Curious to know how ladies entered the industry. This is not intended to pry into the "Why" which I believe is personal. But merely How you found out about the industry and then entered it. As examples that I'm aware of: A lady told me a friend of hers is in the industry and encouraged her to enter. One lady I know worked as receptionist at a venue, and one day I saw her in the line up. Another one was a personal assistant for a wg taking her bookings and subsequently entered the business herself. Something Ive heard a lot which appears quite common is that some ladies entered under false pretences, responding to an advert for a normal massage job, which turned out to be sensual massage.

With the greatest of respect, I think you need to do more with your free time. And I hope no lady responds with the truth about how she entered, they should all give generic replies like "nymphomaniac" or "sex addict"

Thank you Shoeguy, I came here to say just that!!

I'm happy to share that after more than a decade in the swinging scene, I decided to stop taking time off work to have fun adult time...

On 2025-09-21 10:40:44 Mxtress Fussy Bunny said:
I'm happy to share that after more than a decade in the swinging scene, I decided to stop taking time off work to have fun adult time...

I heard a similar story from another lady. She was hooking up for NSA fun and guys always wanted to come to her place and she was always out of pocket having to buy snacks, condoms, etc, and one day thought: why not have fun plus get paid for it? And the rest is history.

On 2025-09-21 09:27:36 shoeguy said:
With the greatest of respect, I think you need to do more with your free time. And I hope no lady responds with the truth about how she entered, they should all give generic replies like "nymphomaniac" or "sex addict"

Why the hostility? Clearly some ladies may be okay with sharing and some not but it's not like he's interrogating every single SP on the site.

On 2025-09-21 17:17:20 Kaio said:


Why the hostility?

This forum is such a bizarrely aggressive space. You would swear none of us were ever getting laid.

SG. yup oke a loner and got nothing else to do but post and ask this. FFS. We all get into this shitty business for different reasons. Nothing to do with anyone else. You got a job??? This is our job. S

Mentioned it on another thread.

Making an incorrect business decision in 2014.
No man stole from me. Not pimped.
Wasn't going to lose my assets nor take my children out of excellent schooling. Single parenting.
Their dad passed many many moons ago.
Never been a serial dater nor considered a man giving definition to my life.

It worked and opened many other doors and prospects I absolutely love and embrace.

Yes it was done with trepidation and careful consideration of the ripple effects it most definitely does have.

Why not leave?

As I said bfr . No reason to unless swept off my feet and treated like the last drop of water on this fine earth...which, too, i have said many many times bfr.

Do I enjoy it?

Most definitely yes and thus a HUGE bonus.
But then again, I have never been the sort to do anything I truly don't want to.

RB.

On 2025-09-21 17:49:53 Aldo Sims said:
On 2025-09-21 17:17:20 Kaio said:

Why the hostility?

This forum is such a bizarrely aggressive space. You would swear none of us were ever getting laid.

Seems like some are really not getting laid and this is like their social media platform...free to vent,free to nag and free to troll, it's easy. They are just forum members, it's like an organisation of some sort.
In Zulu they say " indlala ibanga ulaka " don't know how to phrase this in English but I'll try "hunger causes what what", sexual starvation is the root of all frustrations and anger. Good people let's f**k and be merry...

To answer the OP...cutting a long story short,I was introduced by a friend, even had a mini welcome party on the forum and some great cocks welcomed me which I still ride to date.