I think the ladies was talking in general. If only you know what calls we get and after we say no to something they would carry on and on. If they stil dont get there way then the name calling and swearing follows. And this is on a daily basis Teyran.

Its a flat no for me. Im hell bent on keeping my bumginity.

Anal requires a lot of respect, trust , patience and skills....

99% of men don't even know how to handel a clit... never mind the holy anal.

Back to point, NO MEANS NO.
If she was open to it , she would've made it an option. You are just going to piss her off when asking for it. So don't.

Try someone that offers it.

Kylie

Let me say this there are women out there that genreally enjoy it if done right.

But in this industry i think 90% that does offer it had learned to tolerate it as it means extra income. There are the rare 10% that prefer that over vaginal any day. Those ladies are normally the ones that will advertise it openly and proudly on their profiles and will communicate on the forum openly when someone asks after it.

That said if it aint stated on a profile or on a service list that she shared with you, dont ask for it.

Its just disrepectful to then even ask as she already shared what she offers and it would definitely rub her the wrong way.

And if she said no it aint for her ..respect that dont bring it up all the time and dont try the age old..i got a small dick or i will only use the tip.. lines, its cringy and creepy af..i can garantee you ladies will stop taking your appointments out of fear that one day you will try to push that boundry and try to slip it in while she is in a compromised posision.


Like peterb.. maybe once you get to know a lady and you have some report between you its fine to ask why it aint in her list. And you will probably get a straight up honest answer like he got, with no hard feelings for being curious.

I don't do the shitty fuck.

On 2024-12-13 19:01:50 Cutchies Tushies & Boobies said:
I think the ladies was talking in general. If only you know what calls we get and after we say no to something they would carry on and on. If they stil dont get there way then the name calling and swearing follows. And this is on a daily basis Teyran.

Thank you. You beauties

[QUOTE;5185514;KICKASS] I don't do the shitty fuck.[/

You have said it all....loud and clear. Finish and klaar!!! Thank you. lol

On 2024-12-13 22:23:29 KICKASS said:
I don't do the shitty fuck.

Lmfao

Just for clarification

I did not push any boundaries during the booking. After we were done and dusted, she obviously knew that I was on holiday and she asked what I was going to do next. I said I am going for a beer and she asked if she could join me. One lunch later and a few bottles of wine we were have a lekker chat.

That is when the question came up and she said NO NEVER NOT EVER GOING TO HAPPEN

Not for all the money in the world - exit only point

Just going to leave this here...

Narcissists frequently violate boundaries because they lack the ability to respect personal limits, often viewing themselves as entitled to control others and disregard how their actions impact others, leading to behaviors like oversharing, intrusive questions, and manipulation when confronted about crossing lines; setting firm boundaries is crucial when dealing with a narcissist, but they may react negatively by trying to undermine those boundaries through gaslighting, blaming, or outright denial.

Key points about narcissists and boundary violations:

Lack of empathy:
Narcissists struggle to understand or care about others' feelings, making them oblivious to when they are crossing boundaries.

Sense of entitlement:
They often believe they have the right to do whatever they want, including violating personal space and privacy.

Manipulation tactics:
When confronted about boundary violations, narcissists may use manipulation tactics like gaslighting, playing the victim, or blaming the other person to avoid accountability.

Testing boundaries:
Narcissists may deliberately push limits to gauge how far they can go before encountering resistance.

Negative reactions to boundaries:
Setting boundaries with a narcissist can often lead to anger, retaliation, or attempts to undermine the other person.

Examples of boundary violations:

Sharing personal information without consent
Intrusive questions about personal life
Ignoring "no" or requests for space
Making demands without considering others' needs
Unwanted physical contact
Taking credit for others' achievements

NO MEANS NO.

If it's clearly stated on her profile or within her rates and services... Don't ask about it.