On 2023-01-13 07:44:04 Knightrider78 said:
Started back in 2009.

It was nothing more than an opportunity, i.e. SMART PHONES, access to the internet in the palm of your hand, made it a lot easier, stumbled on ESA by mistake while searching for something else...LOL.

Being Indian it hit me, that I grew up too fast i.e. life forced me to become an adult early on and I never got to "Play the field"

I just wanted to know what it was like, to be with women that were considered, Taboo or off limits when we were growing up, those girls you wanked off to in the magazines ;-)

Started off with just massage and HR for a while, as it was way cheaper than FH back then.

It became FH when the massage rates became same or more expensive than FH.

Like a few have stated, tried to quit a few times, but, every day, NEW talent pops up and the rest is history.

I am starting to get closer to the age limits of some SPs, but still a long ways to go yet ;-)

I haven't been in the game as long as you have but you're 100% right about the "taboo/off limits" part. I was born before the smartphone era and growing up it slowly but surely become a norm in life and along with that came porn.
I've realized how porn or in those days the girls in the magazines has/had such a huge impact on the the women I choose as a man today. I was literally a child looking at naked women wishing I could fuck them, I don't know the science of it all but I'm willing to bet that, that did something in my mind in terms of women I'm attracted to, the type of sex I enjoy having and other things when it comes to women in my life.

On the flipside, I'm glad I've learned all these things early on in life, even though it may or may not have messed me up a little growing up in a way in "educated" me lol and I'm not just talking about ESA or porn, I think in life we've all had moments where we grew up a little too fast but now that we're grown adults (I hope most of us here are) we look at those things and know how to approach them better.

On 2023-01-13 07:48:32 3OfAKind said:
As LR mentioned, I too believe we are all here for different reasons, some of us may stop at a certain point, some will not.

Having spent most of my 20s in academic pursuits, I was keen to make up lost time and that is why I am here. I want to sample 20-30 different flavours so that if I am eventually sentenced to marriage, I am at least mediocre at sex but not completely bad. In addition, I want to sample a different girl in every city/country I visit.

Having said that, personally, it would be extremely difficult if not impossible for me to keep sleeping with one woman for the rest of my life after having sampled different ones, therefore I would always have that "need" for variety so it's unlikely I am going to stop. I guess at the end of the day when my dick stops working, I want to think back with satisfaction and know that my dick doesn't work because I used the fuck out of it.

I feel everyone has their vices and hobbies, ours just happens to be punting.

Not being able to be with one person because I want that variety is genuinely one of my fears I won't lie.
I believe a study was done which stated the more partners you have the harder it will be to find "real love", whether this is true based on the science I don't know but if you really think about it, it makes sense. When having experienced so many different women, settling for one can be difficult, especially when different women do different things to you and you're stuck wishing that your wife/gf could do what "other" women does, not just in bed but simple things in life, like having someone who makes food a certain way that nobody else can make or somebody else's vibe and energy when coming home from a long day of work or even just cleaning up the spot together while vibing to so music. I'm afraid of having too many partners in my life because I'm afraid of not enjoying all these simple things in life with just one.

Maybe the sentence of marriage isn't the one we want to commit to but the one we need to commit to. I guess we'll never know.

Maybe the time is now...

I didn't read the whole thread,but why on earth would you want to stop giving your dick for what it needs?
Hahahaha did you know that if you don't more often fuck,after the age of 45 years.you more likely to have prostate cancer?.

I punt when I am single and when I have the time.

Amazing experiences; memories and adventures, all with a vast selection of beautiful ladies without any pretense or subterfuge.

Been doing it since the nineties and still going strong.

Also, when I do have a partner, she is very satisfied with my accumulated experience...

On 2023-01-13 08:33:44 Jason_Oliver said:

When having experienced so many different women, settling for one can be difficult, especially when different women do different things to you and you're stuck wishing that your wife/gf could do what "other" women does, not just in bed but simple things in life, like having someone who makes food a certain way that nobody else can make or somebody else's vibe and energy when coming home from a long day of work or even just cleaning up the spot together while vibing to so music. I'm afraid of having too many partners in my life because I'm afraid of not enjoying all these simple things in life with just one.

It's a product of our upbringing and education to submit to the notion that one person can potentially be all things to you.

The two become one notion is antiquated and simply is not the case. It should be amended to : The two otherwise fulfilled and happy people already living well (enough) balanced lives choose to become one at specific times for the purposes of a higher level of self expression and acceptance.

It is ok to have many people fulfill the many varied needs you may have, sexual or otherwise, wether you end up paying to fuck the ones you enjoy having some of these needs filled by, that is a choice however, and ultimately will interfere with or prohibit the opportunity to have some of the other needs fulfilled.

It's all about the choices and what you associate the higher value to.

I always stop - between punts

Have not punted for months. The reason is that one WG just abused me emotionally. I just thought fuck you. I actually dont miss it. Why do i still visit ESA because just maybe a fantasy lady pops up but nothing until now. The longer you dont punt the less the need. But i cant say I will never punt again. There are a couple of MG here that if they offered FH I would be tempted back.

nope. punting for me was the thrill of taboo.
from the apartheid days the taboo of being with black women, Indian and Asian women.
then the very next punt was with older women.
the there is the things you can do with a wg, you just can't with a gf.

wont stop punting. I still feel some of the taboos exist. it's still the thrill.

On 2023-01-16 05:05:21 Darthvader68 said:
Have not punted for months. The reason is that one WG just abused me emotionally. I just thought fuck you. I actually dont miss it. Why do i still visit ESA because just maybe a fantasy lady pops up but nothing until now. The longer you dont punt the less the need. But i cant say I will never punt again. There are a couple of MG here that if they offered FH I would be tempted back.

This comment sums up pretty well my reasons. Deleted my old profile of almost 10 years in 2020, took a break for a while and created a new profile ( this one ) to see if much has changed. Doubt I will punt much anymore :-/