Punters

What does that mean?

Of late many Punters say that in their reviews.

Is it not a given?

I mean respect.


Are you guys aware of disrespect among your fellow punters toward the ladies and thus have to iterate the obvious and given.

Are boundaries being pushed that should not be pushed

Pls pls elaborate as to why The need to say things like..."respect her and she will treat you right".

RB.

RB

That's a really good question, and I can see why it might sound odd at first, almost like we're pointing out the obvious. Respect should always be a given, right? But unfortunately, not everyone plays by the same rulebook.

When I say things like "treat her with respect, she's a true gem," I'm not trying to sound preachy or state the obvious - its more of a reminder and a reflection of appreciation. It's a way to set the tone for how others should approach the experience. The world of punting can attract all kinds of personalities, and sadly, some forget that behind the fantasy, there's a real person with boundaries, emotions, and professionalism that deserve the same courtesy as any other human interaction.

For me, adding that line is about reinforcing a culture of mutual respect. It's saying: this isn't just a transaction; its an encounter between two people where kindness, respect, and communication matter. When punters emphasise respect in reviews, its a signal to others - that the best experiences come from treating a lady well, not from testing her limits or reducing her to the service she provides.

So yes, it may seem like a "given," but in reality, it's also a quiet stand against those who don't get it. It's a way of saying: if you're coming into this space, do it with integrity.

Other service providers, and ladies like you, deserve to be seen and appreciated for the effort, care and energy you put into what you do. My words were meant to celebrate that - to remind anyone reading that respect isn't optional, it's essential.

Thank YOU, Raawi.

I am glad I asked.

I have learnt something new from the perspective of a Gentleman Punter and now, when i read it next time, i shall value it for what it truly means.



RB

I have also always wondered why people say that...Obviously you ALWAYS show respect to other humans!

OK ladies here is a scenario for your comments please?

I book a mg for the first time. Have a shower. Lie down on the plinth. The mg starts off by telling me the rules:
No touching between the legs.
No kissing on the lips.

I am a good boy and don't break her rules. I leave afterwards never to be seen again.

Your thoughts please?

On 2025-11-12 18:13:11 Vrik said:
I have also always wondered why people say that...Obviously you ALWAYS show respect to other humans!

But as Raawi said...

To quote :-


So yes, it may seem like a "given," but in reality, it's also a quiet stand against those who don't get it. It's a way of saying: if you're coming into this space, do it with integrity.



Integrity.

I believe in INTEGRITY.

Even in the world of fuckery and that is why I took quite a bit from raawi's response.

RB.

Todayivisit

May I ask.

A massage girl. Should she allow u to touch between her legs?
Kiss on the lips?

.....like the girls who advertise under the general section ?

Is there a set expectation from ALL massage girls and then ALL girls advertising under general section?

RB.

RB if I go back to the "respect her" part, I think that I was respectful and didn't push any boundaries. At the end of the day, I was given a one-way service, which is disappointing if I must be honest.

Why don't you offer courses to the ladies? Wink.

But Todayivisit

Did u not ask bfr u went and knocked on the lady's door?

May I touch?
May I kiss?

And if she had said yes then to call her out for misrepresenting?

As to offering courses...

What use is a classroom or a teacher if the spirit is not engaged and the student does not outdo the teacher?

It is not in the course but, rather in the person themselves.

xxx

RB.



....and THANK YOU!

On 2025-11-12 20:05:08 Todayivisit said:
OK ladies here is a scenario for your comments please?

I book a mg for the first time. Have a shower. Lie down on the plinth. The mg starts off by telling me the rules:
No touching between the legs.
No kissing on the lips.

I am a good boy and don't break her rules. I leave afterwards never to be seen again.

Your thoughts please?

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@Todayivisit - this falls strictly under the category of communication.

When enquiring about a session or treatment, you must engage directly with the massage provider to understand the quality of her service and range of her offerings. Do your due diligence. Review previous comments and feedback provided from other clients on her advertisement. Study her gallery carefully. Communication is key.

When you contact the service provider, ask clear and direct questions about what she offers and set expectations upfront. Know exactly what you're getting before you commit. Only then can you accurately judge whether the session will be worth your time and money based on what the provider herself has indicated.

Remember - some massage therapists offer massage only, with no extras. Others may provide additional services such as kissing, oral, full service, showering together, or intimate options.

So always do the groundwork. Ask, clarify, confirm. This is all part of effective communication.