I don't know if it's just me or is there a growing trend of substance abuse amongst women SPs particularly on different platforms compared to ESA cause wow... some ladies really have mental issues out there. The audacity to be disrespectful to clients yet those same clients are the ones that can practically make or break you is something that needs to be studied.

If she needs to use to see you, then maybe the problem is you (us) ...

Can I maybe give my 2 sents here?

The guys are not the problem. Or should I just say not all of them.

You see the things is we all know that men uses logic and woman use emotions. And that aleady should give you an answer to why there are ladies that uses. Its to numb the emotional side of this "job" as some would call it.

So thats my 2 cents.
Or maybe 10 cents seeing that you dont get 2 anymore...lol

Thanks for the insight Ms. Savaty. It more like R1m, lol, priceless.

Something I still struggle with. Admittedly I've had the most pleasure in this space, and have met some wonderful souls; but I do grapple with the damage I may be inflicting on another.

What damage are you inflickting? Or did you mean it?

Cause we all do know the long term use does cause mental problems aswell as health problems.

But unfortuanitly we all can't deal with the feelings

Some people use substances to cope, some of us come on the purple site and pay women for sex. We all just trying to cope. Stay good out there life is getting tougher and tougher.

On 2024-06-17 23:54:03 Michelle Savaty said:
What damage are you inflickting?

The consequences of punting. It's easier to assess the impact on my own life and able to deal with that. But what are the consequences on others ... like you said, women are more 'emotional'. If she uses substances to cope and if that causes further long term damage on her mental health ... what was my (the punters) part in all of that. Is my pursuit for temporary pleasure causing long term damage to someone elses mental health ?

My longterm top100 regular edging expert (now retired) confessed last time I saw her that she was probably on Tik the some of the time. I never noticed.

Can I ask though: what is the problem if its casual use and not an addiction?

My current parter spent a good decade on MDMA and a lot of coke every weekend? She holds down a very well paid intellectually demanding job.

What is the difference between numbing yourself with alcohol - which many people seem to do here - or with weed or mushrooms or whatever other drug?

On 2024-06-18 07:45:16 Tacotom said:
My longterm top100 regular edging expert (now retired) confessed last time I saw her that she was probably on Tik the some of the time. I never noticed.

Can I ask though: what is the problem if its casual use and not an addiction?

My current parter spent a good decade on MDMA and a lot of coke every weekend? She holds down a very well paid intellectually demanding job.

What is the difference between numbing yourself with alcohol - which many people seem to do here - or with weed or mushrooms or whatever other drug?

An expert once compared it to a boxer. With time they suffer mental impairment, start talking funny, etc. It is not the big blows that did that damage, but rather the constant smaller blows. They add up with time. And drugs do exactly the same thing. The person will deteriorate with time and addiction goes through successive stages.

If it's not substances, drugs, it's the alcohol, the drinking wine all day ...