On 2022-12-02 11:35:50 Midnight Express said:


2. If I went around telling every "potential gent" about what I do surely I just might end up meeting an evil person and things may go sour to the point where they might think "hey I'm gonna let everybody on social media know who she is and what she does" because these things


In another instance I had a guy who was my friend at the time literally see a picture of my body which he had never seen naked before. But he picked up that it was me. Happened to get me to video call to confirm and about 4 months after that we dated for a good 2 and a half years. I got out the business and he took care of me. Long story short just taking care of me was not enough and we parted ways.


But in general I would never consider just telling anyone what I do. I've told friends that I've come to trust and regretted it when the friendship went sour. I can't imagine telling someone I just met that I barely know from a bar of soap.

I wish I could be as comfortable as the other ladies with regards to just saying I do this,this AND that. But I'm not trying to get disowned until I'm rich enough to say screw them lmao

@midnightExpress
Get rich then you won't have such worries.

Question: you stated something interesting, that taking care of you was not enough. What did you mean?
Just trying to understand.
And you don't have to answer.

On 2022-12-01 13:43:37 Galaxy The Original @ Be-sensu said:
I will be honest about what I do. I don't like having to tiptoe around someone and I'm also not looking for a long term relationship, been there, done that. If you don't mind what I'm doing, we can have an awesome friendship and have loads of fun. Otherwise, hop along, because the days of me having to explain myself to someone is long gone. I absolutely love what I do and am not ashamed of it. Xxx

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE WHAT YOU DO TOO !!!

On 2022-12-02 15:25:10 SmashP said:
On 2022-12-02 11:35:50 Midnight Express said:


@midnightExpress
Get rich then you won't have such worries.

Question: you stated something interesting, that taking care of you was not enough. What did you mean?
Just trying to understand.
And you don't have to answer.

So he basically would just treat me like crap. I now was almost always in the house unless i was out with him. id have to ask eveytime i needed money,and I wasn't allowed to question him if he didnt come home or wasnt picking up his phone.I'm assuming because he did everything for me. And this gent was in a position to invest in me or even start a business for me so that I didn't have to ask for money everytime .

The college I go to. I literally had to almost beg him to put me in. And my reasoning was, " hey you spend over 10 grand in champagne on me when we go out every weekend, what if I stopped going out with you every weekend and you used the money you always spend on me at clubs and put me in a college. And after pouting for a bit he paid the full college fee.

So for him it was enough that he was paying my bills he wasn't worried about treating me like the Queen I am. I had to sit in the house, cook for him and look pretty. No allowance or anything but if I needed to send money home or had rent due that was always sorted.

On 2022-12-01 13:31:16 Curiosity2222 said:
Thought about this and well im curious.
So for the ladies, you are out with friends and you get approached by a guy and everything is going well.
He then asks you, So whats your occupation?

Whats your answer?
(and yes i know some of you have side hustles, but what would you be open about this side hustle or make up something?)

I have been the girl who never showed face and used hide what I do. I don't like lying and having to tip toe around people. The biggest thing when lying is having to explain where all the money comes from people are not as stupid as we think they are no student, waiter, croupier or anyone can just cum with a couple of grand randomly every couple Day's. My dad was so sharp he would not say anything but make comments like what are you selling. So even though he never said anything I believe he knew unless it was just my guilty conscience playing tricks on me. I also ran into my ex husband's best friend a old school class mate and someone I knew from my previous job. That's when I thought What the heck I can't do this lying and one lie leads to the next which leads to the next and I started feeling like a compulsive liar.

Then I came out and was open about it but that too came with its bullshit.I showed face and was open with what I do. It was great not having to lie or tip toe around anyone but this too had his downfall. Some guys date girls in this industry for free sex and nothing more. I realised this when I met a lady who was honest with her long time boyfriend and one day the question of marriage came up not initiated by the lady but rather buy the girls and he said that he will never marry her because of this business may I add that this man lives in a house where this ladies has other ladies working from he lives off this business he gets fed by this industry and he gets a free fuck every night for the past 5 year's (at the time of the conversation) yet the lady was not good enough for him to marry she's still with this man who openly admitted he can't be with her.

I too met someone while being open and honest we got off onto a beautiful start hanging out with each other then one day he said that he has a problem with my business and I thought how Fucking rich of him because he met me in this business. That's when I realized in this world we are nothing but a piece of meat to men visiting us does not matter if they really fall inlove or even if they just using the girl for free sex. The problem is that this industry always has had a stigma that will never go away and we all get painted with the same brush because of this industry. Some advice we are here to make money not friends yes some punters have become friends and no they have not misused their friendship they still pay their way. And have been some of the most amazing friends I could have asked for. Ladies friends don't take advantage of you because you are in this industry they respect you as a person and your business so they will still pay your fee... A perfect example of a client taking advantage of a lady in this industry was JPs thread he started about being scammed by his regular shame this girl even gave him discounted bookings yet he still walked away without paying her fee friends don't take advantage of friends like that.

Currently where I am at I have a rapidly growing practice my baby which I am proud of even though it used up all my savings in the past year and brought me back to this industry to fill up my kitty and my kitty ;) I also teach online. Both those are good solid businesses and these are what I share with people outside this industry as I personally would like to keep separated from this industry, as they should be.


This way I can separate my private life from this industry and this industry from my private life without having to lie to anyone.

Some people who trust with my life know about all my business ventures including this business besides.

Though I have long passed the phase where I was concerned with what people think.

I pay my own way, I don't ask anyone for anything! I live my own life and interfere in nobody's life. If anyone has a opinion about what I do and how I do it, well great for them they are entitled to it and it in no way effects me or they way I do things I am my own person and I am the one who lives this life of mine nobody else does and if this business or any business I do is not good enough for anyone then they are not good enough for me.

Keeping my worlds separated has been the best thing for me and I don't have to go around lying about what I do and I get to enjoy all my climaxes and my clients climaxes without any feelings of guilt or being used.

But that's just me who has been both the person lying about this industry and being honest. Personally I am pleased I found my balance.

To me this industry is my play ground where I get to enjoy great sex(not always but 90% of the time) and get handsomely rewarded with top dollar and lavish gifts and if any man in this world and the mundane world cannot upkeep and support my lifestyle (including bedroom quirks) without judgement then bye bye to them.

At my age I am not looking to marry anyone neither am I looking for a boyfriend as I get all that I would get from a relationship right here and more minus the bullshit and all my boyfriends pay me well before leaving and I don't have to do his laundry or feed his face unless it's with pussy or we have dinner plans

On 2022-12-03 06:46:47 Arhwen said:
On 2022-12-01 13:31:16 Curiosity2222 said: Thought about this and well im curious.
So for the ladies, you are out with friends and you get approached by a guy and everything is going well.
He then asks you, So whats your occupation?

Whats your answer?
(and yes i know some of you have side hustles, but what would you be open about this side hustle or make up something?)

I have been the girl who never showed face and used hide what I do. I don't like lying and having to tip toe around people. The biggest thing when lying is having to explain where all the money comes from people are not as stupid as we think they are no student, waiter, croupier or anyone can just cum with a couple of grand randomly every couple Day's. My dad was so sharp he would not say anything but make comments like what are you selling. So even though he never said anything I believe he knew unless it was just my guilty conscience playing tricks on me. I also ran into my ex husband's best friend a old school class mate and someone I knew from my previous job. That's when I thought What the heck I can't do this lying and one lie leads to the next which leads to the next and I started feeling like a compulsive liar.

Then I came out and was open about it but that too came with its bullshit.I showed face and was open with what I do. It was great not having to lie or tip toe around anyone but this too had his downfall. Some guys date girls in this industry for free sex and nothing more. I realised this when I met a lady who was honest with her long time boyfriend and one day the question of marriage came up not initiated by the lady but rather buy the girls and he said that he will never marry her because of this business may I add that this man lives in a house where this ladies has other ladies working from he lives off this business he gets fed by this industry and he gets a free fuck every night for the past 5 year's (at the time of the conversation) yet the lady was not good enough for him to marry she's still with this man who openly admitted he can't be with her.

I too met someone while being open and honest we got off onto a beautiful start hanging out with each other then one day he said that he has a problem with my business and I thought how Fucking rich of him because he met me in this business. That's when I realized in this world we are nothing but a piece of meat to men visiting us does not matter if they really fall inlove or even if they just using the girl for free sex. The problem is that this industry always has had a stigma that will never go away and we all get painted with the same brush because of this industry. Some advice we are here to make money not friends yes some punters have become friends and no they have not misused their friendship they still pay their way. And have been some of the most amazing friends I could have asked for. Ladies friends don't take advantage of you because you are in this industry they respect you as a person and your business so they will still pay your fee... A perfect example of a client taking advantage of a lady in this industry was JPs thread he started about being scammed by his regular shame this girl even gave him discounted bookings yet he still walked away without paying her fee friends don't take advantage of friends like that.

Currently where I am at I have a rapidly growing practice my baby which I am proud of even though it used up all my savings in the past year and brought me back to this industry to fill up my kitty and my kitty ;) I also teach online. Both those are good solid businesses and these are what I share with people outside this industry as I personally would like to keep separated from this industry, as they should be.


This way I can separate my private life from this industry and this industry from my private life without having to lie to anyone.

Some people who trust with my life know about all my business ventures including this business besides.

Though I have long passed the phase where I was concerned with what people think.

I pay my own way, I don't ask anyone for anything! I live my own life and interfere in nobody's life. If anyone has a opinion about what I do and how I do it, well great for them they are entitled to it and it in no way effects me or they way I do things I am my own person and I am the one who lives this life of mine nobody else does and if this business or any business I do is not good enough for anyone then they are not good enough for me.

Keeping my worlds separated has been the best thing for me and I don't have to go around lying about what I do and I get to enjoy all my climaxes and my clients climaxes without any feelings of guilt or being used.

But that's just me who has been both the person lying about this industry and being honest. Personally I am pleased I found my balance.

To me this industry is my play ground where I get to enjoy great sex(not always but 90% of the time) and get handsomely rewarded with top dollar and lavish gifts and if any man in this world and the mundane world cannot upkeep and support my lifestyle (including bedroom quirks) without judgement then bye bye to them.

At my age I am not looking to marry anyone neither am I looking for a boyfriend as I get all that I would get from a relationship right here and more minus the bullshit and all my boyfriends pay me well before leaving and I don't have to do his laundry or feed his face unless it's with pussy or we have dinner plans

Love this post, honest and hard hitting. Even the sheriff got an "honorary" mention.

On 2022-12-03 07:27:35 Johnny English said:

Love this post, honest and hard hitting. Even the sheriff got an "honorary" mention.

Lol Mr. Bean you can always expect blatant honesty.

Though not everyone can receive it well. I call it as it is based on my own personal experience and longevity in this industry. Been there done that seem it all and still learning as I go along.

On 2022-12-03 06:46:47 Arhwen said:
On 2022-12-01 13:31:16 I don't have to do his laundry or feed his face unless it's with pussy or we have dinner plans

This part... right here. I think I just came LOL

I wholeheartedly hear everyone and in some ways I truly can relate.

I also keep my personal life personal, even though I am transparent and don't care who knows what I do.

I however would love to have a family one day and I especially would love to have a daughter, so I don't want clients coming into my personal life, even though they are close to me and we share a level of vulnerability, intimacy and transparency.

I want the same privacy and discretion from clients, that they expect from us.

Outside of my working hours, the persona drops and I'm just your average guy next door who likes simple things and living a boring ordinary life.

If I am with a group of friends and their friends/relatives, I do not mention what I do for a living. Its not required for these people. If one of my friends decides to tell one of this friends, I am okay with that. And now that person comes to me and talks to me about my work/occupation, I will tread very carefully.

I do not tell what my son is pursuing in higher studies or what profession my daughter is in. They are not entitled to know this. Simply because you are out together in a large group and someone you hardly know has asked you a question.

So my 2c is that a friends friend or relatives' relative does not need to know what you do......so if a WG is not telling what she does, its not offensive or rude.

On 2022-12-03 14:20:52 uwillwantme said:
If I am with a group of friends and their friends/relatives, I do not mention what I do for a living. Its not required for these people. If one of my friends decides to tell one of this friends, I am okay with that. And now that person comes to me and talks to me about my work/occupation, I will tread very carefully.

I do not tell what my son is pursuing in higher studies or what profession my daughter is in. They are not entitled to know this. Simply because you are out together in a large group and someone you hardly know has asked you a question.

So my 2c is that a friends friend or relatives' relative does not need to know what you do......so if a WG is not telling what she does, its not offensive or rude.

That's an interesting stance. I always thought that the occupation topic is an easy/safe (well unfortunately not for most SPs) conversation starter. If my question is not too intrusive, why do you mind the question? I know some people can use the question to try and gauge other people's economic status.

I find it a bit inquisitive to know about what I do, in the first meeting. And then they gauge your economic status(you are on point there)

I need to know a person better to share my occupation/source of income etc.

Maybe its just me.