I have 3 "dream type hot blonde" ladyfriends I have known for 10+ years. Super attractive you will not help fantasize about them but nothing has ever happened. You CAN be 100% platonic friends with the opposite sex. We have been friends this long as I have seen them cutoff guys who have attempted to go over the line.
I also have one with whom we do fuck! She was clear about the transition. Definitely feelings are involved but I like her enough to not mind her catching feelings - she is such an amazing fuck, completely open-minded.
I will 3some her with Laura Love (when I grow up): (
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