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Q for the Gents
Posted: 2022-07-03 18:40:50
Edited: 2022-07-03 18:42:20
Edited: 2022-07-03 18:42:20
Gentlemen, what would YOU be like as an SP?
Let me hear how you would be on the other end... what if you didn't find a punter attractive or what if the most attractive woman of your dreams came walking in?
How would you AS A MAN be as a service provider?
Im not interested in what your tips are for existing sp's, I'm interested in hearing about YOU, hypothetically speaking being an advertiser...
How would you market yourself?
What sort of look would you go for?
What outfit would you wear?
What kinks would you offer?
I have loadshedding so this is a light hearted thread for my own shits and giggles.
Let's have fun with this
xxx
Let me hear how you would be on the other end... what if you didn't find a punter attractive or what if the most attractive woman of your dreams came walking in?
How would you AS A MAN be as a service provider?
Im not interested in what your tips are for existing sp's, I'm interested in hearing about YOU, hypothetically speaking being an advertiser...
How would you market yourself?
What sort of look would you go for?
What outfit would you wear?
What kinks would you offer?
I have loadshedding so this is a light hearted thread for my own shits and giggles.
Let's have fun with this
xxx
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Re: Q for the Gents
Posted: 2022-07-03 19:00:20
Edited: 2022-07-03 19:00:47
Edited: 2022-07-03 19:00:47
If the tables were turned... Will probably suck at this kind of thing. Pre booking nerves might be the death of me...
Will probably just wear a suit.. something formal.. tie optional..
Kinks will be probably that one slippery finger...
Will probably just wear a suit.. something formal.. tie optional..
Kinks will be probably that one slippery finger...
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Re: Q for the Gents
Posted: 2022-07-04 08:44:20
Edited: 2022-07-04 08:44:57
@PHG Those pre booking nerves never go away... when I used to work at a spa, I'd pace up and down in a panic. Everyone would tell me to calm down and relax, which only added to the panic.
Now I still get nervous but I romanticise my space and I move things around slightly, play music, I meditate and go outside do deep breaths and ask that I may give my best service be safe and do the highest good for everyone involved. I kind of make my pacing, more of a float now and gently ease into the arrival.
My question to you @PHG, do you get pre booking nerves as a punter?
Edited: 2022-07-04 08:44:57
On 2022-07-03 19:00:20 PHG733 said:
If the tables were turned... Will probably suck at this kind of thing. Pre booking nerves might be the death of me...
Will probably just wear a suit.. something formal.. tie optional..
Kinks will be probably that one slippery finger...
@PHG Those pre booking nerves never go away... when I used to work at a spa, I'd pace up and down in a panic. Everyone would tell me to calm down and relax, which only added to the panic.
Now I still get nervous but I romanticise my space and I move things around slightly, play music, I meditate and go outside do deep breaths and ask that I may give my best service be safe and do the highest good for everyone involved. I kind of make my pacing, more of a float now and gently ease into the arrival.
My question to you @PHG, do you get pre booking nerves as a punter?
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Re: Q for the Gents
Posted: 2022-07-04 10:26:44
Lol I would probably just give it up for free whenever I'm horny (which is always!).
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Re: Q for the Gents
Posted: 2022-07-04 14:49:58
How will you purchase products, safety precautions, do washing, pay rent?
You @Shadowfox sound like you would need to a slave for a Mistress or have a Sugar Mommy sort of arrangement lol
On 2022-07-04 10:26:44 ShadowfaxCool said:
Lol I would probably just give it up for free whenever I'm horny (which is always!).
How will you purchase products, safety precautions, do washing, pay rent?
You @Shadowfox sound like you would need to a slave for a Mistress or have a Sugar Mommy sort of arrangement lol
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Re: Q for the Gents
Posted: 2022-07-04 14:59:47
Scary thought!! ;))
I think the sheer magnitude of the challenge of trying to market a 60yr old mutt like me could be the reason why I don't think there are any that even tries :))
I think the sheer magnitude of the challenge of trying to market a 60yr old mutt like me could be the reason why I don't think there are any that even tries :))
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