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Posted: 2025-10-23 22:04:03

Err errmmm just a reminder xxxx
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Posted: 2025-10-23 22:15:03

On 2025-10-23 21:43:34 JackParrow69 said:
I guess at the end of the day, the proof is in the pudding and in the absence of proof, all the claims of scamming or having proof is just hearsay. I've asked both punters for the proof they claim to have and neither produced but I've seen lots of great reviews and feedback for Alexa previously.

If I have to work purely on facts, I'd give Alexa the benefit of the doubt and would also like to apologize for calling her out without seeing the proof first. Just took it for granted that punters claiming to have proof did in fact have proof so I'm sorry.

JP69



Respect!!!
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Posted: 2025-10-24 07:32:53

On 2025-10-23 21:15:20 BendOver said:
In a world where everyone is going through something..let us be different and let us be kind..

We do not know what struggles other people are battling with.

BO



I do agree we may not know what hardship people experience but that does not entitle you to scam people.

There are many ladies on the platform that have serious "hardship" that they are facing, but remain honest and respectful.
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Posted: 2025-10-24 07:42:20

On 2025-10-24 07:32:53 Kooni said:
On 2025-10-23 21:15:20 BendOver said: In a world where everyone is going through something..let us be different and let us be kind..

We do not know what struggles other people are battling with.

BO

I do agree we may not know what hardship people experience but that does not entitle you to scam people.

There are many ladies on the platform that have serious "hardship" that they are facing, but remain honest and respectful.


I completely agree. Everyone faces challenges, but that doesn't justify taking advantage of others. It's admirable how many ladies still conduct themselves with honesty and dignity despite their personal hardships.
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Posted: 2025-10-24 08:16:48

On 2025-10-23 20:41:56 Minime V10.1 said:
On 2025-10-23 19:21:24 KICKASS said:

Always two sides to a story

She admitted to taking money and not delivering a service. Maybe you are slow /stupid or just to lazy to read the whole thread. Kom by fok!




Giving birth to you was stupid I have kept quiet way to long for you now go fuck your self and move on. You have fuckall respect for women and I am so so sorry I fucked your gf doos .
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Posted: 2025-10-24 08:23:40
Edited: 2025-10-24 08:28:16

As mentioned...

Some are more equal than others and shall get away with murder.

If you "the" girl "his or their" girl, there is always an excuse why it is ok to do whatever ....even scam punters.



A little story.. he will know who he is.

"Dont talk to me like that ! I made you! You are nothing without me!...." and all we were talking about was double standards....and how women are treated and spoken to on the forum.

It is good to know who one is dealing with.

By the way this man has NEVER done ANYTHING for me EVER, nor even knows who the fuck I am , the person who wears the name RB....but will claim to have the care of the working girls at heart.


How did I react?

Just like me....smiled to myself continued to listen and calmy asked..
"What have you done for me? Do tell. "

He had very little to say and changed the topic.

I had gotten the confirmation I needed and was looking for.


Be careful, very careful of this person.


And men.

Kooni.

I LIKE YOU.

There is an honesty and integrity in what you say even though the ladies might hate it and the men might not relate to it.

I do hope I am not wrong but, I think u are one of those sincere people, as sincere as anybody can be in this fucked world of cloak and dagger.


And ladies there is NO excuse to scam punters. Whoever you are no matter how sexy or pretty or the duress you may be going through. COMMUNICATION IS PARAMOUNT and I am sure the gent will understand if a challenge arises...and a plan can be made.

It is time to earn back the trust from the punters and the ripple effect shall be respect and getting rid of the punter scammers too....and therodent's too.


RB.



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Posted: 2025-10-24 09:41:35

On 2025-10-24 07:32:53 Kooni said:
On 2025-10-23 21:15:20 BendOver said: In a world where everyone is going through something..let us be different and let us be kind..

We do not know what struggles other people are battling with.

BO

I do agree we may not know what hardship people experience but that does not entitle you to scam people.

There are many ladies on the platform that have serious "hardship" that they are facing, but remain honest and respectful.



100% agree with you. There's is no excuse to be a criminal basically. And also, let's not forget punters go through hardships too. That scammed money could very well be from a punter going though a hard time and had to scrape up very hard and sacrifice a lot of other things in order to try and get that one hour of an awesome experience to light up his life in the midst of all that hardship. So it makes it even worse and frustrating to hear these things because money doesn't fall from trees. So if the allegations are true, go burn in hell bitch!!!

But so far, what I said about Alexa specifically is that there is no proof, just noise. Note that I have not booked or even met Alexa before and have no affiliation or feelings towards her. So how do we know that it's not just a smear campaign by an ex, a rejected punter or a jealous wg if there's no proof whatsoever? That is why I personally will give her the benefit of the doubt as there are trusted punters I know in real life that have booked her multiple times, have not been scammed and have all only had good bookings with her and that is proof to the contrary. It's not a difficult thing, there is proof or ther isn't!

JP69
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Posted: 2025-10-24 10:58:34

On 2025-10-21 08:50:31 SpeeedyF said:
Alexa on the Westrand, loved by many but also scammed by some is also guilty. I've seen proof of this where she's simply ghosting the punter after just ignoring him after paying a deposit of R1000

www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php



Same thing happened to me. I just get blue ticked now. Made a booking, she then in the evening said she needed a deposit (50%). Did so, went the next day and she canceled. Then sent me a voicenote saying she'd make it up to me but yea, cant get a booking and to be honest now I dont want the booking.

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Posted: 2025-10-24 11:08:35

On 2025-10-24 10:58:34 StavroSean said:
On 2025-10-21 08:50:31 SpeeedyF said: Alexa on the Westrand, loved by many but also scammed by some is also guilty. I've seen proof of this where she's simply ghosting the punter after just ignoring him after paying a deposit of R1000

www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php



Same thing happened to me. I just get blue ticked now. Made a booking, she then in the evening said she needed a deposit (50%). Did so, went the next day and she canceled. Then sent me a voicenote saying she'd make it up to me but yea, cant get a booking and to be honest now I dont want the booking.



Another 4 post account is suspicious and raises questions. Could you send the screenshots via DM of the WhatsApps confirming:
-payment,
-cancellation,
-false promises/excuses,
-blue tick follow-ups

To collaborate and prove this story please?

So far, I've seen zero proof, just noise.

JP69
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Posted: 2025-10-24 11:33:29

I've never seen JP work so hard to defend an SP.

(That's a bar I think).

Anyway, I love this site. Minime we await your retort.

On 2025-10-24 08:16:48 KICKASS said:
I am so so sorry I fucked your gf doos .

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