Protagonist or Antagonist ?
Sheriff or Deputy ?
Suitor or Stalker ?

On 2022-12-21 08:11:03 Cunilinkiss said:
On 2022-12-21 07:43:33 Russian Bridgitte said:
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[SPs] too have a right to an opinion, considering u no judge or jury too ...even if it may rub u up the wrong way.

:)

RB.




Actually I think that's part of the problem right there!
When there is a friendship then you are perfectly correct! You do have a right to an opinion and I like a debate as much as the next guy, buy until such time as a form of relationship has established a space of trust, the difference lies exactly I'm the wording:
When you are my friend you can tell me my argument socks and I should eat a dictionary or such -no harm. Just friends

But

While you are still a SERVICE provider, we are (rightly or wrongly) clients who should be tolerated as one who's business you need. In the work context client is king and we all bite our tongues in the interest of signing a deal etc.
So when it's a new or potential punter you speak to, it's better business to suck it up.
Which means, when I talk shit to you RB, you wa or pm me and tell me the error of my ways (not that we have met, but I think we have come to accept each others good intentions bona fide).
But on forum, you either keep quiet or just type "smile and wave".
That way we know we disagree, but you are not seen as a battle ax best avoided.


This is not a level playing field and many ladies miss that!
Again right or wrong, here your business is at stake. So decide if you want to make money or if you want to be right...often can't have both

I beg to differ we don't have to accept every one's money if our energies are not conducive to each other just like you have the right to look past a Sp who doesn't seem to be for you. We have the right to decline booking if we feel that the punter will either treat us with disrespect or try to rob us of our hard earned cash.

Thinking of a once popular but now ex advertiser. Who enjoyed rough sex and the guys loved her until some idiot took rough to the extreme and se was punched in the face. "Rumor" has it she had a base ball bat shoved in all her crevices and ended up in hospital.

Sorry but we don't have to just bite our tongues and smile and wave.

While I do understand that some punters are intimidated by sps who can actually stand up for themselves because they actually have a back bone.

Not all punters want a lady that is a suck up to clients even when the punters are in the wrong.

I support all sps who stand up against bad behavior because we too deserve to be treated with respect in the room. If the punter shows no respect on this platform then in my mind he will be just that in my space and I would rather not entertain him at all. Sometimes the money is just not worth the issues we have to put up with.

My selectivenss has saved me plenty of times though some still slip through the cracks.

I will much rather switch o my laptop and teach my students and earn 20 dollars for that hour than sit with a disrespectful man in my space for RXXXX

For me it's a no brainer.

As someone reminded me that I deserve the respect that I command as I have never been disrespectful unless returning the favor.

Treat people the way you would want people to treat you.

This works for me because those who are meant to be will be and those who are not will miss me.

I believe we create our own reality and honestly speaking I am happy with my universe I created for myself and I am greatful for those who share my space in a respectful manner.

Ever wondered why some ladies have mixed reviews?

Because they except every Tom dick and Harry and not everyone matches their energy level so some will think se was amazing and others think she was the worst perhaps the guys who thought that she was the worst could have either had a bad attitude, bad hygiene, was pushing boundaries and she gave a half hearted treatment.

I prefer to give my best to everyone who walks through my door however I am responsible for those I let into my space.

On 2022-12-21 08:21:45 Russian Bridgitte said:
Really cunilinkiss?

Are u comparing apples to apples?


I am NOT ur friend and neither are u mine nor EVER will be.

I DEMAND respect EVEN if u haven't got a cooking clue who I am as I shall give it to u NOT because u are my client and bread and butter BUT because it is telling of me as the person I am.

Every stranger I come across irrespective, I WILL treat them with respect and if u step on my toes do not imagine I am fearful to stand up for my rights...president, king or punter.

U have it slightly right.

Let me put it this way...punters must stop bullying SP's into silence with their uncalled for abrasive disrespectful bullshit with that idea of fear of loss of clientele .

Constructive criticism is good and ALL should be open to it.

But fuck that shit when a fucknut imagines he has a right to shit on my parade because he thinks he can bully me into submission.

Not a fucking chance....not on this platform nor any other.



RB.

I conquer

@Arhwin
I agree that violence and crappy behavior need not be taken. Never.

However, (and this you may rightly say is my biased view, but I think there are enough reputable ladies that will concur), I'm a semi decent fellow that will never harm a lady.

However, many moons ago already, I added a note to your profile "bly weg". Purely based on the wife experience in your communication.

Should you care? Your choice.

Why may you consider caring? Unless you are already as busy as you possibly want to be, you may consider toning down, as you are possibly chasing the "good guys" away. You have been red flagged by many on the private forum and groups. Im not saying this as a threat or to loosely talk out of the confidentiality of a closed group. I am, believe it or not, trying to help you, as in your constant bickering you may even be attracting those who enjoy aggressive attitudes which is exactly the opposite of what you want.

Use or lose

On 2022-12-21 09:14:30 Cunilinkiss said:
@Arhwin
I agree that violence and crappy behavior need not be taken. Never.

However, (and this you may rightly say is my biased view, but I think there are enough reputable ladies that will concur), I'm a semi decent fellow that will never harm a lady.

However, many moons ago already, I added a note to your profile "bly weg". Purely based on the wife experience in your communication.

Should you care? Your choice.

Why may you consider caring? Unless you are already as busy as you possibly want to be, you may consider toning down, as you are possibly chasing the "good guys" away. You have been red flagged by many on the private forum and groups. Im not saying this as a threat or to loosely talk out of the confidentiality of a closed group. I am, believe it or not, trying to help you, as in your constant bickering you may even be attracting those who enjoy aggressive attitudes which is exactly the opposite of what you want.

Use or lose

Quite the opposite I tend to pull in amazing Clientele. Who value me and my treatments. If I didn't I wouldn't be here.

Bly weg if you please, as I said those who are meant for me will be and those who are not won't. I am happy with that.

I am of the understanding that everything is in Devine and perfect order the way things should be.

With that said you are one of the few gentlemen on here who can disagree with a lady in a respectful way which I can appreciate.

Lol as for the wife thing anyone who knows me knows that I am not wife material and in my personal space they are treated like the gold they are and anyone you include who wants to deny themselves a great treatment from me then so be it there is nothing I can do about it. (Not discreditting any Wg as there are plenty great service providers out their but we all have something unique and special to offer)

Though I will not be bullied into being silenced.

Nothing wrong with being strong willed and independent.

There will always be those who value me because they know me as a person and the service I give.

Treat me the way you want me to treat you it's simple.

Thank you for your advice. Though.

@Arwin
Then all remains fair in love and war ;))

Stay safe!

On 2022-12-21 09:51:12 Cunilinkiss said:
@Arwin
Then all remains fair in love and war ;))

Stay safe!

Indeed it is ;)

You stay safe and take care

Have a blessed Christmas season and a amazing new year filled with tons of great punts with amazing ladies.

Annyeonghi Gyeseyo.

The lament of Little Archie & the James Younger gang ....

The meaningless musings of Mr Bean in a tux ...

On 2022-12-22 12:28:14 JamesSpader said:
The meaningless musings of Mr Bean in a tux ...

Oh!please everybody take this in the light of JamesSpader's brilliant wit being acknowledged and not as an insult to JE...and I am not being sarcastic...


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAA!....excellent!

Quick and quirky and I am sure Rowan Atkinson would be appreciative of this too! ....they say he is brilliant and must be to be able to make Mr Bean a household name and a loved character.

RB.