I guess this topic has already be asked before but please share your latest thoughts. If you had the resources to get her out of this lifestyle, would you do it?

Sometime ago, I grew fond of a WG I was seeing. I could see myself settling down and putting a baby in her. I'm still a bachelor and most civilian women I come across aren't my dream wife type. Eventually, I asked her if she would go on a date with me to which she agreed. I foolishly thought we were on the same page, so when I tried making definite plans, she quoted me a price for the date haha.

I think the question is, would you wife her and still allow her to do what she does for a living?

I most certainly wouldn't mind that at all

On 2026-04-22 09:36:41 Ben_dover said:
I think the question is, would you wife her and still allow her to do what she does for a living?

I most certainly wouldn't mind that at all

Interesting. I guess you'd also want to continue punting?

I would want her to be exclusive to me. So we'd work on getting her into a different profession.

Does no-one know how to use the search function. This asked many time.

Paying 1,000 rand for sex is not a good start point for to get married. And not the same as buying a lady a meal when dating.

If I may...

What is wrong with women having their set price?

The issue about changing profession is we cannot, most men here and visiting the sites are the CEO's, employees of most firms. No one want to take the chance on you. For they only know this part of you.

So we just need to await Pretty Women 2.

If I find the right man, and I could do something else I would have. Left corporate in 2024 and came here ... Could not go back, even though I had Operations Manager as titles.. Yes!! Some of us are smart and world just came crumbling down...

Once you close some doors they never open again.

Law of nature.

And if you took her for the night, Why would you not bless her home? Do you know the cost of make up, nails, hair, lingerie of today?? Not to talk about Petrol that is gold to travel..
Just saying. Think from her side. Make it clear and bless her to become.

Been down that road. Didn't marry. And no, she was not charging me for dates and overnights so that's how you know it's real. In fact she paid for most. Neither was I reviewing any of those off the books encounters. But in the end, too much concern about what happens if you introduce your "wife" one day to an ex-client. Let alone it comes out and your whole family judges you for bringing a wg into the same home as your kids. Down the line someone is gonna tell your kids their stepmom was whatever, probably with receipts as content is everywhere now. As great as she was, those thoughts and concerns would be there forever and the truth always comes out. Might be different if you're a complete loner with no family and kids to worry about but you have to think about the impact on everyone. And then obviously the financial impact of someone that now can't do what they do for a living. At least she did move on to corporate and can carry her own but in most cases, the guy would now be picking up the tab for her and her kids and they're gonna have that constant fear and uneasiness that she's probably going to see regulars on the downlow for extra cash etc which is very very common.

I actually do know what that have married punters and are still happily married even after 10 years but they're more the exception than the norm. Most end dismally in regret.

N4P

@ Seedy

Sir Seedy, if u have met already such lucky lady.

Word of advice to both of u, befor make final desition.

Try out and arrangement agreement befor both u move fowrad... meaning u pay her total a month for while

To be sure u 2 get to know each other and to be sure both u done with this lifestyle

It very from person to person... to marry out this trade.

So to rather be save than sorry try this method 1st befor take on more serious action.

I been there got the T-shirt.


All the best hope u and lady win


Warm regards
A

Next time you in a big queue like check-in-line at ORT or entrance to a Rugby game. Look around at the +2500 men around you. If knowing all of them fucked your girlfriend/wife doesn't bother you, then it shouldn't be a problem.

But remember that when you leave after your 1hr with her, she is sucking the next guys dick while you are driving back thinking about dating her.

Keep perspective. She fucked the next guy even better than she fucked you.

ESA is for playing not dating. These girls belong to the streets.

On 2026-04-22 12:16:24 Cubano said:
Next time you in a big queue like check-in-line at ORT or entrance to a Rugby game. Look around at the +2500 men around you. If knowing all of them fucked your girlfriend/wife doesn't bother you, then it shouldn't be a problem.

But remember that when you leave after your 1hr with her, she is sucking the next guys dick while you are driving back thinking about dating her.

Keep perspective. She fucked the next guy even better than she fucked you.

ESA is for playing not dating. These girls belong to the streets.

"But remember that when you leave after your 1hr with her, she is sucking the next guys dick while you are driving back thinking about dating her."


LOL. Well, with how we'd text each other through out the day, some days, I figured she's not that busy. But point well made hahaha.

No never, that is why we pay for a service. Can you imagine your whole family finds out what or who she is or was. Let them be most of them are married and will string you along telling you that you are hot an that they love you.........those are all sales tactics