received!

Kooni is a well known liar

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You are your own worst enemy Victoria, and obviously to close to the forest to see the trees. That makes you not only perpetually rude, but also delusional.
But whatever, you be you, and if your shitty attitude is what you need to shield you from your own obvious unhappiness, then do that. It's nobodies business but your own.

Well said....

On 2022-07-31 10:54:29 Sabrina @ Le Belle said:
If you're not a client who spends money on me, I owe you nothing. This is not a dating site

Spot on! It's amazing how many people want to chit chat but never books or wants to take you out but not pay. Unfortunately there are always going to be those who treat Esa as a dating site as there are ladies who entertain it. Just smile and block. Don't waist time and energy on them.

Fukkit...That's me done with sending those naughty Gif's and emoji's !!!

Its a service, if want to compliment. 5 min chat is enough
. No need to chat all day. What if she responds when wife is around

Manners play a big role. Ive had to cancel bookings due to rudeness, or lack of connection displayed negatively, also dropped some regulars due to the same. I find it hard to engage sexually with someone who is spewing negative energy, this goes to relations outside punting as well. This is a free world, nobody is forced to see the other. On calls and such i keen it short, just ask the basics, and thats it, however sometimes with some regulars we normally chat abit, naughty stuff and all. Ladies who understand this is a service industry and act accordingly go far, and gents who just go along with basic tenets of respect score big. Basic rule, rudeness on the phone = no booking. On arrival if you sense the same, just leave, dont go ahead with the booking. And do rate them so we can avoid them

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So my question is this, do manners and mannerisms play a role when choosing where to spend your money and time, or do you merely go with looks and whatever else blows your hair back?

Well that went South very fast haha!
40% of my choice of booking is based on the looks that attracted me to the profile. The other 60% is based on my interaction with the person. I've dropped ladies who are hot AF for more average looking providers based on their vibe over the phone. It's not a true science, you can't always get it right - but it works for me.
What Gabby said is very true, sometimes you may catch a great gal on a bad day and not get a good vibe of her. Unfortunately you now have an unfavorable perception of her. Like a lady on this specific thread, she is so hot but I always find her comments off-putting on the forum so she will never see me. It's not you, it's me!

The best advice I can give you from personal experience is CALL, DON'T TEXT! Text messages do not portray "US" as "US" haha! Call her, talk to her, let her know who you are.
I tried my hardest texting a provider over a period of a week trying to secure an overnight booking at my place(being at my place was the issue) and I just couldn't convince her, was so bummed as everything lined up perfectly for that weekend. Then I rang her up the following week, booked her,went and met her and everything changed. Now she messages me from Jhb asking if she can come over....You learn everyday ...

My situation is that I do not reside in one of the cities our lovely site caters for. From time to time I do pass through one of the cities listed here, and after having my...uhm...fingers burned one time too many, I do not make use of other sites.
I need to have a chat beforehand, as that allows me to plan. When I do have time, and I log on, usually my favorites are not available and I do not have the luxury of make a booking later in the day/the next day. Therefore I like to reach out beforehand, even a week or two in advance, to try and get a feel for the lady. I tend to prefer GFE more than PSE, hence a connection is more important to me. I have scratched ladies from my wish list, based on their telephone manners-or lack thereof.
I do realize that you get a hundred calls a day from time-wasters, as do I. Being in the retail industry, I have to take every call as though this is the next big deal phoning me.
Just my 2cents!

I don't mind a text, as long as it's kept short and sweet and to the point. Hi may I please have your rates and services
I immediately send my automated message with rates and services plus a face pic. If a client compliments me I respond with a thank you. Telephone etiquette is important.

On a lighter note. I had a client contact me asking if it was really me on the photos, I replied saying, no it's my twin brother in drag, of course it's me lol.
He burst out laughing and that was that, my sense of humor sealed the deal. I didn't respond in a nasty way but rather made a joke. Til today he's a regular.

Mr S Burger

The easiest way to deal with this is to just not compliment any lady anymore. Some like it and others hate it. There is no way that you will know how they will react......so just dont do it again.

Did the lady go to allot of trouble and is proud of her pics.......well tough shit! Dont say anything about any pictures again.

Regards

Mr M Me