--- Taoist teaching
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I discovered through a BDSM practice with a particular lady on this platform something that's changed my approach to sexual energy.
It was one of those practices where you'd surrender your sex life to her and she'd give you instructions through the course of the month on various things to do, including when you could jerk off or not. I know to some that seems silly. Why would you pay someone to tell you when you could jerk off. Each to their own though.
At some point she introduced jerking off every 2 hours for 2 min, without ejaculating. That was profound. My energy levels soared through the roof. Being in a state of constant arousal through they day, the week ...
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Back to eastern Taoist and Tanta traditions.
The believe is that sexual energy is a natural source of energy, and that it should be harnessed not suppressed.
In other words, don't suppress it through resisting urges. But don't also spill it by just jerking off to ejaculation.
Many of the ladies here practice edging, which is a form of Tantra. Maybe take it to the next step, or not to the next step. Allow arousal, but don't spill the juice. Done that a few times, and when I walk out of those session I'm super charged.
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The goal is to keep your self aroused. Even when your mood is down, most men won't find it difficult to play with themselves. However try to just arouse yourself, get the feel good hormones flowing but don't let the post ejaculation hormones kick in, which brings you down again.
Get aroused and move onto the next activity. Use all that energy for something constructive. At some point, yes, to wind down you can spill your load and come back to the calm and peace that brings.
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That would be a good form of semen retention, harnessing your sexual energy instead of just spilling it.
But if you just suppressing desire to see how long you can last, well that sounds pointless.
Save all your sperm, breathe deep and smooth, give it to your girlfriend, not whores, tissues or socks lol
Edited: 2025-08-28 13:39:58
On 2025-08-27 20:13:15 J_J said:
"Sexual energy is the juice of life. Harness it, and you harness wellness itself."
--- Taoist teaching
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I discovered through a BDSM practice with a particular lady on this platform something that's changed my approach to sexual energy.
It was one of those practices where you'd surrender your sex life to her and she'd give you instructions through the course of the month on various things to do, including when you could jerk off or not. I know to some that seems silly. Why would you pay someone to tell you when you could jerk off. Each to their own though.
At some point she introduced jerking off every 2 hours for 2 min, without ejaculating. That was profound. My energy levels soared through the roof. Being in a state of constant arousal through they day, the week ...
___
Back to eastern Taoist and Tanta traditions.
The believe is that sexual energy is a natural source of energy, and that it should be harnessed not suppressed.
In other words, don't suppress it through resisting urges. But don't also spill it by just jerking off to ejaculation.
Many of the ladies here practice edging, which is a form of Tantra. Maybe take it to the next step, or not to the next step. Allow arousal, but don't spill the juice. Done that a few times, and when I walk out of those session I'm super charged.
___
The goal is to keep your self aroused. Even when your mood is down, most men won't find it difficult to play with themselves. However try to just arouse yourself, get the feel good hormones flowing but don't let the post ejaculation hormones kick in, which brings you down again.
Get aroused and move onto the next activity. Use all that energy for something constructive. At some point, yes, to wind down you can spill your load and come back to the calm and peace that brings.
___
That would be a good form of semen retention, harnessing your sexual energy instead of just spilling it.
But if you just suppressing desire to see how long you can last, well that sounds pointless.
You've nailed it. Better to rather ask a question than make an assumption at the end there, I think. But otherwise you hit the nail on the head right at the top when you said "sexual energy is a natural source of energy."
Cheers for your contribution.
On 2025-08-28 01:28:20 ExplorerLuke said:
It's most important. Don't listen to the guys here, they can barely perform. Honestly, we did not arrive here because we were sex god's. Most here cannot get it hard, the other half cum in 15, and the second round is a must or else they'd be out of there in 25 minutes. Why listen to men that don't have fundemental self control. When I read the reviews, comments, it's like watching homeless people eating from the bin, talking about how they found kfc in the dumpster and how they are in heaven
Save all your sperm, breathe deep and smooth, give it to your girlfriend, not whores, tissues or socks lol
Hahahaha!! Cheers, Luke. I can't argue.
On 2025-08-28 08:53:05 NickNailer said:
I have done this and managed a 6 week stint. It was somewhat easy the first week and then the itch got very real. I did this to increase my self discipline and to practice controlling my mind. Keep the thoughts off the subject by doing something productive, cleaning my cupboard or the garage or sorting out my files. When I did bust a nut man was it glorious. Poor woman was amazed at the flood that came out. Almost like that scary movie scene. Haha
When I first started it was about self discipline as well. I knew I was onto something when I noticed how my energy kept level throughout the day instead of dropping around 15:00 like it usually did. And then after some time I discovered more of the tantric stuff J_J mentioned and that, of course, was a game changer.
Great input, Nick. Cheers.
Okay, hot shot.
Edited: 2025-08-28 21:54:55
On 2025-08-28 17:06:58 milksucker said:
Dude, this isn't a conversation for this forum. Most men are incapable of any form of semen retention, and the cross section of men here are probably even lower than average. People who say it's pseudoscience and unproven or just outright bs don't even know what you're talking about. Even you probably don't know much about this topic. If you are genuinely interested, the sources are out there.
I was going to say exactly this. Its the wrong crowd for this topic. it's literally throwing pearls before swine or trying to convince hardened heroin addicts that they should quit heroin.
I am a believer in semen retention, when i do do it, i notice benefits such as increased stamina, better quality sleep, more energy, more intensity, more focus, more reps at the gym etc.
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