On 2026-01-13 07:42:53 Raawi said:
In my view, given the time that was still remaining, the SP could have at least offered the punter a massage.

That said...

Real talk: after a man orgasms, his body goes into a thing called the refractory period - literally the reset phase where your parts go from spaghetti to flacid spaghetti and stays there until your body feels like rebooting. You cannot get erect or have another orgasm until that period ends.

For most men the refractory period can be 30-40 minutes minimum and often hours or even an entire day depending on the guy, age, stress, and hormones.

So if your session is 30 minutes and you orgasm at minute 5, your penis basically says: "Thanks for playing. Please take a seat in the recovery lounge".

The only reason that the punter got oral and no second round is that his body literally could not provide a round two in that time frame. It has nothing to do with the menu, and everything to do with the fact that his penis has a built in "no second orgasm" safety lock within that short space of time.

For some married men the refractory stage can take up to 1 week or one month sometimes a year. And thats why we have to say thank you for all the wonderfull ladies on ESA.

I don't have a cum once policy.. when asked I always say "as many times as your body will allow in our time together"

I the almost two years I have been doing this service I have had only 3 clients who could cum more than once in 30 minutes. I try my best to wake the beast again, but most of the time with no success and then spend the rest of our time chatting..

On 2026-01-13 09:11:09 Ms Eve said:
I don't have a cum once policy.. when asked I always say "as many times as your body will allow in our time together"

I the almost two years I have been doing this service I have had only 3 clients who could cum more than once in 30 minutes. I try my best to wake the beast again, but most of the time with no success and then spend the rest of our time chatting..

Thank you. Most men won't cum more than once in 30 minutes but that doesn't mean a 30 minute sessions equates to a cum once thing because there will be exceptions.

How do you guys determine what's best for an individual ? Some guys enjoy a long session with lots of engagement and a final release at the end others prefer multiple orgasms, it's literally different Strokes for different folks.

You do You

On 2026-01-13 07:42:53 Raawi said:
The only reason that the punter got oral and no second round is that his body literally could not provide a round two in that time frame. It has nothing to do with the menu, and everything to do with the fact that his penis has a built in "no second orgasm" safety lock within that short space of time.

Come on, Raawi. The review is available for everyone to read. There's nowhere in that post where the punter says that his body could not perform. He still wanted to proceed and have sex for the remainder of the time. For him it was not about the number of times he cums, but more about getting the service he was promised for 30 minutes.

Judging by the feedback from punters on his review, it's clear why some ladies get shocked when punters expect a certain level of service. Their lacklustre service is somewhat condoned and overlooked judging by the comments.

Perhaps I'm old school and got accustomed to receiving service from a certain calibre of women who really delivered on their promise. The ladies whose reviews speak for themselves and not because they receive bogus/fake reviews, but genuine reviews from clients who received a service that was more than satisfactory. Some of those ladies are still on here and I won't mention names, but they know themselves.

Maybe this is the new school way of doing things.

Cum once in 60 mins is becoming a thing as well.

You have to practically beg for the 2nd round these days.

SPs are rushing the oral and foreplay as well during 60 minute sessions.

Some don't like their tits sucked, don't like neck kissed, don't like kissing in general, don't want their V-bone eaten. The list goes on and is endless.

You end up just closing your eyes whilst giving yourself a handjob over a corpse just to get hard enough so you can penetrate her, bust your nut and leave.

It's a sad state of affairs.

But there are great ones out there. It's just difficult to find if you don't do your homework.

It's not just the fake/bogus reviews.

Even a review from a legit punter isn't enough these days because a lot of punters don't review a mediocre session in fear of being attacked or they just lack the ability to articulate their mediocre sessions respectfully.

So either all 5/5 or 1/5s.

Life could be worse though. These are privileged problems.

The cum one fiends have always been around. They just don't last long as long as we don't tolerate cum x policies.

If we slip, that will become a norm. Then there'll be no point paying for time.

And once it turns into that, those ladies have more reason to get you to cum quick so you can leave quickly.

On 2026-01-13 15:10:26 FrecklesLover said:
Cum once in 60 mins is becoming a thing as well.

I've encountered them over the years. One lady even told me that's her business model, like she wants you to cum a quickly as possible so you can leave. I came in less than 2 minutes in an hour booking and she told me, the session is done.

Another lady gave me a blowjob (a great one), we did the first round and I took a break. When I was ready for round 2, she said we done because she gave me a blowjob. Which essentially meant that the blowjob was counted as a round...

On 2026-01-13 07:42:53 Raawi said:
In my view, given the time that was still remaining, the SP could have at least offered the punter a massage.

That said...

Real talk: after a man orgasms, his body goes into a thing called the refractory period - literally the reset phase where your parts go from spaghetti to flacid spaghetti and stays there until your body feels like rebooting. You cannot get erect or have another orgasm until that period ends.

For most men the refractory period can be 30-40 minutes minimum and often hours or even an entire day depending on the guy, age, stress, and hormones.

So if your session is 30 minutes and you orgasm at minute 5, your penis basically says: "Thanks for playing. Please take a seat in the recovery lounge".

The only reason that the punter got oral and no second round is that his body literally could not provide a round two in that time frame. It has nothing to do with the menu, and everything to do with the fact that his penis has a built in "no second orgasm" safety lock within that short space of time.

Have you heard about the double clutch sir? Some of us can literally bust a nut, remain hard, change rubbers and keep going. No refractory period. Hence known in porn circles, as the double clutch.

On 2026-01-13 15:28:12 Sir Shadow Hefner said:

Have you heard about the double clutch sir? Some of us can literally bust a nut, remain hard, change rubbers and keep going. No refractory period. Hence known in porn circles, as the double clutch.

It's amazing and it's a skill one can hone.

The key is that when the first nut becomes too much to hold, you let go a little bit and don't offload fully.

Just enough to relieve some pressure. Then go back to fighting the urge to offload the rest. Usually you gotta fight for 5 to 10 seconds.

After that, you should still be hard and good to pound away.