Not a bit but a lot. we miss the pre 2015 days where the ladies were honest and not that deposit BS.

if you a punter:

this forum is here for a reason:

- never pay a deposit...NEVER PAY A DEPOSIT.
- Name and shame (if you a reliable/long time punter/reviewer, we will take note of your scammer).
- read the reviews, if they deleting their old reviews, theres a reason.

ESA is here to collect ad fees, not sus out scammers.

They used to be hard on ladies that scam maybe 15 yrs ago,and ladies were banned - those days are gone.

We only have fellow punters advice and recommendations/warnings.

If you not naming and shaming or losing a deposit - dont come on the forum bitching and moaning - really helps no-one.

Marizan... WHO are you? Please produce proof of this and things can be rectified.

To my knowledge, we've never met, never spoken, never exchanged so much as a sentence. In the event I'm mistaken and there's some unresolved matter, you could have reached out directly - like a rational adult. I run my business with fairness, boundaries, and a willingness to sort things out when needed. Clients who engage with me directly are met with clarity, honesty, and open dialogue. That's not just policy - it's principle.

Instead, you chose to hurl accusations from behind a screen, hoping something sticks. It doesn't.

You've posted a handful of times from a profile that's still infantile. I've had the same profile since November 2022, I've been reviewed by how many people? All of which paid my deposit without a sinch! I do not scam people! People who have actually dealt with me know this - which is why I've never had to chase reputation. It builds itself.

Your attempt at sabotage will fizzle - like all empty noise eventually does - into nothing.

But karma? Karma listens closely. And the cries it collects from those who lie, smear, and sabotage out of bitterness never go unanswered.

The debt you're quietly building - through jealousy, resentment, spite, and self-abandonment - is already being collected. I'd wager you feel it already in your daily life.

So here's some unsolicited advice in return:

Stop.
Introspect.
Process.
Be accountable.

Then - maybe - return to this space with something of substance. Something rooted in lived experience, not bitterness disguised as concern. Something that actually holds water.

Because if you're going to accuse someone of being full of emptiness... you may want to arrive with more than just, that. Empty words.

Yes, been wondering about this. I saw ESA found a SP with a GM profile and BANNED her, but a quick search and her ad is still up?

So how does this BAN actually work.

And thanks also for confirming what punters been saying for a long time, SPs have GM profiles and even non paid punter profiles, and 1 has been caught out so far....

On 2025-07-17 11:37:44 Holly Diamond said:
Marizan... WHO are you? Please produce proof of this and things can be rectified.

To my knowledge, we've never met, never spoken, never exchanged so much as a sentence. In the event I'm mistaken and there's some unresolved matter, you could have reached out directly - like a rational adult. I run my business with fairness, boundaries, and a willingness to sort things out when needed. Clients who engage with me directly are met with clarity, honesty, and open dialogue. That's not just policy - it's principle.

Instead, you chose to hurl accusations from behind a screen, hoping something sticks. It doesn't.

You've posted a handful of times from a profile that's still infantile. I've had the same profile since November 2022, I've been reviewed by how many people? All of which paid my deposit without a sinch! I do not scam people! People who have actually dealt with me know this - which is why I've never had to chase reputation. It builds itself.

Your attempt at sabotage will fizzle - like all empty noise eventually does - into nothing.

But karma? Karma listens closely. And the cries it collects from those who lie, smear, and sabotage out of bitterness never go unanswered.

The debt you're quietly building - through jealousy, resentment, spite, and self-abandonment - is already being collected. I'd wager you feel it already in your daily life.

So here's some unsolicited advice in return:

Stop.
Introspect.
Process.
Be accountable.

Then - maybe - return to this space with something of substance. Something rooted in lived experience, not bitterness disguised as concern. Something that actually holds water.

Because if you're going to accuse someone of being full of emptiness... you may want to arrive with more than just, that. Empty words.

Now for this I salute you. I always keep my chats pop of any transactions no cash sends because one sour asshole tries to ruin a reputation. Hats off girl

This goes both ways. I wish we can name and shame the rude callers, the timewasters who book appointments but then don't pitch, and just block us, because they can.

So yes, don't pay deposits, rather move on, but also understand when I get booked for a travel, I won't get into my car without a deposit, because you know how many times we have trusted a potential client and travelled on our own costs only to be let down?

Esa is an advertising platform, not a security company. What I can say is they do listen when we, as service providers, bring certain issues to their attention.

If you are not happy with a service provider, call them, give them the facts, they will look into the matter.

But yes, it will always remain a gamble....

However, there are loads of fabulous ladies on this site. My suggestion is just call them first and talk to them. Girls who don't except calls are a big question mark to me. And don't pay any deposits if she is hosting, but then be a gentleman and honour your appointment or cancel if plans change.

Respect both ways are so important. And sometimes I feel that element has been left behind, when I read some of the posts on this forum.

Based on the 80/20 principle. 20% will stuff it up for the 80%

On 2025-07-17 12:12:45 Janine said:
This goes both ways. I wish we can name and shame the rude callers, the timewasters who book appointments but then don't pitch, and just block us, because they can.

So yes, don't pay deposits, rather move on, but also understand when I get booked for a travel, I won't get into my car without a deposit, because you know how many times we have trusted a potential client and travelled on our own costs only to be let down?

Esa is an advertising platform, not a security company. What I can say is they do listen when we, as service providers, bring certain issues to their attention.

If you are not happy with a service provider, call them, give them the facts, they will look into the matter.

But yes, it will always remain a gamble....

However, there are loads of fabulous ladies on this site. My suggestion is just call them first and talk to them. Girls who don't except calls are a big question mark to me. And don't pay any deposits if she is hosting, but then be a gentleman and honour your appointment or cancel if plans change.

Respect both ways are so important. And sometimes I feel that element has been left behind, when I read some of the posts on this forum.

Amen

Looks like KARMA is dealing with YOU harshly.

Private school education, elocution lessons, yet hear you are scamming people on an escort site, selling your self for rent money.

Looks like YOU have wasted your life opportunities admirably on your way down to rock bottom so far.

Keep digging.

On 2025-07-17 11:37:44 Holly Diamond said:
Marizan... WHO are you? Please produce proof of this and things can be rectified.

To my knowledge, we've never met, never spoken, never exchanged so much as a sentence. In the event I'm mistaken and there's some unresolved matter, you could have reached out directly - like a rational adult. I run my business with fairness, boundaries, and a willingness to sort things out when needed. Clients who engage with me directly are met with clarity, honesty, and open dialogue. That's not just policy - it's principle.

Instead, you chose to hurl accusations from behind a screen, hoping something sticks. It doesn't.

You've posted a handful of times from a profile that's still infantile. I've had the same profile since November 2022, I've been reviewed by how many people? All of which paid my deposit without a sinch! I do not scam people! People who have actually dealt with me know this - which is why I've never had to chase reputation. It builds itself.

Your attempt at sabotage will fizzle - like all empty noise eventually does - into nothing.

But karma? Karma listens closely. And the cries it collects from those who lie, smear, and sabotage out of bitterness never go unanswered.

The debt you're quietly building - through jealousy, resentment, spite, and self-abandonment - is already being collected. I'd wager you feel it already in your daily life.

So here's some unsolicited advice in return:

Stop.
Introspect.
Process.
Be accountable.

Then - maybe - return to this space with something of substance. Something rooted in lived experience, not bitterness disguised as concern. Something that actually holds water.

Because if you're going to accuse someone of being full of emptiness... you may want to arrive with more than just, that. Empty words.

On 2025-07-17 11:42:34 Knightrider78 said:
Yes, been wondering about this. I saw ESA found a SP with a GM profile and BANNED her, but a quick search and her ad is still up?

So how does this BAN actually work.

And thanks also for confirming what punters been saying for a long time, SPs have GM profiles and even non paid punter profiles, and 1 has been caught out so far....

There's banning from the forum which is what happened in the instance you mentioned. They can't post on the forum but their ad is still active and can advertise and do business but not comment. Usually for smaller misdemeanors like creating fake accounts and stirring shit on the forum.

Then there's banning from ESA which is when they get banned from the site all together and can't advertise either and the ad gets taken down or flagged with banned all across it depending on the extent of the reason. This is for more serious unacceptable offences like scamming or stealing or causing harm to punters or other wgs etc. ESA used to ban on that level too which is what made it a reputable site back in the day since you knew those advertising were legit as the trouble was removed.

Hardly the case anymore. Same as the red and blue sites now. That is what the OP is actually complaining about. There's no credibility left apart from feedback from a handful of legitimate punters.

JP69