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The after
Posted: 2025-06-01 07:18:07
Has anyone ever struck up a friendship with an SP? As in, you stop seeing her as a client totally and just become friends, hang out? What do you WGs say about this? Possible?
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Re: The after
Posted: 2025-06-01 07:40:13
Not entirely the scenario you mentioned. But I do have a friendship with a SP outside of work. However, we both have our boundaries, we don't share real names, no real number... Etc.
So you might ask is it a real friendship then? Personally I think so, but to each there own.
So you might ask is it a real friendship then? Personally I think so, but to each there own.
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Re: The after
Posted: 2025-06-01 07:50:49
Yeah it can happen. Had that with a former WG for a while. We would even meet to hang out and not fuck, sometimes.
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Re: The after
Posted: 2025-06-01 09:04:38
Yes I have a few of them. And no sex is involved, in fact I am doing business ( completely unrelated to this industry) with 2 of them at the moment.
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Re: The after
Posted: 2025-06-01 09:36:14
Jip,100% possible.
Both ladies have now left the industry.
I've lost contact with one as she left SA, but still chat to the other one on a regular basis, and try and visit her whenever I'm in her neck of the woods.
Both ladies have now left the industry.
I've lost contact with one as she left SA, but still chat to the other one on a regular basis, and try and visit her whenever I'm in her neck of the woods.
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Re: The after
Posted: 2025-06-01 09:44:07
I have a friend who used to be a client. No sex involved, we are very good buddies. What do I think about it? We find friends everywhere, this was just one of those weird places we found friendship. It doesn't matter how we met, it only matters how we evolved from the meeting.
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Re: The after
Posted: 2025-06-01 09:50:41
Some wise person said that there is no such thing as a truly platonic relationship between a heterosexual man and a woman. There is always feelings from one side.
And i think that is very true.
And i think that is very true.
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Re: The after
Posted: 2025-06-01 09:59:41
@Vrik
Like having a chicken as a pet....
Only a matter of time before you'll want to eat it
LOL
On 2025-06-01 09:50:41 Vrik said:
Some wise person said that there is no such thing as a truly platonic relationship between a heterosexual man and a woman. There is always feelings from one side.
And i think that is very true.
@Vrik
Like having a chicken as a pet....
Only a matter of time before you'll want to eat it
LOL
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Re: The after
Posted: 2025-06-01 10:16:35
I am friends with a WG i met in 2011 in dbn. She has since graduated and is married.
We chat maybe every 2 months just keep in contact say hi check up on each other. But every December we meet for like 2 hours. There is chatting and fucking involved.
We chat maybe every 2 months just keep in contact say hi check up on each other. But every December we meet for like 2 hours. There is chatting and fucking involved.
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Re: The after
Posted: 2025-06-01 15:59:57
Any suggestions on how to raise the issue with the SP?
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