This may not be the best place to look for a Dominant. Most subs shelve their ability to judge character when it comes to D/s play. Naturally, the uncertainty is a part of the thrill. Be very careful. Get references. Good luck.

I'd suggest going to Pharaohs and speak to the lovely owner. It's a safe environment for open minded ladies wanting to try something new.

On 2017-01-18 22:49:26 Eazy1 said:
This may not be the best place to look for a Dominant. Most subs shelve their ability to judge character when it comes to D/s play. Naturally, the uncertainty is a part of the thrill. Be very careful. Get references. Good luck.

Exactly right! Giving your power over to a stranger is dangerous! It's about trust and can be a deeply personal act! I to this day only see 2 clients that I trust enough as my Dominants!

Regards, V.

Punting is the worst way to do D/s in my opinion. Too many things can go wrong in so many ways. Best to stick to safer kinks.

Regular girls, with time, and with trust, works much better.

Where is this girl now? Tried inbox her and her and down?

Would like to be dominant one day. Just not my personality though....Luckily I managed to find "BDSM for Dummies"...maybe one day..

Me and my partner enjoy these scenes, and we're hoping for a threesome or playing with my partner watching as she is ok with this. Her ad has been down for a while now though and no number either...

I think if the lady has some experience, confidence and has some safety measures in place it should be ok.
Anyways I really really need to find a strong dominant lady to spank my ass and be my Mistress ;)

I play in the BDSM scene regularly frequently and often.

Now I am a Dom and I firmly believe that before anybody should Dom they should sub for a few plays.

I have recently had the pleasure of playing and exploring boundaries with a delicious young WG on the East Rand and while she initially said she wanted to be a sub she was actually looking to be physically controlled. She did not want me to control her mind.

She thoroughly enjoyed her spanking and orgasms and watching her surface from subspace was a great experience.

I must warn potential players that there a lot of extremely weird people out there and extreme care must be taken in selecting a partner you can trust as there is very little that you can do when propery restrained.

In fact there is a Dom who resides in the northern suburbs and who plays (preys?) mainly on the east rand who has been banned from the BDSM community for his excessive violence. Some of his young wannabe subs have ended up in casualty with broken limbs.

Playing is fun.
With the right person who you trust.
And trust has to be earned, it is not a given.

@FMS - Very true words you speak there.