So I have been seeing this WG on and off for about 8 months and I found out recently that the condom broke and now she has called to say she is pregnant. I have been dizzy and sick since I found out. I have no idea what to do!


Please help...advice needed

"You recently found out the condom broke"....then it's not yours because if the condom had broke, you would know to at the time to and not find out later.

So i am calling BS.
And that's what paternity tests are for.

On 2024-12-18 10:35:58 Theand said:
"You recently found out the condom broke"....then it's not yours because if the condom had broke, you would know to at the time to and not find out later.

So i am calling BS.
And that's what paternity tests are for.

I agree with you,how could've they have not notice that same day.Arg she is trying to play him

Not a nice position to be in.

The problem cant be bought away so dont go giving this lady loads of money hoping its gonna be the end of it. It wont be the end of it and trying to buy it away will just make things worse. Regardless if the pregnancy is real or not.

Be rational.

1. Get yourself a therapist or a support system that will help and support you without judgment.

2. Make an appointment at a doc or clinic , be present and establish that the pregnancy is real.

3. Then she(both of you) need to decide if she is she keeping the baby or not. (There a real possibility that she might not want to have this baby, no working girl wants to get pregnant from a client. Some wg's also have a husbands and lifes outside being an SP and having a baby will might ruin her life too)

4. If no, make that appointment and pay for it.

5. If yes, make an appointment for a dna test as soon as the doc/clinic says its possible( it can be done while pregnant)

6. Once that is done depending on result..you either walk away or you have to decide are you gonna raise baby as a couple living together, are you not gonna be part of its life but pay child support or are you gonna be part of its life but not with mom and paying child support or are you taking the baby after birth and she pays child support(some women dont want to be mothers).

6. If you married i would book an appointment with a marriage councillor and break the news in that safe enviromemt. Both you and wife will need that support. And you will have a whole lot to work through while also navigating the pregnancy.

7. Remember this lady is also human and to her it must also be just as big a shock as it is too you. Be kind when dealing with her. Be kind to yourself and be kind to your wife(if you have one).

You will have to put up with a lot of not so comfortable talks and situations in coming months or even years.

I wish you all al the luck in the world that this situation can be dealt with in a kind and caring manner and you all get though ot with your sanity intact.

So u became a member in November and sommer a goldmember to. After 8 months of seeing the girl and BANG the girl is pregnant. I geuss being a goldmenber realy does put lead in the pencil. Lol

There are many things u and her can do.
Does she want the child. Abortion is an option. Wel If u knew the condom broke a morning after pill was also an option. To late now tho, I mean realy, who doesnt know this shit.
But Wait. If u only recently found out the condom broke. Where were u when all this happened that u didnt notice that. Where u even there??
How many months is she pregnant cause i think she only told u now about the broken condom and that she is pregnant. A double wammy.
Is it actualy ur child. A DNA test can confirm that but only much later.

What im trying to say is there is no advice any of us can give you. To be real. How do u give someone advice if u just a name on a website. Meaning we dont no shit about ur personal life.
But u a big boy. U wil sort it out.

I call this whole story bullshit, not just her being pregnant

Haha as i was wrting that i didnt see miss red giving such good advice. My bad. Hahaha

I think the "only recently found out the condom broke" got me in stiches. How do u take that serious. Lol

Please Please name the baby kickass seen that it happened on the purple site.

It could just be the OP's sentence structure that could be off.

Meaning that although he was aware the condom broke and he only recently found out she became pregnant from it.

But tread carefully Freakazoid. Many women know exactly what they're doing in this industry. Accidents like this seldomly happen. Or at the very least, this is the first case like this I'm hearing of.

Also, from what I've noticed here is plenty of SP's are having unprotected sex in their personal lives. This may be her boyfriend's child and when she told him about it, he split. Now you're the first runner up.

On 2024-12-18 10:59:34 KICKASS said:
Please Please name the baby kickass seen that it happened on the purple site.

Lol it didn't happen here it happened behind closed doors

Wow!

Thats a bit of a pickle to be in?

There are so many unanswered questions here???

No advice . Sorry