Intolerance and hostility/animosity between punter(s) and advertiser(s) seems to becoming a common theme on the forum and escalating. Not cool !

I think the guys are fed up with bad service and that is justifiable.

While the ladies are fed up with with clients and their bad behavior which is also just justifiable (not all though as there are plenty amazing guys.

Ladies are becoming more cautious and are trying to weed out the bad punters and trouble makers.

Treat people the way you like to be treated you cannot say to a working who did nothing wrong that she is nothing but a mere Prostitute she must stay in her lane how respectful? How can sps be tolerant of this kind of behavior. When a punter speaks like this to any lady it shows how he treats ladies. Sorry but who would like to spend time with guys like that.

Or guys who don't pay ladies fees then come here to defame the lady with back and forth stories if the lady in question was a genuine scammer then I could understand but guys loved the lady u til the malicious punter who tried to force her into seeing him guess what she left and never came back.

Ladies who get drugged beaten (ladies have even been hospitalized and even murdered) etc... Are we supposed to tolerate abuse from the obvious forum abusers who obviously hound every lady on the forums if her view point is different or because of their pricing.

My question is are we not allowed to have different opinions based on our personal experiences?

I can just say thank you to the amazing gentleman who treat us well as these guys are nothing short of amazing.

With that said real punters are too busy working to allow themselves to punt or busy enjoying their hard earned cash and don't hang around on the forum insulting ladies all day every day like some guys who think esa is a dating site.

They find the lady who suits their needs and budget and move on until the need for another sp arrives. These are the guys we value they know what they want and they come into our space with out drama and a sense of entitlements and normally treat ladies like ladies not just like worthless Prostitute.

This post of mine itself will weed out the good guys from the bad guys, the good guys will see it for what it is while the bad guys will have issues with this post.

I guess you could make this a mountain or rather just an ants nest...

SIMPLY:

Don't argue with those you don't respect....

Don't respect THOSE that doesn't deserve it....

Believe in Karma with all your heart, it will give YOU peace...


Kylie @Elements Spa

On 2022-12-10 08:43:53 Kylie @ Elements said:
I guess you could make this a mountain or rather just an ants nest...

SIMPLY:

Don't argue with those you don't respect....

Don't respect THOSE that doesn't deserve it....

Believe in Karma with all your heart, it will give YOU peace...


Kylie @Elements Spa

Kylie beautiful ladies I appreciate this post as it speaks to me too ;)

Just a reminder that I needed to here ;)

So thank you.

On 2022-12-10 08:10:11 Arhwen said:

This post of mine itself will weed out the good guys from the bad guys, the good guys will see it for what it is while the bad guys will have issues with this post.

Ah yes, because your subjective perspective has somehow, and also by your decree, become the arbiter of truth.

What the actual fuck are you smoking sweetheart?

An opinion,before I meet my 10am booking...

Respect is not about kissing arse,or always agreeing to one's viewpoint,because you're hot-looking.

Fair enough,most ladies,here & IRL,want to be spoken with on an equal level,or even treated like the Queens they believe they are,& most of us punters see.

Just don't forget,this is a sex-for-sale site,& you're gonna be objectified,because,you know,its a ....SEX SITE.

Cums(sic) with the territory.
So,deal.

On 2022-12-10 08:54:08 JamesSpader said:
On 2022-12-10 08:10:11 Arhwen said:
This post of mine itself will weed out the good guys from the bad guys, the good guys will see it for what it is while the bad guys will have issues with this post.

Ah yes, because your subjective perspective has somehow, and also by your decree, become the arbiter of truth.

What the actual fuck are you smoking sweetheart?

The pipe of truth. Yes sir I am the arbitor of the of truth of my journey. I never speak for anyone but myself as my opinion is my own based on the info at hand with regards as to what is happening in my industry from a advertisers perspective which you unfortunately cannot comment on as you have not walked a mile in the shoes of an escorts. As I escorts I have empathy for my fellow escorts. Though I do also know that there are bad apple amongst us too which do need to be weeded out as they are ruining business in general as many punters are hanging up their boots.

While I am a curious George and PI work is hobby for me I do always tend to get drawn to stories like JPs last saga.

Where someone's reputation was at steak. It turned out that both punter and sp where at fault. But in my opinion the sp redeemed herself the punter however remains questionable in my mind.

Anyway regardless of what you boyfriend say to me in future will be met with the silence it deserves.

As the beautiful Kylie just reminded me of something important earlier.

I must nolonger give energy to that which I don't even want in my space so from this moment your posts are invisible to me.

I will give my energy to placed where it is appropriated and much deserved ;)

Our energies are clearly very different and I am OK with that.

Perhaps the girls should start a punting 101 from the sps so guys no what is acceptable and what is not acceptable when visiting a sp.

[QUOTE] Just don't forget,this is a sex-for-sale site,& you're gonna be objectified,because,you know,its a ....SEX SITE.]

so it justified the punter to say to the lady your just a Prostitute stay in your lane? Response to a what I thought was a decent comment. This statement of your makes this disrespect to advertisers acceptable? I think not!

Perfect example of client I don't want in my space. Imagine the disrespect when in my space!

Good bye to you and your crew. Thanks for the chats and heated debates not that the disrespect displayed to women in those debates where not evident so it can not even be called debates.

#Draws the curtain of invisiblity.

Tooooo true fpj

But I am sure u are not saying that me occupying the space of a prostitute and being a very forthright one at that , not an argumentative prostitute, one who can debate and play the ball and not the person, hold a dynamic ever evolving conversation of differnet opinions and shares, give right and leeway to statements such as "stay in ur lane prostitute, u ain't no judge?"

...thus prostitutes are not worthy of respect to some degree as are whoring husbands and lovers and boyfriends?

Come on fpj....what is good for the gander surely should be good for the goose....meaning decorum and respect among equals of the ADULT World?

I say...some take liberties and wish to bully SP's into submission and silence with the threat of losing business and potential new clients.

:)

On 2022-12-10 09:10:04 Forsyth P Jones said:
An opinion,before I meet my 10am booking...

Respect is not about kissing arse,or always agreeing to one's viewpoint,because you're hot-looking.

Fair enough,most ladies,here & IRL,want to be spoken with on an equal level,or even treated like the Queens they believe they are,& most of us punters see.

Just don't forget,this is a sex-for-sale site,& you're gonna be objectified,because,you know,its a ....SEX SITE.

Cums(sic) with the territory.
So,deal.

Respect is a moral....

Not something money can buy, also not something money can excuse you for not having any...

You either have some sense of decency or you don't,
(buying sex or selling it) doesn't make any difference to the core of someone's character....

Saying this.... money do bring out the worst in people.... so I guess you are right.


There is no point in explaining to a thief why it's wrong to steal ... same goes, no point in telling disrespectful people that their way of being ,is off putting.

Kylie @Elements Spa

On 2022-12-10 08:10:11 Arhwen said:


Or guys who don't pay ladies fees then come here to defame the lady with back and forth stories if the lady in question was a genuine scammer then I could understand but guys loved the lady u til the malicious punter who tried to force her into seeing him guess what she left and never came back.

Except that even by the ladies own admission that's not what happened.

So to repeat it's painfully obvious to anyone with a brain in their head that you'd made up your mind long before you'd 1)heard from the lady 2)bothered to see any of the evidence, or 3)seen the punters generous letting of the lady off the hook, based purely on your previous forum interaction with the punter in question.

If you're going to keep defending the indefensible, and asserting what happened in a manner that is completely contrary to all the evidence, is it really any wonder that punters are less and less willing to put up with your bullshit on the forum?