Send a whatsapp asking for rates. Get response race and name please. Respond so far no issue but then it starts, Hi, i respond Hi, she responds how are you......

FFS just send me your rates no need to ask how.family and ancestors are doing

Hahaha! As an INFJ, I *NEED* directness and hate fluff, lol.

Similarly, when I get a "Hi" in my inbox, with no substance, it takes a lot for me to reply...

I love your post, hopefully Gents & Ladies will take heed of the actual message you're bringing across.

When I say hi plz reply hi then I will asked what is needed I would not want you to think I am falling in love because I am not.howevere if you feel you next question is how are u I will definitely reply in kindness don't for once think that I want or need anything else other then a booking.if you don't want to see me say so if you feel you can see me say so don't let me feel that I need to beg.

Last but not least I want to get to know who I am booking so don't become like government officials that believe they doing us favors.

Or reply:
Please call me.
Or
Please WA me.

For those who don't know, you can copy from WA and paste into PM.

Sometimes we don't have time to do messages. Never mind being able to call (due to privacy reasons).

I am happy to confirm a booking with a call, once i know services and prices are aligned. But i don't want to call 10 girls to make 1 booking, trying to get info.

Reply from a WG who has been active for a while

"Hi sorry have been busy only been able to get to inbox now
I dont give any details on here only by calls and watsapp"

Why market yourself if you are not willing to give atleast basic information like rates on PM.

On 2023-10-04 14:58:06 bbw4me said:
Reply from a WG who has been active for a while

"Hi sorry have been busy only been able to get to inbox now
I dont give any details on here only by calls and watsapp"

Why market yourself if you are not willing to give atleast basic information like rates on PM.

So I've never had a problem with sending rates via PM until recently when I was completely attacked and degraded with the reply after denying a request and the person responded back arrogantly that I would never know if he booked me or not so I must be prepared for when he books me.

Now if I didn't reply over pm I would have atleast had a number to avoid instead of wondering and waiting for this piece of work to make a booking.

So yes I can see why some ladies would be hesitant to discuss things over pm

On 2023-10-04 13:35:22 Thepussymaster said:
Send a whatsapp asking for rates. Get response race and name please. Respond so far no issue but then it starts, Hi, i respond Hi, she responds how are you......

FFS just send me your rates no need to ask how.family and ancestors are doing

Ladies pls dont rev his pee pee

I am terribly sorry I am one of those girls, I hate it when I get a hi, rates? I feel that sometimes it is just plain manners to greet me and then ask my rates, I am still old school I guess.........I was taught that you greet someone and then ask how are you and then ask rates. After all we are also human and deserve to be treated with respect, I find it extremely rude just a hi, rates?

On 2023-10-04 19:47:46 Busty Lacy said:
I am terribly sorry I am one of those girls, I hate it when I get a hi, rates? I feel that sometimes it is just plain manners to greet me and then ask my rates, I am still old school I guess.........I was taught that you greet someone and then ask how are you and then ask rates. After all we are also human and deserve to be treated with respect, I find it extremely rude just a hi, rates?

This makes perfect sense to me as a boytie from the platteland, but the last time I tried this "greet first" approach I got a "do you actually need something?" from the WG. To be fair this girl has or had ( not even sure if she's still here) a horrible attitude on the ESA forum that will always translate into real life. So now, I have a standard greeting and request all in one sentence. Sometimes, actually most of the times the girl will respond with a standard copy and paste response, which is completely fine with me as I get all the relevant info I need.
There are those extremely rare occasions where a conversation is started, which I love, and is invariably pleasant and let's me know exactly who I'm dealing with. I do not expect this at all, and will always be pleasantly surprised when it actually happens.