Since there's a thread about what's immediately off-putting about an SP, I think it's only fair we flip it. From an SP's side---let's talk about the things clients do that instantly kill the the vibe making your clit retreat?!

Now this I'm interested to hear.

Why don't you get the list started for us Danika?

Obviously hygiene etc but keen to hear more about the other things.

And while we're at it, perhaps start a separate thread for turn-ons?

Thanks

1. Hygiene is NON-negotiable
This is number one for a reason. Show up clean, fresh, and presentable. No excuses.
2. Negotiating rates
My rate is my rate. Trying to bargain your way into intimacy is an instant turn-off.
3. Time wasting
Endless chatting, "just checking", or fishing for free previews---no thanks.
4. Disrespectful tone
Approach matters. If you come in rude or entitled, the energy is already off.
5. Ignoring boundaries
Policies are there for safety and comfort. Pushing them ruins everything.
6. Last-minute cancellations / ghosting
Wasting time is one of the quickest ways to get blacklisted.

Closing line:

Come correct, or don't come at all. Simple.

Interesting and useful thread, thank you

On 2026-04-06 11:55:58 Danika said:


3. Time wasting
Endless chatting, "just checking", or fishing for free previews---no thanks.

Can I challenge you (and other ladies who hold this view) to reconsider this one. Communication is key to a successful booking and its better to get it out the way before the booking, than during.

But out of curiosity, how do you prefer us to ask our questions. I've tried all in one message. But then she responds to 2 of the 10 and I have to then re-ask the other 8. I've also tried 1 by 1 to ensure each gets responded to. But then sense the annoyance.

Ok, they not 10, but a few to cover basic stuff that I prefer not to take for granted, like

Punter: Do you have shower facilities
SP: Yes
Punter: Can I have two showers, before and after (genuine question, Ive been told in the room before I can only have one, I must decide if its before or after.)
SP: Fuck off

Punter: does your all inclusive price include a prostate massage
SP: No, thats extra
Punter: How much
SP: R1000
Punter: And finger rimming only
SP: Fuck off


Punter: I prefer covered oral, are you fine with that.
SP: No, I dont like the taste of condoms/ No, condoms give me a rash
Punter: Do you have herpes
SP: Fuck off

I've asked a lady about herpes before, and she politely responded, I dont have herpes, but Ill give you a covered blow for your comfort. That was an awesome session, and I excluded the blow because she told me she didnt like the taste of condoms.

Danika, may I suggest you repost this on the general forum? It might get more traction.

Let me help fast track this and also say a lot that may not be said.

Clients that take too long to cum (more than two minutes). "All her other clients cum quickly and this is too much work."

Clients that expect to get fucked/sucked/massaged for the full hour.

Clients that don't like to pay extras. Everything should be paid for extra from kissing, to OWO to the shower. They're not working for free. If not, still pay a big tip.

Clients that don't understand they need time to recover after cumming, even if it's only 15-20 minutes into the session, the rest of the session is too recover and freshen up for whatever is after the session.

Clients that share their bad experiences and reviews with other punters.

Clients that don't come in with a hard dick and ready to stick it in and fuck and go but expect the poor SP's to actually seduce and turn them on.

Clients that expect them to look like their ads, be dressed up and made up like they do in their adverts. They should just accept anything they get. Slops and tracks, dirty feet whatever is the wgs prerogative.

Clients that don't understand that they've had children and have big saggy tummies with lot's of stretch marks and it doesn't matter if they don't show on the adverts.

Clients that expect them to be available when they use the available now status. Clients must understand that they are not actually available when they say they are available and they are not sitting around waiting in lingerie for a booking all day so the clients need to not book when they're horny and need a punt but give advance notice.

Clients that compare them with other wgs. It is plain down respectful, mean and wrong to pick another wh just because she is cheaper and gives better service and lay be younger, hotter or tighter.

Clients that actual want to meet and fuck instead of just buying content. They've got things to do and just need the money so it's unfair to expect them to have to dress up, get to a venue, pay for a room and actually service the client just so a client could get one off when he has hands and could just do it himself.

Clients that want to sit and chill or want a massage after they cum when they come in under 15 minutes of an hour booking. You got what you came for, now fuck off. It's unfair to stick around since she can rest or squeeze in another booking.

Clients that are not understanding when they're tired or sick. Sometimes they have a busy day or weekend or sick or whatever but still need the money so they accept bookings. Not like you can expect a wg not to accept bookings just because she's tired or sick. These bookings are not for you to actually get service. It's just to get the cash so stop coming and expecting them to rock your world and be grateful if you just get to stick it in when she's tired or sick.

JP69

Quick vibe-killers

Poor hygiene = instant no. Shower, clean nails, fresh breath (mouthwash & mints exist and are available).
Don't rush in breathe, smile, make eye contact, enjoy the moment.
Respect boundaries. No pushing, no entitlement.
You booked time enjoy the full experience, don't treat it like a quick task.
GFE is not the same for everyone. Communicate clearly beforehand
Stop negotiating & comparing providers what works elsewhere doesn't apply here.
Come prepared for your requests. Please.
Basic respect and ffort = fire experience for both of us.

Let's keep it clean, respectful, and actually enjoyable

Don't ask for bareback
Don't ask for DFK if oral hyghine is not up to standard
Don't ask for cim if it was made cleared from the start that it's not offered

Be a gentleman even though I'm a slut in the room.


Don't be late communication is key if u might be a fee minutes late

Once respect is given and u are relaxed the session will flow smoothly.

Coxo


Stop complaining on the forum and rather speak to the lady directly.

Chas

On 2026-04-06 11:55:58 Danika said:
1. Hygiene is NON-negotiable
This is number one for a reason. Show up clean, fresh, and presentable. No excuses.
2. Negotiating rates
My rate is my rate. Trying to bargain your way into intimacy is an instant turn-off.
3. Time wasting
Endless chatting, "just checking", or fishing for free previews---no thanks.
4. Disrespectful tone
Approach matters. If you come in rude or entitled, the energy is already off.
5. Ignoring boundaries
Policies are there for safety and comfort. Pushing them ruins everything.
6. Last-minute cancellations / ghosting
Wasting time is one of the quickest ways to get blacklisted.

Closing line:

Come correct, or don't come at all. Simple.

Omw you could have not said it any better!!

On 2026-04-06 11:55:58 Danika said:
1. Hygiene is NON-negotiable
This is number one for a reason. Show up clean, fresh, and presentable. No excuses.
2. Negotiating rates
My rate is my rate. Trying to bargain your way into intimacy is an instant turn-off.
3. Time wasting
Endless chatting, "just checking", or fishing for free previews---no thanks.
4. Disrespectful tone
Approach matters. If you come in rude or entitled, the energy is already off.
5. Ignoring boundaries
Policies are there for safety and comfort. Pushing them ruins everything.
6. Last-minute cancellations / ghosting
Wasting time is one of the quickest ways to get blacklisted.

Closing line:

Come correct, or don't come at all. Simple.

I 10000% agree with all of this.

The tissue on the bum or poo gets me more than anything.