A big vrot review is also an option.

No matter the excuse, i would never return. Some things are just not meant to be !

Quoting Sage:

"Miscommunication happens.

Assumptions makes for lots of fuckups
Be sure you are absolutely blameless before assuming insult when non was intended."

This is indeed fact.

Confirmation of ALL services, rates, do's/ don'ts, date and time is key! Nothing beats good clear communication, no matter how shy/nervous you are.

Visited a Lady in Waterloo recently (1st visit) She is still teasing me re. the essays I wrote to her during the set-up of our meeting.

Needless to say, all expectations were not only met but exceeded by far!!!

On 2023-06-27 13:58:13 Oshucks said:
Is this a who wants to be a millionaire multiple choice?

Its none of your business......let the ladies use own discretion....

I know this hard for you but don't be a doos

From my own line of work, I double even triple book appointments everyday, due to the high rate of cancelation. If I didn't I'd often find myself sitting at my desk with nothing to do and not reaching my performance objectives. On the day, and even the hour sometimes, I cancel the low value propositions. Yes, some people hate me but others are extremely grateful when they eventually get my time, which enables me to extract more value from them.

Sex work is much more personal and a lot of emotions flying around. But at the end of the day a lady/ gent has to eat, pay the rent and have some fun; plus invest for the future. Hence optimizing their time - which literally translates to the old adage - time is money; is extremely important.

I suspect many ladies operate on the same principle, obviously won't admit it, but if they didn't, 'jy gaan kaal gat op die stoep sit'.

If I was a SP, I would say an appointment is only confirmed when money is in the bank account.

For the punters, ones needs to accept that the world doesn't revolve around you. Being the client, the one with the money, doesn't make you that important. There are many of you out there, and in a competitive space, you could lose.

Generally I just apply the same principle with punting. Book 2 to 3 ladies in the timeframe you have available and confirm on the day with the 1 that's looks like you most likely to have success with. If you really want to be with one particular person, plan, book and pay in advance (obviously it needs to be someone you trust).

Ooooo J_J

I can understand your sentiment but, a huge no to much u have written and opens the door to greater abuse and disrespect of both Punter time and effort and SP's right to earning a keep and respect toward SP's time and effort to be professional even if it is in the sex / sensual space , no matter the emotions involved.

Might work in principle in your space but, that approach should not even be considered in this space.

RB

It's happened to me the otherday went to my regular and when I got in the room she forgot about another booking that was 10 min away we had fun for 5 min I left when to the pub a Block up had a brandy went back when she was done, I wasn't angry I was happy for her making more money and I could acomadte her as she is my No1 girl on the site we all human and ship happens

Sage said...
Assumptions makes for lots of fuckups
Be sure you are absolutely blameless before assuming insult when non was intended.


Very true.
Intent and impact unfortunately does not always make good bedfellows. Lack of intent does not negate impact. Continued communication before a fkup is probably as important as communication afterwards. Like bdsm. Aftercare is required after pain ;))

I think you also touch on an important thing (the assumption of confirmation), namely that a message/booking/confirmation sent,does not guarantee it was read.

I recall phoning a SP once with a view to book.

She gave me a landmark near her and said i should call to confirm a tad later. Also gave her hour rate.
So i get to the landmark (later than expected due to traffic) and call her, only to be told that another client has confirmed for that time and is on the way.

But then she says : "But sweetie, if you can pay me R300 more, ill 'forget' about him, and accommodate you"

I didnt go through with it - as i felt sorry for the other guy - but also wonder , if there was another appointment at all

On 2023-06-27 14:01:24 Russian Bridgitte said:


He was due in half an hour!?!??

I called him, of course he was on his way..I tried to explain myself but, of course there was no excuse nor anything that one could say to make it right.

I offered a free session because it was MY fault but, I have never heard from him again :(((

A lesson learnt.

RB.

Happened to me. Was a regular for about 5 years, twice a week, sometimes more. Most horrible feeling.
I also never went back. She texted and called nonstop.
I eventually had to block her. Written off the monies I was owned and moved on.