Question to the ladies:

If a lady is a pleasuring herself (usually with focus on the clit) during the deed does this mean the male participant is not hitting it correctly? Is it a reflection at all on him? I've see it in porn and it has happened to me on occasion with different ladies.

Firstly, thank you Bobby for opening a sex-positive discussion. Speaking for myself, I usually start touching myself when I'm extremely relaxed and comfortable about seeking pleasure too. I'm generally hyper-focused on making sure my man has the best experience possible, so when I'm able to focus on myself as well, it means he's taking care of everything perfectly. It doesn't mean he's not already doing all the things that hit the right spots --- it just adds an extra spark to our playtime...

...hey there quite interesting...I think it's all about the connection and definitely the attraction between both of you...and affection...if it's all there trust me ...his hardly touching me and my body starts trembling in orgasms... well so far only met one man that can make me cum squirt orgasms non stop uncontrollably from the first kiss to few hours later...and every other visit...just keeps happening it's authentic...

Naughty giggles...

On 2025-08-25 13:31:17 Dirty Dianna said:
Firstly, thank you Bobby for opening a sex-positive discussion. Speaking for myself, I usually start touching myself when I'm extremely relaxed and comfortable about seeking pleasure too. I'm generally hyper-focused on making sure my man has the best experience possible, so when I'm able to focus on myself as well, it means he's taking care of everything perfectly. It doesn't mean he's not already doing all the things that hit the right spots --- it just adds an extra spark to our playtime...

On 2025-08-25 13:59:44 Danny said:
...hey there quite interesting...I think it's all about the connection and definitely the attraction between both of you...and affection...if it's all there trust me ...his hardly touching me and my body starts trembling in orgasms... well so far only met one man that can make me cum squirt orgasms non stop uncontrollably from the first kiss to few hours later...and every other visit...just keeps happening it's authentic...

Naughty giggles...

I wish l can witness that

On 2025-08-25 12:59:51 Bobby Z said:
it has happened to me on occasion with different ladies.

Bobby my sweet summer child.

An SP's job is to focus on your pleasure. If you have her pleasuring herself then she's into the session as well.

Well done son.

Heya sweets, hope you well.

Confession i just use your cock as extra stimulation as ive menstioned in another thread that im addicted to squirting. Ive got my bestest best friend aka my little black bullet vibrator that helps perfectly with that.

But i wont be able to do it without a rock hard cock that i can ride my satisfaction.

On 2025-08-25 12:59:51 Bobby Z said:
Question to the ladies:

If a lady is a pleasuring herself (usually with focus on the clit) during the deed does this mean the male participant is not hitting it correctly? Is it a reflection at all on him? I've see it in porn and it has happened to me on occasion with different ladies.

In my pre-punting life, during one of my very first sexual encounters, with a girl i was madly in love with, also did this. I have always assumed it was because i was inexperienced and that i was doing badly...

Dirty Dianna's answer has me started thinking, maybe there is another reason. Thank you for that input!

On 2025-08-25 14:18:02 Sandon. said:
On 2025-08-25 13:31:17 Dirty Dianna said: Firstly, thank you Bobby for opening a sex-positive discussion. Speaking for myself, I usually start touching myself when I'm extremely relaxed and comfortable about seeking pleasure too. I'm generally hyper-focused on making sure my man has the best experience possible, so when I'm able to focus on myself as well, it means he's taking care of everything perfectly. It doesn't mean he's not already doing all the things that hit the right spots --- it just adds an extra spark to our playtime...
On 2025-08-25 13:59:44 Danny said: ...hey there quite interesting...I think it's all about the connection and definitely the attraction between both of you...and affection...if it's all there trust me ...his hardly touching me and my body starts trembling in orgasms... well so far only met one man that can make me cum squirt orgasms non stop uncontrollably from the first kiss to few hours later...and every other visit...just keeps happening it's authentic...

Naughty giggles...

I wish l can witness that

...

Only one way to find out...

Naughty giggles...

On 2025-08-25 13:31:17 Dirty Dianna said:
Firstly, thank you Bobby for opening a sex-positive discussion. Speaking for myself, I usually start touching myself when I'm extremely relaxed and comfortable about seeking pleasure too. I'm generally hyper-focused on making sure my man has the best experience possible, so when I'm able to focus on myself as well, it means he's taking care of everything perfectly. It doesn't mean he's not already doing all the things that hit the right spots --- it just adds an extra spark to our playtime...

Dirty Diana! MJ was wrong about you lol. On a serious note. Thank you for your valuable input.

On 2025-08-25 18:21:17 Vrik said:
On 2025-08-25 12:59:51 Bobby Z said: Question to the ladies:

If a lady is a pleasuring herself (usually with focus on the clit) during the deed does this mean the male participant is not hitting it correctly? Is it a reflection at all on him? I've see it in porn and it has happened to me on occasion with different ladies.

In my pre-punting life, during one of my very first sexual encounters, with a girl i was madly in love with, also did this. I have always assumed it was because i was inexperienced and that i was doing badly...

Dirty Dianna's answer has me started thinking, maybe there is another reason. Thank you for that input!

Glad I'm not the only one wondering.