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Re: Taking a WG as a GF
Posted: 2025-08-03 11:51:01
It might sound wonderful but it won't work. Enjoy the GF and the WG separately.
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Re: Taking a WG as a GF
Posted: 2025-08-04 15:33:34
One thing you have to ask yourself: can you substitute her previous income? Money rules, unfortunately nothing is for free
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Re: Taking a WG as a GF
Posted: 2025-08-04 15:35:38
Edited: 2025-08-04 15:35:37
Edited: 2025-08-04 15:35:37
It's better. The better the connection, the better the sex. But that's with any woman.
I don't know what you mean by "just the same as every other lady". WGs are not better, not any more freaky or fun than the ladies at church or on tinder, they are more convenient...
I don't know what you mean by "just the same as every other lady". WGs are not better, not any more freaky or fun than the ladies at church or on tinder, they are more convenient...
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Re: Taking a WG as a GF
Posted: 2025-08-05 08:20:17
Neva a Good idea...
Been there..done that, still recovering...
LoL
Been there..done that, still recovering...
LoL
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Re: Taking a WG as a GF
Posted: 2025-08-05 09:04:20
Not a single response from any of the service providers on the site ....... interesting.
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Re: Taking a WG as a GF
Posted: 2025-08-05 09:10:29
It is a sign of intelligence, don't get involved in trouble topics.
On 2025-08-05 09:04:20 danny_dd said:
Not a single response from any of the service providers on the site ....... interesting.
It is a sign of intelligence, don't get involved in trouble topics.
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Re: Taking a WG as a GF
Posted: 2025-08-05 10:41:39
Why would they post on forum when they have rode off into the sunset.
I know a few girls that have left industry and live a happy life. Its really not impossible. They all human after all.
I know a few girls that have left industry and live a happy life. Its really not impossible. They all human after all.
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Re: Taking a WG as a GF
Posted: 2025-08-05 15:24:12
Absolutely true
Love this......
On 2025-08-02 09:19:07 Leeu loop said:
Well if you already going to base this relationship on sex, you might as well keep visiting her as a client.
Sex isn't love. Anyway good luck with that.
Absolutely true
Love this......
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Re: Taking a WG as a GF
Posted: 2025-08-05 16:04:33
This topic seems to come up every now and then. I'll answer you will a practical example of my experience with dating a WG.
When I was a client, she charged R500 for an hour. When I was a boyfriend, I transferred over R10 000 within 4 days of Us being official, because problems just came up that needed money (she wasn't getting much bookings, so I had to step up and fix her financial problems).
Now if I had remained a client, I'd be R10000 richer. I left as quickly as I can before bankrupting myself because more problems kept coming up.
Now that was my experience and not to say that all WG's are like that, I just picked the wrong person. If you wanna do it, do it but just know that on top of emotional support, your finances need to also be on point. In terms of sex, well the main difference is now you can go raw, I guess.
When I was a client, she charged R500 for an hour. When I was a boyfriend, I transferred over R10 000 within 4 days of Us being official, because problems just came up that needed money (she wasn't getting much bookings, so I had to step up and fix her financial problems).
Now if I had remained a client, I'd be R10000 richer. I left as quickly as I can before bankrupting myself because more problems kept coming up.
Now that was my experience and not to say that all WG's are like that, I just picked the wrong person. If you wanna do it, do it but just know that on top of emotional support, your finances need to also be on point. In terms of sex, well the main difference is now you can go raw, I guess.
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Re: Taking a WG as a GF
Posted: 2025-08-05 21:48:57
Just a note
Some of these WGs are incredible persons. They are lovely people. We cannot think of them of becomming our girlfriends, but they are still great people.
Some of these WGs are incredible persons. They are lovely people. We cannot think of them of becomming our girlfriends, but they are still great people.
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