(And no, not referring to shaking it off with the five knuckle shuffle)

Got thrown off the punting wagon after an experience that should've opened a whole new punting world for me. Perhaps it was because it wasn't expected or because it was not the usual norm I wanted but nonetheless it left a rather distasteful taste in my mouth (and no not literally).
Completely changed my outlook on punting and the whole paying for sex thing and I've even completely lost all my admiration for a very awesome lady and maybe as a result, all the ladies in general....?
For whatever reason tho I can't seem to shake this experience from my head and somehow now I've lost that 'lus' to go punting. That urge or craving is still there but the 'lus' for it seems to be missing (if that makes sense)

Usually I would never give too much thought to a booking. If it was good-whoop di do, lets go again & again. If it was bad- write it off and move on. Was never overkill before. Would find a profile I liked. Read up on it, check reviews and make a call or still better yet would call up a regular and know I'm in for a great time so the smiles would start early and last till late on.
Now I'm perplexed. Not on choice but on punting itself. Wanting to go for a booking is itself convoluting. Will I be disappointed and leave dissatisfied and have aching reminders of a bad experience is where my thoughts wonder to rather than the bliss and unadulterated fun I should be focused on.

Can 1 bad booking really induce such discord? Are we such creatures of habit that we will not accept change or are we at right to demand what we want as it is us who are paying?
Having a regular/s means always having that reliable awesome booking but when that changes, what do you change? Yourself or your regular?

A booking should be an experience. Whether you go for pse or gfe, it should be something to write home about not something you regret. You should leave in awe of the amazing lady you spent the hour/s with, counting down to the next meeting not having sick feelings of disgust.

Do you tell a WG exactly what you want and what you not cool with or do you go along with what she prefers & the things she likes doing too even if they put you out of your element? Great sex is spontaneous, never over-thought and detailed out like a plan of action. What really adds to the experience and what ruins it?

Should I chalk this off to that pile of ' oh well 'fuck it' memories that no one wants and just dive back in? Or did I reach that punting culdesac?

Are my punting days over? Or is this just a phase to shake off?

"Got thrown off the punting wagon after an experience that should've opened a whole new punting world for me." Replace the the "should've with "could've" and if it did open a whole new punting world for you, you would of still been in awe of the lady in question! She would be the one with who you had you greatest punt ever and not the one you are now disgusted in!

The journey of life puts us through lots of situations we don't like but it's what we learn about ourselves from these situations that matters. If the happenings during the experience where not for you, great as now you know it's not for you and you have no need to explore it any further.

The benefits and disadvantages of seeing regulars has been discussed many times on the forum and as comfortable as the punter gets with a regular lady he visits, just as comfortable she gets with him. SP's too are human, and therefore this will happen. Remember in her line of work she deals with lots of punters with a broad range of sexual desires and fantasies, likes and dislikes. You should actually be thankfully that you did get to try something new with somebody you could trust, and I am sure if you said NO thanks, she would of obliged.

You should not see the experience as taking you into a cull de sac but rather as taking you to an intersection that has a road leading off of it that you know is not the direction for you, one with a scenery that does not interest you.

If you have had so many blissful experiences and times with this specific lady that have put smiles on your face and have all left good taste in your mouth, savor them and think of them!!

As a punter and even as a friend, you can and should state your likes and dislikes, set your boundaries and your fantasies and desires. Being the paying punter does not entitle you to demand your wants. Remember the lady who just recently went through a traumatic experience with a punter, everybody agreed he should be f$@ck&d up and made to pay. Maybe his attitude was that he was paying and therefore demanding what he wanted. (Note to all, I am in NO WAY condoning what happened to the lady, just using as an example of the extreme of demand that could happen)

So, in summary, take it as a lesson learned, an introduction to a sexual experience that you where privileged to have,, even though it was not for you. I do not know what experience you had but deducting from your numerous posts on the subject lately, there where other ladies and punters involved. Do you now then find them all disgusting as they enjoy what you don't. Go brush your teeth, rinse your mouth with mouthwash, get rid of the taste in your mouth and choose another lady or 10 and carry on!

Shake it off, store the experience in your memory bank in the "what I don't like file" and carry on!

Feed the memories of the good times you have, not the memory of this one bad as the memory you feed most is the one that will linger forever.