On 2024-12-13 06:57:12 peterb said:


Asked a simple question. On your profile "Greek" is on your dislikes

Have you tried it and don't like it?

Or - no go zone


So the question is - do you accept it as means of extra cash or just plain no?

The ops words. That got the reaction it did.

Again if it's a dislike then what does it matter? Leave it there. All the ladies were trying to say is if advertised then by all means ask the ladies about it especially because you never done it before. If not advertised or listed as a dislike then don't ask simple. It's listed as a dislike for obvious reasons they dislike it. If not advertised or listed as a service respect that.

P nothing wrong with what you asked. Nothing wrong with asking any question on anything. too many people jump to their own conclusions. S

Wow I must say after this thread, I'm surprised if any gent asks anything ever again lol
I can remember when the forum was a fun and carefree space to go to when I wanted to escape reality......sigh...nowadays, I prefer reality. Sad sad times

On 2024-12-15 22:06:34 Galaxy The Original said:
Wow I must say after this thread, I'm surprised if any gent asks anything ever again lol
I can remember when the forum was a fun and carefree space to go to when I wanted to escape reality......sigh...nowadays, I prefer reality. Sad sad times

The forum has always had controversial topics the op asked a question the ladies responded nobody attacked nobody everyone is entitled to say their say as long as it's respectful. I don't recall anyone saying their say and disrespecting the op or anyone it's called a discussion or a debate. While we all sit on different sides of the fence punters and ladies a like our perceptions of what is right and wrong or what works or doesn't work will always differ and that's ok because we are all different and we all experience life very differently. Again the ladies were speaking from their side of the fence and the punters were speaking from their perception. Had this been a mud sliding thread or people attacking each other i could so understand your comment but it was decent responses from people reading with their own perception no attack on nobody. Even I said to the op I get that and tried to point out why he recieved the responses that he did. You might not have the same boundaries as some of the ladies that posted here but respect that their boundaries are different to yours and it doesn't make their boundaries any less valid.

Again note every lady that posted and spoke about boundaries were respectful in what they had said.

As this is a open platform a question was asked and responses were given like it or not it is what it is.

This thread neh...I've been saying "YOH" the whole time. I even ran out of "YOH's",what a pity and here is my last one "YOH"*facepalm*

On 2024-12-15 22:22:39 Sexyhumour said:
This thread neh...I've been saying "YOH" the whole time. I even ran out of "YOH's",what a pity and here is my last one "YOH"*facepalm*

Lol yoh welcome back

On 2024-12-15 19:08:39 Vrik said:
On 2024-12-15 16:56:18 peterb said: folks

I did not push boundaries. We were simply having lunch


Peterb, i am surprised how many seem to have misread your post...

Vrik is 100% right.

RB.

On 2024-12-13 19:01:50 Cutchies Tushies & Boobies said:
I think the ladies was talking in general. If only you know what calls we get and after we say no to something they would carry on and on. If they stil dont get there way then the name calling and swearing follows. And this is on a daily basis Teyran.

I think if you read what this lady had said anybody reading with an open mind can understand why the ladies all said what they did.

On 2024-12-15 22:27:27 Melina - The Edging Expert said:
On 2024-12-13 19:01:50 Cutchies Tushies & Boobies said: I think the ladies was talking in general. If only you know what calls we get and after we say no to something they would carry on and on. If they stil dont get there way then the name calling and swearing follows. And this is on a daily basis Teyran.

I think if you read what this lady had said anybody reading with an open mind can understand why the ladies all said what they did.

I have a VERY open mind and I am battling to understand.

RB.

On 2024-12-15 10:49:42 Ashleigh said:

On 2024-12-13 06:57:12 peterb said:


[QUOTE;5187476;Ashleigh] Don't get me wrong, YourChunkyFunkiness.

I'm not labelling him anything.

This post was for general guidance.
Respect goes a long way.
We all just need to be more considerate of eachother and learn to move on when the answer is no.

This is how I perceive someone who cannot take no for an answer and carries on throwing hissy fits as I've been in this position one too many times, there's usually a deeper cause and not just immaturity.
My mother always said, "No is no, no explanation needed". I understand this now.

We may not like the answer but we have to accept it and move on. Some people may think this is "playing hard to get", when in reality it's a boundary to that person for a valid reason.

All the ladies gave valid reasons for their statements based on what they read I'm just quoting two very obvious ones.

Again it's supposed to be a general discussion lol but people clearly don't get that.