I am new in punting and was wondering how safe it is to visit a lady with no reviews (for example getting robbed or arrested)? I see a lot of profiles with no reviews, some look new and others don't.

Haha....

Its called School Fee's for a reason...

#Basically for a "new" WG with No reviews:

1) You hit the jackpot...put another way you probably have a better chance of winning the lotto(twice in a row)

2) Most of the time...may be a decent lady...times are tough and new people join all the time.

Experience is what counts and these bookings well they seldom live up to expectation.

3)There are no reviews for obvious reasons...
a) She looks like a crack hoe
b) She works from a dodgy area
c) Photos just are not appealing enough.
d) She an old WG re-inventing hereself..mostly these WGs have been a huge dissapoint before..they have tons of previous negative reviews, cause a lot of drama...like a black widow..just moved location and is waiting for her next unsuspecting victim.
e)People confused as to what they offer (FH vs Massage Only vs Extras) and are waiting for more info, etc
f) People confused if woman or ladyboy(esp with thai and other oriental ladies ads)
4) Venue/agency has recruited a new babe and just put her ad up...

# For a "old" WG with No reviews:..quite rare...but most likely the Black Widow as option above.

Regardless..there are some horny degenerates out there who will go take the risk of trying out an unreviewed WG(and I'll admit ..Im one of them..lol!!)...and they may or may not leave a review.

Its a gamble alright..but part of what makes the punting game such a thrill!!

Recently iv learnt not to trust reviews.

Iv also learnt that girls give certain extras for a good review, so its all really a gamble.

From an SP perspective...

We all start somewhere with zero reviews.

Reviews are not always dependable.

I have seen many punters whom either review once only or never at all.

Reviews should be taken tongue in cheek, some punters leave a negative review because they either hurt the SP or did something she didn't like and the SP is too scared to stand up for herself on her profile and make herself look bad. Unfortunately some punters do not like hearing no.

I suggest you converse with the prospective lady either by phone or whatsapp to get a feel of what she is like. Any alarm bells go off, you have your answer...

Have to agreewith Courtney, all ladies start without any reviews and built there street credit via good service.

The chance of being rob,scammed, arrested are the same as visiting any other lady, there is no garantees in this business.

I must add, there are only a few scamsters on ESA. It is safe to visit the majority of ladies advertising on ESA.

I personally won't see a WG with no reviews and in addition if she has more than than 3 negative reviews,as others indicated its not cast in stone but I guess everyone has their own way of doing things

On 2023-03-27 19:05:22 shaungovender said:
I personally won't see a WG with no reviews and in addition if she has more than than 3 negative reviews,as others indicated its not cast in stone but I guess everyone has their own way of doing things

Hayi wena not everyone started the industry with reviews:)but it took that one person to visit and gave a review..

How have you been though my horny handsome:)

I personally don't want any reviews and I would also say that I am the rare exception.

Been in the industry for 2years and I still have quite a number of regulars from when I started. Some of them see me religiously once a week and others see me once a month.

Some have even found me from when I was working at a spa and went independent.

I've continued to advertise and wouldn't do so if I wasn't gaining anything.

However, the reason I don't have reviews on this site is because it is predominantly heterosexual and people carry shame that they have gone "outside" of their box and don't want to admit that they engaged sexually with a male - even if I am a different type of male (probably more shameful) and enjoyed it.

I'm totally okay with this. That's their journey. I have dealt with my shame and turned it into empowerment. I like all sorts of sex and I don't give a damn what anyone thinks.

Why I don't want reviews? I would love to have a family one day and I guess, there is a degree of shame that I carry and I sometimes find myself falling into a trap of catching feelings (in my personal life). I am open and transparent with my love interests (when I do have love interests). Everyone I have ever been involved with knows what I do and I believe that they have the right to know. So while I'm open and honest, I don't want to share the explicit details of a session with my personal romantic partners and it disturbs me terribly to think that they may read of what happens in a session with someone. So I'm grateful that my clients are big on this discretion as much as I am.

- This is my own form of shame that I am learning to come to terms with and to navigate around my own issues of having difficult discussions or my own projections of possible jealousy or insecurities if I'm being totally honest.

But I in no way carry shame of being sexual and engaging sexually with both men and women, or of being with such a wide variety of people (straight, gay, bi, couples etc...)

I do share on the forum from time to time, but it's usually related to a much deeper point that I am trying to convey.

I have had reviews on other sites and those reviews were vanilla and very tasteful compared to some of the stuff I've read on here. So I was a lot more at ease and instead of discussing how skilled I am in the bedroom or what positions were tried, I was complimented on being a gentleman, making the client feel at ease, professionalism, looking better in person than on my photos, a firm massage and well basically information that was shared that allowed me to sleep peacefully at night.

I can't speak on behalf of the ladies with no reviews, but my point is maybe you're missing out on a wonderful experience and someone has to test out the waters first. Maybe some of the ladies also don't want reviews because they are partnered or have family.

I find that a lot of people on this forum ALWAYS speculate the worst and look at the glass as half full, but will come at you with they're just realists or paid school fees, or whatever grand term they would like to use. Instead of trying to understand and look at things from a different perspective.

There's always more than one side to a story and I never believe anything that I read. I am the kind of guy who needs to personally experience a person for myself because at the end of the day, most people only shows you what they want you to see. I'm more interested in what is behind the wall and masks are heavy to carry, so eventually they fall. That authenticity, vulnerability and raw truth is what I'm interested in and that can only be experienced individually. Also everyone is different, so how you connect with a person, may not be the same as how another connects with a person.

It's like Apple may be compatible with certain software and programs, that android isn't. Doesn't mean it's "bad," it's just different and some people prefer certain brands while others don't. That's their preference.

I never listen to gossip or others opinions. I need to form my own opinion and have my own experience of a person and I think that more punters should do the same. Obviously not in all cases. If there is a major red flag or concern, of course, take this into consideration. Don't put yourself in a harmful situation or unpleasant situation but I believe in formulating your own opinion and remembering that everyone responds and receives energy differently.

On 2023-03-27 19:34:32 Miss Barbie Doll said:
On 2023-03-27 19:05:22 shaungovender said: I personally won't see a WG with no reviews and in addition if she has more than than 3 negative reviews,as others indicated its not cast in stone but I guess everyone has their own way of doing things


Hayi wena not everyone started the industry with reviews:)but it took that one person to visit and gave a review..

How have you been though my horny handsome:)

Hey Miss Barbie,I'm well,thanks for asking,I trust that you are doing great;)

Based on experience, if a profile has been up for a while and there are no reviews its a red flag.