Anyone else noticing the complete extinction of the youthful, varsity student type? More so with whit ladies and in Pretoria. Some venues in Pretoria were renowned for attracting only the best young poppies.

Now there's nothing?

Curious as to the reasons? Sugar daddy sites? Because with the current state of the economy you would definitely think there'll be more SP's from this bracket

Compared to 5 years ago, a lot has changed in the way women perceive themselves, especially the younger generations.

Women and young girls (aged 18 of course) now don't feel pressured to sexualise themselves for approval anymore.

This impacts a lot of adult sites where younger generations expect more from men than to be treated as objects.

Besides, I feel it should be frowned upon to book an 18year old. Because a few weeks prior to that, she was still just 17, and if you're one of those that eagerly wait for her 18th birthday, I'd be worried.

Which I appreciate about ESA is not having advertisers under the age of 21. But unfortunately you get those that slip through the cracks.

@Saffron Skye - I don't think the OP was talking about 18 year olds.

I also have a different view on younger women not feeling pressured to sexualise themselves for approval because social media says otherwise - look at TikTok, Instagram and Twitter. Reality also says otherwise - just go out to bars and nightclubs and you'll see it live and direct.

On 2022-07-27 11:58:44 Littlerascal said:
@Saffron Skye - I don't think the OP was talking about 18 year olds.

I also have a different view on younger women not feeling pressured to sexualise themselves for approval because social media says otherwise - look at TikTok, Instagram and Twitter. Reality also says otherwise - just go out to bars and nightclubs and you'll see it live and direct.

Yeah I was about to say the exact same - just look at TikTok haha. "Don't objectify me but let me thirst trap all you guys out here with provocative dance moves in lingerie"..

I'm a young guy myself, late 20's and my view is
times have changed, even for normal dating and hooking up. Social media has changed the game. All the odds are against the guys and dynamics make it so much harder nowadays.

Every decently pretty or even average girl out there has thousands of followers on Instagram, thus hundreds of guys chasing after her and boosting her ego with every like. Skews the supply and demand, giving her infinite amount of options to choose from. With higher demand, commodity prices rise and thus the consumer (guys) have to sacrifice a lot more for the commodity of feminine beauty. Previously, a ladies only options were here immediate circle and people present at the clubs she's out at.

With the rise of platforms for selling nudes etc., young ladies have "paypigs" sending them hundreds of dollars for mere feet pics, expecting nothing more in return.

Guys are hesitant to even make a move on ladies in clubs and bars, in fear of being accused of harassment.


Thankfully with this industry, I've been with many girls hotter than most of my mates can dream of, sacrificing a couple of hundred bucks, whilst my mates are out there sacrificing their lives and sanity for "the one". Unfortunately, those days of youthful hotties seem to be gone in SA.

I was in the UK for a few months and the amount of uni students on sugar daddy websites is crazy. Got speaking to absolute 10's willing to meet for a couple of hundred quid. And they don't seem to like condoms there in the UK. Which made me quite worried and the reason why I didnt indulge more.

It was the word "dearth" that caught my attention.

Your summation is similar to a study I read and do agree with what u say....

My favourite part of all u wrote is...

"....Yeah I was about to say the exact same - just look at TikTok haha. "Don't objectify me but let me thirst trap all you guys out here with provocative dance moves in lingerie"..

Is this just another more acceptable way of "whoring" ...?

:)

RB.

I been thinking the same lately there are hardly any white true 20s olds wgs on esa or similar sites, change in technology platform you should your strategy to contact them directly in other social sites such as Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, tiktock.
Even tinder is outdated technology there are hardly no young white girls.
Surprised there is no uber like escort platform here like in Thailand.

There is a strip Club in PE (next to the Airport) where I found white ladies in their late 20s- not sure if they do offer sex?

Only fans lower price but more income overall they seem to feel OK doing all the sex work but with one person or a whole bunch of toys then selling a subscription so people can watch seems like sW to me but maybe I'm old fashioned

Probably due to the rise in "simp" websites.
The ladies have money thrown at them and don't even need to ever be in the same room.