Good day to all:)

Now as someone still new into this world of acitivities, is controlling ejaculation a mind thing or a physical muscle to contract?

Let me give a but more detail
Sometimes a man lasts 20 mins and sometimes not even 20 seconds, happens to the best of men. Apart from drugs, meds, weed, and alcohol what is the actual method to keep ejaculation in and not bust after 20 seconds? There has to be some sort of way right? If we can hold our piss in why not our nut????

Please let me know or if there is any wg that can "teach" pm me

Thanks all and have a safe December

"...If we can hold our piss in why not our nut????..."- quoted from above


Think about it this way....u know the closer u get to the loo the more urgent that need to pee becomes that sometimes it starts happening bfr u even reach the loo?

Well.....the closer u get to that which stimulates the mind, that primate sexual desire fired...the greater the probability the control is weakened.

Thus mind and physical interact.



Looking fwd to the pleasure of you and you and YOU...and prolonged play!

RB.

On 2023-12-20 08:04:54 TheDetailsAccount said:
Good day to all:)

Now as someone still new into this world of acitivities, is controlling ejaculation a mind thing or a physical muscle to contract?

Let me give a but more detail
Sometimes a man lasts 20 mins and sometimes not even 20 seconds, happens to the best of men. Apart from drugs, meds, weed, and alcohol what is the actual method to keep ejaculation in and not bust after 20 seconds? There has to be some sort of way right? If we can hold our piss in why not our nut????

Please let me know or if there is any wg that can "teach" pm me

Thanks all and have a safe December

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On the physiological side, your bodily function is controlled by the autonomic nervous system (in layman's terms the subconscious), eg your heart beats without you having to think about it. Your penis unfortunately is like your heart. You have absolutely no control over it.

Not the same as taking a piss. You have no control over your bladder. When it's full it will empty, but you have a sphincter at the end of thr pipe, which you can control. Unfortunately with your sperm ducts, you have no sphincter.

In the same way that you can't control your heart, tell it to beat faster or slower, with conscious thought; you cant control your penis either. Hence the common saying that it has a mind of its own. It literally does. But you can influence its behavior through suggestive actions and positive mental reinforcements.

Sex workers (those that do more than just take a buck for an ejac) play a valuable role, I believe, it assisting both the younger male with control challenges and older males with overall function challenges. Maybe they can even be classified as a sex therapist, degree not required, just experience in working with the male anatomy and subconscious mind. Besides no psychologist or doctor is going to give you practical/ physical sessions.

It is more mind than anything else.
In general, the more excited you are, the faster it will happen. If you want to slow it down then you need to calm yourself down in one way or another.

It's both, but the most important part to manage is your mind. And to prove that the mind is the most important here is a scenario, albeit a bit extreme (apologies if I offend anyone), but it proves the point: you are busy pumping away, you suddenly get a message on your phone which seems important, you take a quick peek and it's unfortunately terrible news - grandma just passed away. Your mind will immediately move away from the sex and your dick will lose all sensitivity.

If you can control your mind you can control your dick. Here is what has worked for me. Go very slow in the beginning, pull out if need be. After a few minutes you'll be able to increase speed. Also, think of the highest number you can think of and count backwards in your head or try some complicated math and really concentrate. It will distract your mind from the sensation. It doesn't happen overnight and you should apply these techniques often. I've taken it to a point where I sometimes take too long to come and it becomes a bit frustrating. Anyway different strokes for different folks, try what works for you.

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Best not to mess with the mind of your dick, you will only make the little head go 'mental'. You can't control your dick with your conscious mind. Yes you can influence it by feeding it false information (a distraction if you will), but it will eventually adapt and get screwed up. You might find that it will expect granny to call during every session, and you end up with a limp dick mid session, even though you not even using that trick anymore.

Impotence is generally a sign of a confused dick. Rather work with positive reinforcement than negative reinforcement. And see a lady, like those recommended above, who know how to manage gasms.

This is becoming a serious problem in my life as the duration is getting less and less instead of improving. Has anyone worked on this with the help of a WG and do you have any recommendations in the JHB area? From all my experiences, the ladies make promises but they're happiest to see you leave after a few minutes because it's a literally a "quick" buck.

On 2023-12-20 22:23:25 Zayn said:
This is becoming a serious problem in my life as the duration is getting less and less instead of improving. Has anyone worked on this with the help of a WG and do you have any recommendations in the JHB area? From all my experiences, the ladies make promises but they're happiest to see you leave after a few minutes because it's a literally a "quick" buck.

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