I agree with you RB. What if he turns out to be Ted Bundy or the local green river killer, Gary Ridgeway?

To the naysayers, this is an offer, which if it appeals to you make contact with the OP, if not skip along, no one's forcing you to bite

On 2024-08-25 09:33:18 Tarzann said:
To the naysayers, this is an offer, which if it appeals to you make contact with the OP, if not skip along, no one's forcing you to bite

We are not naysayers. Nobody knows him. No reviews and few posts on the forum. One has to be careful these days. We are not biting unless we know what type of sustainance we are biting into.

agree with you RB, @leats 1 appointment beforehand, to see if there is any chemistry etc.

also, i would up the amount offered to @least 15K Mr spyker101....

have a happy Sunday everyone

Hugs and Kisses

M

On 2024-08-25 09:33:18 Tarzann said:
To the naysayers, this is an offer, which if it appeals to you make contact with the OP, if not skip along, no one's forcing you to bite

I don't think we should label people who are openly discussing this as 'naysayers'. It's an interesting topic. Given the OPs timelines, I assume the offer has passed, but the topic remains interesting as it is something other punters may be interested in. Hence perspectives from both sides are valuable.
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Personally I've tried this with 2 ladies (with a slightly different approach to the OP) and failed dismally, even ruined a long term relationships that has been going on for over year and a half. Being a socially awkward person it's easier to engage for an hour or 4 with someone, but sustaining for a whole night or a whole day or 2 or longer, soon both strangers are thinking how do I get out of this (with me at least this tends to be the case). And that's just 2 ordinary strangers living in the same space. No fem fatale or Ted bundy vibes going on.

So Milah/ RB; one or two appointments may not be enough. All you get from such a short time is fantasy. I've lost my favorite SP whom I used to have the most fun with and even started venturing into new and risky things (hence trust was presumably very high); but planned one week away and it lasted only 2 nights and everything went to shit. I thought I was a nice guy. She thought I was a nice guy. Only to discover what an asshole I can be. Unfortunately there is no do overs in life. What happens, happens. (I know this comment will piss her off. Don't be. See it as a public apology. I'll take this one all on me).

For record though, ladies, I am a nice guy with some rough edges. And totally open to having those edges filed away by brave women who are willing to call out my BS.

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What seems like a week of fantasy can easily become the opposite.

Now I'm sure there are good experiences we can learn from as well. Please do share.

But then if you do find someone you just click with and can last a week with in pure bliss ... you may just catch feelings as such coincidences are very rare, ie you just enjoy being with each other, no pretend.

And then are there any actresses that could put on a show for a whole week? Vriks statement. Entertaining for 18 hours a day. Surely, labour relations legislation applies to SPs as well. That would be some serious overtime violations. Now Red's point comes in. The maths need to be done ... if that's the expectation.

There were doubts cast also on the legitimacy of "Mayhem in Muldersdrift I" when I 1st reached out here in this forum 5 months ago,as well as myself as an actual punter.

Mayhem II dispelled all of those.

And a beautiful bonus....participants there regularly getting together since(both guys and gals),in a social,non-client/punter vibe,including one entire day spent with my kid,an SP & another punter doing extreme hiking.
No awkwardness, no cloak & dagger,no "I want 10k for my time" BS,just like-minded peeps developing and nurturing a Lust for Life.

A truly Life-changing moment.

On 7th Sep,we're all going to a Beer-fest and all-you-can eat gathering,including experiencing our Bokke reminding the AB's who the Champs are when they get poes-klapped.Again.

Karaoke nights and an overnight stay are in planning stage,and Mayhem III is just 8 weeks away....increasing the ladies to 7 and the punters to 7.

Not revealing this to toot horns or attract negative attention...it's to re-inforce that you can create whatever the fuck you want in this Lifestyle....it all starts with a simple rule for yourself if you want magic to happen...

...that's mad effective if you're disciplined enough...."No games,no BS,no trying to act "special" and super-informed on the forum etc. etc.

Just straight out authenticity....if you cannot,no worries,the queue for other SP's & punters with similar mindsets & yearning to experience similar stuff,is incredibly long,and growing.

@just4clicks

You make an excellent point (and if I am ever in Gauteng when you have a get together, I would relish an invite)

I think the ladies may be trying to explain the lack of response to the OPs seemingly really cool invitation.

All of us take a bit of a risk on a first meeting. Some try research to the highest order, others go in blind and have amazing (or awful) experiences.

I think the point being made (and one I am sure you will understand and possibly agree with), is that Sodwana is quite remote and not that easy to leave without your own transport. A week is also a long time alone with a complete stranger. Things could go really well, or really badly - and if badly, it will be difficult for either party to extricate yourself from the situation.

What you organized involved several guys and several ladies and if a participant did not click with one person, there was likely to be several others that they got on really well with!

So take the comments as a suggestion to the OP or other punters who may be thinking of something similar in how to approach the situation to achieve a more favorable outcome!

Good luck with Mayhem III and as I said, if in Gauteng - I would love an invitation!

On 2024-08-25 12:55:16 2old2 said:
@just4clicks

You make an excellent point (and if I am ever in Gauteng when you have a get together, I would relish an invite)

I think the ladies may be trying to explain the lack of response to the OPs seemingly really cool invitation.

All of us take a bit of a risk on a first meeting. Some try research to the highest order, others go in blind and have amazing (or awful) experiences.

I think the point being made (and one I am sure you will understand and possibly agree with), is that Sodwana is quite remote and not that easy to leave without your own transport. A week is also a long time alone with a complete stranger. Things could go really well, or really badly - and if badly, it will be difficult for either party to extricate yourself from the situation.

What you organized involved several guys and several ladies and if a participant did not click with one person, there was likely to be several others that they got on really well with!

So take the comments as a suggestion to the OP or other punters who may be thinking of something similar in how to approach the situation to achieve a more favorable outcome!

Good luck with Mayhem III and as I said, if in Gauteng - I would love an invitation!

Very good points made and noted. God bless you.

agreed JJ, but not all these so called impromptu getaways are nightmares my darling........

sometimes, things work and good connections are made.
I believe that communicating on a deeper level, and i have certain things i pick up from just simple conversations on whatsapp or chats on video call etc...

anyways.....

On 2024-08-25 12:55:16 2old2 said:
@just4clicks

You make an excellent point (and if I am ever in Gauteng when you have a get together, I would relish an invite)

I think the ladies may be trying to explain the lack of response to the OPs seemingly really cool invitation.

All of us take a bit of a risk on a first meeting. Some try research to the highest order, others go in blind and have amazing (or awful) experiences.

I think the point being made (and one I am sure you will understand and possibly agree with), is that Sodwana is quite remote and not that easy to leave without your own transport. A week is also a long time alone with a complete stranger. Things could go really well, or really badly - and if badly, it will be difficult for either party to extricate yourself from the situation.

What you organized involved several guys and several ladies and if a participant did not click with one person, there was likely to be several others that they got on really well with!

So take the comments as a suggestion to the OP or other punters who may be thinking of something similar in how to approach the situation to achieve a more favorable outcome!

Good luck with Mayhem III and as I said, if in Gauteng - I would love an invitation!

Like.

Like.

LOVE.

Two very very different scenarios

".....So take the comments as a suggestion to the OP or other punters who may be thinking of something similar in how to approach the situation to achieve a more favorable outcome!..."

- especially that part.

Underlining

Quoted again

"...a more favourable outcome!"

RB.