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Akhash - Tip for the ladies: No more time wasters
Tip for the ladies: No more time wasters
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Posted: 2026-08-05 16:59:22

1. WhatsApp business profile

2. Put your rates and services in your WhatsApp business profile bio - What you offer, and how much you charge.

3. Have an automated reply on WhatsApp that answers all the questions that we usually ask: When are you available? What are your rates? Where are you based? Do you accept EFT or only Cash? ROAR policy? Etc.

4. Have a few sexy pictures or even videos in your WhatsApp profile, under "Catalogue", this will drive up the interest to see you. You don't have to show your face.

5. When a person reaches out via WhatsApp, entice them with a "view once" of your own liking.

6. In your WhatsApp bio, you can put your location, OR a nearby street / landmark. That way, one can tell you how far one is from you.

Just some friendly advice to save everyone's time.

Have a nice day
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Posted: 2026-08-05 17:38:36

Solid advice
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Posted: 2026-08-05 17:50:37

I agree.

There's many of ladies that actually do this already and it's flippen brilliant. A lot of times they even have answers to questions or new experiences that you didn't even think of yet so they've obviously fine tuned it over time with experience. I always get so impressed when I see these well put together WA profiles, and I mean profile, not just a pic and name.

More so, they're also smart enough to add you to their contacts and share daily statuses which is a great marketing tool, even when you don't even think of or see their ESA profile. Sometimes the content they share actually entices you to book when you see their skills in action or something you didn't see in the pics before. Other times the initial standard offering may have been inadequate for your needs and then you see one day that they're offering exactly what you're looking for, or have a promo and now their price is in line with your expectations for the service offering, or when they have availability, especially out if regular hours like you'd see on ESA that they finish at 5 so you never call after that. But then you see a status saying available till 12am today at 10pm when you're actually available so now you can book. And of course, the status does not get pushed down the list into the abyss by a flood of content specials from a thousand other SP's. They literally have a full 24 hour billboard.

Another big thing is posting realistic pictures over time and we punters actually warm up to the real you. Like we see the highly filtered ESA pics and AI WA profile pics and we have our doubts knowing it's hiding the reality. Sometimes we even see the reality when we want to make the booking and immediately back out due to shock of it vs the advert which would usually be the end of it. But when you see it often, it grows on you, you get over it and warm up to a booking. Especially when the personality supercedes the looks. Kinda like turning down a date proposition because you judged on looks as that's all you had to go by but you become friends and then find out this person is awesome and fall in love because everything else is a 10, even if the looks aren't.

Added exposure. Sometimes us punters see great offers or statuses and we share details on what we've seen with other punters and some of those may actually book, especially of it becomes something worth talking about between punters. Now suddenly, you've got additional free advertising bringing in new customers that you didn't even have access to previously and would not have booked.

And finally, top of mind vs out of sight, out of mind. Sometimes we forget about a wg that we really do want to book as it moves down the chat list. But those status updates remind you and often some turn into a booking initiation as a simple laughing or heart emoji turns into a small chat which turns into a booking.

Just as a closing, I've seen some auto responses that literally are a waste of time because all they say is I'll contact you when I can basically. What even is the point of it? You spent the time doing that message but you wasted your time and the punters time. Just put in your rates and services at least, ideally comprehensive rates, services and location as Akhash said.

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Posted: 2026-08-05 18:10:08

Theres a reason this isn't being done more broadly. I think mainly because ladies will charge differently based of off how they interpret you. Race, age, the way you message, we all know this affects.

Also if they get international clients pretty sure they'd charge more, If they're used to the dynamic pricing this could feel like revenue lost from my perspective.

I think the statuses are the best way to go about it but not all ladies will save your number from Enquiry or post at all.
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Posted: 2026-08-05 18:40:52

On 2026-08-05 18:10:08 dondajon said:
Theres a reason this isn't being done more broadly. I think mainly because ladies will charge differently based of off how they interpret you. Race, age, the way you message, we all know this affects.

Also if they get international clients pretty sure they'd charge more, If they're used to the dynamic pricing this could feel like revenue lost from my perspective.

I think the statuses are the best way to go about it but not all ladies will save your number from Enquiry or post at all.



I hear you but what they don't realize with that pricing model is that they actually lose more business that way.

Just in the last week, there were 9 bookings that I know off that didn't happen because of this.

Ladies posted rates in the forum and as I said punters talk. All of these bookings, the punters sent an enquiry with full intention to book basically having all the information on service and knowing the rates already as it was posted by lady previously or was shared by a fellow punter. However, when the ladies responded, the quoted much higher rates. In all these cases, the punters bowed out of the booking and now those strong recommendations became no-go's.

Some of the same ladies, tried negotiating, and some of them even came back to them with the same rates they were expecting but unfortunately it leaves a bitter taste for punters to know you're the one she pegged as a simp or desperate enough to pay an inflated price. It's an unknown value of lost revenue but if I know of 9 bookings lost in less than 7 days alone, I can only imagine it's a pretty big number.

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Posted: 2026-08-05 19:20:34

Completely agree with you there. Haha once again we are discussing buisness economics on the forum.

I personally save the rates once I enquire, I don't negotiate rates down either. So if a lady gives me a price that's more than I'd pay; they stay permanently in my list with that price. I don't end up enquiring again so business lost.

Ive also seen promotions at a much better price that I'd be willing to pay after getting higher prices, which makes me how many ladies have lost my business just because they chance by quoting higher at first.
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Posted: 2026-08-05 19:21:51

On 2026-08-05 19:20:34 dondajon said:
Completely agree with you there. Haha once again we are discussing buisness economics on the forum.

I personally save the rates once I enquire, I don't negotiate rates down either. So if a lady gives me a price that's more than I'd pay; they stay permanently in my list with that price. I don't end up enquiring again so business lost.

Ive also seen promotions at a much better price that I'd be willing to pay after getting higher prices, which makes wonder me how many ladies have lost my business just because they chance by quoting higher at first.

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Posted: 2026-08-05 19:34:44
Edited: 2026-08-05 19:35:02

Completely agree here. I absolutely love it when the first response is a detailed automated message outlining her full menu of services. Then my immediate next message to her is to make the actual booking. Simple, to the point, no back and forth.
This level of professionalism shines very highly in the lady's favour, in my opinion.

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