The pomp at home that you think are free are costing you a lot more than a booking with an escort

It depends on your relationship with the SP. I have a regular, we just click, and sometimes she'll randomly WhatsApp me to chat. No charge. She has a lot going on in her life and needs someone to talk to, my (punting) phone is always on.

Likewise, my marriage is gone to shit and she, many times, will initiate the conversation and ask me how things are going. Usually during our cuddle time if it's during a session.

In all my punting years I've only ever had 2 regular SP's with whom I've formed this type of connection. I would never do this with just any SP.

Point I'm trying to make, it ultimately depends on the SP and your connection with her.

On 2023-01-14 18:46:06 Petite Maya said:
Dangerous territory my dear. Remember there are SPs that are blackmailing clients with personal information. Also SPs wont always have your interests at heart, some do but remember this is work and a job.

This. This. THIS!

Guys (and girls) you need to remember that at the end of the day this is a very transactional interaction. Some degree of boundaries are required. Don't catch feels, don't overshare, don't lean too far in. Enjoy the physical intimate nature of this hobby but stop there.

On 2023-01-14 20:18:17 jimv said:
It depends on your relationship with the SP. I have a regular, we just click, and sometimes she'll randomly WhatsApp me to chat. No charge. She has a lot going on in her life and needs someone to talk to, my (punting) phone is always on.

Likewise, my marriage is gone to shit and she, many times, will initiate the conversation and ask me how things are going. Usually during our cuddle time if it's during a session.

In all my punting years I've only ever had 2 regular SP's with whom I've formed this type of connection. I would never do this with just any SP.

Point I'm trying to make, it ultimately depends on the SP and your connection with her.

I absolutely agree with you. I enjoy interacting with my clients and more often than not they feel comfortable doing the same. I can't fix what is broken, but sometimes just having someone to just listen and not judge does miracles.
Most of my clients have my personal number and whenever they feel like having a chat I'm there for them. If you click and feel comfy sharing, why not? ;) xxx

Yes strangley enough I am actually a professional trauma counselor with degrees in personality disorders and suicide and addiction treatment. So yes that makes me more than just an escort

Xx

On 2023-01-14 20:23:39 jtrdbn said:
On 2023-01-14 18:46:06 Petite Maya said: Dangerous territory my dear. Remember there are SPs that are blackmailing clients with personal information. Also SPs wont always have your interests at heart, some do but remember this is work and a job.

This. This. THIS!

Guys (and girls) you need to remember that at the end of the day this is a very transactional interaction. Some degree of boundaries are required. Don't catch feels, don't overshare, don't lean too far in. Enjoy the physical intimate nature of this hobby but stop there.

Or be human and feel something.... even if it is just for that little while you are together. Not all SP's are nasty. You might pay some school fees to find the right person, but if you do, it will definitely be worth all the money and energy you've invested! Yes, I do this as a job, but not just for financial gain, but also because I absolutely love what I do.... just my 2 cents xxx

I think he just means the WGs are a good distraction (if you pick carefully - with almost zero drama and complications) and you can stomach all the crazy at home. I am in the same boat as him. If not for this escape I would have gone nuts long time ago - been married 20 yrs.

That's if you're okay with your wife getting railed by a male escort so she can cope with you at home

No but they are good loadshedders.

Of course we are. You come visit us, have your fun, and go home as if nothing happened. It's a form of therapy which keeps you from getting divorced. You're happy, your wife doesn't know, life goes on.
We thereby ad value to society through keeping marriages together.