Another WG is angry at me for not showing up all because I called her and asked for her rates.

An enquiry is not a booking. Unless it's explicitly agreed on a booking, time, location etc.

This is an obviousness that shouldn't even need to be said but there, I said it.

True.. hate it when you ask for rates and services, and reposnse is, what time will you be here...

Hmmm.. I asked, I never said I'm on my way or coming at all..

Also, why the "please send a whatsapp" when enquiring on esa messenger, esa is the safest way for all, and I only use it for enquiries, not to make bookings..

On 2025-11-21 09:13:05 Stevensteven247 said:


Also, why the "please send a whatsapp" when enquiring on esa messenger, esa is the safest way for all, and I only use it for enquiries, not to make bookings..

Because like

YamamotoKirasha

And

SpeeedyF


As proven on


www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php


One and the same person make it a waste of time and "trust" a real issue.... being made an ass of and played for a fool is no longer an option for most advertisers.

Plus...

How many profiles on this forum are women.

A sad state of affairs making this "adult" space a minefield of boobie traps both for Punter and Advertiser.

RB.

@RobertLobaw & @Stevensteven247

I agree 100% with you it is frustrating!!!

@RB "a minefield of boobie traps." Lol
How about potholes of pussies? Wink

On 2025-11-21 09:32:46 Russian Bridgitte said:
On 2025-11-21 09:13:05 Stevensteven247 said:

Also, why the "please send a whatsapp" when enquiring on esa messenger, esa is the safest way for all, and I only use it for enquiries, not to make bookings..


Because like

YamamotoKirasha

And

SpeeedyF


As proven on


www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php


One and the same person make it a waste of time and "trust" a real issue.... being made an ass of and played for a fool is no longer an option for most advertisers.

Plus...

How many profiles on this forum are women.

A sad state of affairs making this "adult" space a minefield of boobie traps both for Punter and Advertiser.

RB.

Wait...

For the purposes of answering an enquiry about rates and services, why would it matter if someone has multiple profiles? So what? you don't know who is behind the username anyway, just like you don't know who's behind a whatsapp no.?

I whatsapped Bumzie on Thursday. Got the rates etc.
www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php

I said thank you, will try see you over the weekend.

Next reply from her "Sho"
And blocked me.
Obviously thinking i am a time waster....

Jo ladies, sometimes you need to have a little more trust....
But glad, probably skipped a mediocre punt.

On 2025-11-21 16:58:25 Fred9 said:
I whatsapped Bumzie on Thursday. Got the rates etc.
www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php

I said thank you, will try see you over the weekend.

Next reply from her "Sho"
And blocked me.
Obviously thinking i am a time waster....

Jo ladies, sometimes you need to have a little more trust....
But glad, probably skipped a mediocre punt.

.

I'm think you're lucky to dodge the bukket

Some people chose this business, but don't understand what it entails to be successful. As with any customer service business you will get many enquiries that won't end up in a sale...yet. If the nail salon blocked everyone that enquire, but don't book immediately, their business will struggle and they won't be very successful.

Rather look at it positively:

- Enquiries show that you are visible and that you are doing some things right. But try and analyse the reasons behind lost enquiries. It's got a lot more to do with just "time wasters". Lost enquiries reveal gaps and help you refine your offering.
- A 'no' today can become a 'yes' tomorrow.
People return when the timing, budget, or need aligns. Therefore, leave every prospect with a good impression.

I'm in full agreement x

On 2025-11-21 22:03:28 Caton said:
Some people chose this business, but don't understand what it entails to be successful. As with any customer service business you will get many enquiries that won't end up in a sale...yet. If the nail salon blocked everyone that enquire, but don't book immediately, their business will struggle and they won't be very successful.

Rather look at it positively:

- Enquiries show that you are visible and that you are doing some things right. But try and analyse the reasons behind lost enquiries. It's got a lot more to do with just "time wasters". Lost enquiries reveal gaps and help you refine your offering.
- A 'no' today can become a 'yes' tomorrow.
People return when the timing, budget, or need aligns. Therefore, leave every prospect with a good impression.