I'm super chilled and easy to please, so I don't really ask for much detail.
I usually just want to exchange a few messages, maybe disclose my insecurities, ask for a few details about the venue, and get a feel for the potential chemistry.
I never ask for pics or anything like that and I am extremely respectful of people's time. I never feel offended if I don't get a reply on the same day, or even at all.
I hate being thought of as a time-waster though, or seen as someone who just wants a chat buddy.
Ladies, would you think it was weird if I offered to eWallet you a small payment to show I'm not wasting your time?
Would that make you more comfortable exchanging a handful of messages?
I've done it a few times successfully, but it seems the offer sometimes makes people suspicious of my motives.
It's about mutual respect.
Nicci
Xx
On 2023-02-07 07:35:35 Nicci said:
I would give you as much information as you would need to feel comfortable without an ewallet.
It's about mutual respect.
Nicci
Xx
Thanks Nicci. Pity you aren't closer ;)
I should mention that many ladies are fine with it and can tell from my messages that I am respectful.
Sometimes I don't get any response other than an automated one, and I'm leave it at that despite really being interested in meeting.
It is my style.
I have never asked for remuneration for the chats and prefer to believe in the good intent of the conversation hoping the conversor likes the banter and interaction and may consider a visit.
My question
On many occasions I have been offered remuneration for my time...not thru any ask or coaxing from my side...with the promise of sending money as a thank u....only to never receive it.
Why make the offer in the first place if not asked ?
Why lie it has been sent if not?
...it does muddy the waters for those with sincere intent and offer.
What a pity there are fuckers who spoil it for the good ones out there.
RB.
On 2023-02-07 07:43:49 JackFrost said:
I feel the same about the upfront chat. I prefer to feel comfortable prior to a booking. Or the booking potentially lands up both of us not enjoying ourselves. Having sold a service in the past, I would have never considered discussions about the service on WhatsApp or telephoncially to be a waste of time. Sure, some of these never turned unto sales, but that is not the point. It was my business, so every conversation brought me closer to a deal. Sometimes those "them wasters" may refer someone else to you that could a high paying regular.
On 2023-02-07 07:43:49 JackFrost said:
I feel the same about the upfront chat. I prefer to feel comfortable prior to a booking. Or the booking potentially lands up both of us not enjoying ourselves. Having sold a service in the past, I would have never considered discussions about the service on WhatsApp or telephoncially to be a waste of time. Sure, some of these never turned unto sales, but that is not the point. It was my business, so every conversation brought me closer to a deal. Sometimes those "them wasters" may refer someone else to you that could a high paying regular.
On 2023-02-07 07:41:19 Candice said:
I can be quite verbose hahaha and I love chatting. I am open, kind and understanding that many gentlemen want to get a "feel" for the Girl he wants to book before setting up an appointment. That being said, I adore gifts and if you're so inclined to gift me for my time... That is a wow!
Oh my, I may need to move cities...
On 2023-02-07 07:46:12 LuisG said:
On 2023-02-07 07:41:19 Candice said: I can be quite verbose hahaha and I love chatting. I am open, kind and understanding that many gentlemen want to get a "feel" for the Girl he wants to book before setting up an appointment. That being said, I adore gifts and if you're so inclined to gift me for my time... That is a wow!
Oh my, I may need to move cities...
Oh my, I may need to move cities... [/QUOTE]
Thank you LuisG xxx
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