Hi, I recently came out of a 15 year relationship based in CT.. long story short found this website, decided to join and I want to take the next step.. Can someone more experienced give me some advice, with regards to dealing with an Escort/Companion?

I think it will be awhile before I consider trying to find girl friends and dating.

How old are you? Im very good at caring for the elderly, especially those with a BIG, THICK....wallet ;-)

1. Get a punting phone. Get a pre rica'd sim card
2. Read the reviews. You will soon find out who is reliable
3. Read the General Info posts regularly (in the beginning) to familiarize yourself with possible scams etc.
4. Do not answer calls from unknown numbers on the punting phone
5. Wear a raincoat at all times
6. Be polite to the ladies and treat with respect

To add to Igloo;

7) Don't catch feelings for the SP
8) Bring your own condoms
9) Ensure your hygiene is 110% and insist on the same from your SP, shower before and after the booking
10) Only lend out money to the SP if you are willing to lose it
11) When you get to her place, if she looks like Megan Fox on ESA and a dump truck in real, PLEASE get out of there. It's your money and you have every right to leave if you don't like what you see.
12) Keep a lookout on your surroundings for dodgy people etc, trust your instinct and if something doesn't feel right then just abort mission right there.
13) Have a good time and enjoy the company of your chosen lady.

Its a bit extreme if you get a punting phone.

You want to get an oldish phone, possible looks used/secondhand. That way if anyone asks you about it you can easily dismiss it as an old phone you had laying around.

Only use it for purposes searching for SP, making appointments, communication with SP leading up to the appointment.

After the appointment, Wipe it clean of recent usage (numbers dialed, text messages, browsing history) - I find easiest way is factory reset.
This way you don't have to answer for anything if discovered. Switch the phone off, take out the sim.

Lastly store the phone and sim separately. Again, ties in with the reasoning just an old phone you don't have to answer for why it has a working sim. And don't store the sim in your wallet. If you like me that has a drawer of loose ends, it's almost the perfect place to "hide" it because it just looks like forgotten clutter, but it has to have a lot of clutter

It seems extreme but believe me the less you have to answer for the better. It may seem like a lot of effort but as this world ropes you in, believe me you don't want any attention, you don't want to have to make up lies, you want the simplest explanations out. Having an old phone, that i used to have, is the easiest.

Also try not to be seen by the people you know (friends, family etc ) with the second phone. For example you go see a SP, afterwards you meet a mate in the pub and you carry both phones with you.

If you restrict your activities like that to your punting phone, any receiving calls you get are possibly scam calls or attention from SP you don't want.

To quote some movie quote "You don't pay a prostitute to stay. You pay her to leave".

The point of that is it's a transaction for the service, see what you like, pay for what you want, you/she leaves depending on location. You want no baggage afterwards, no strings attached. Its sounds cold, and it is but believe me it's the best approach.

Trust your gut. If you have doubts, pull out of the appointment BUT PLEASE at least be courteous, call and cancel with the SP. The sooner the better.

Treat the SP with respect. It might be a business but there is no regulatory body, ombudsmen etc. Treat them like shit and you could possibly get a lot more shit thrown back at you. More than you would want.

When entering the room, leave your emotional baggage behind. I say this because if you start sharing your heart, issues etc, the SP may use this as hooks for her own gains and means. Not all SPs are like this but why cause problems.

Also refrain from revealing to much about yourself. Take on an alias, never reveal birthdays, lie about your age. Again, you don't want extra attention and you don't want the bad elements in this world to know about you.

Thanks guys for the advice.. @Petite Maya.. 42 years old, a regular/normal/average guy! You will have to look somewhere else for the Big Thick Wallet! But thanks

Don't fall in love. No matter what she tells you, it's all about the money.

Can't believe you guys didn't warn a brother

On 2023-02-14 18:10:25 vampirezn said:
Don't fall in love. No matter what she tells you, it's all about the money.

Can't believe you guys didn't warn a brother

30ofAkind did

7) Don't catch feelings for the SP

Treat all ladies with respect and enjoy yourself

If tou catch feelings try to be in control...nothing wrong with that...its natural...

I just have one question, why should you wear a raincoat at all times?

@sinnet, welcome to the purple world. I'm not a punter so I don't have advice from that side of the coin. But I can say that when we treat others the way we would like to be treated, that generally sets the tone for any engagement within this type of world or without and I wish you nothing but success in your punting ventures.

May it be orgasmic and may you find healing through this.

I know for myself, I found my healing through becoming a service provider and I will never look back.