On 2022-11-23 13:34:22 Kate said:


As a matter of fact I'm not the only wg that has stopped seeing you or blocked you, a few ladies have now confirmed they have done the same as they started feeling uncomfortable, and to be honest, you're even doing it now not coming to an end.

Seems a bit like JP is an obsessive creeper. In case you haven't figured it out yet, she doesn't want to see you so leave her alone. She is even offering to pay you back.

On 2022-11-23 13:45:48 Arhwen said:
On 2022-11-23 12:43:37
In my personal opinion no scammer has ever offered to pay back the money they scammed from someone.

But I can be wrong.

Has anyone ever been refunded by a scammer?

Its one thing to make a public pledge to refund someone and a total different thing to actually do it. Just ask Amber Heard.

On 2022-11-23 10:25:44 JP82 said:
Jirre people, give her a chance. This thing goes back months and months and includes both me and her changing numbers (i.e multiple whatsapp conversations) etc.

I've been waiting like half a year for an explanation, and you guys are ready to convict after one day of silence

I suggest everyone pay heed to what JP is saying, we have no idea of the circumstances surrounding this event, nor the depth of the OP/SP relationship.

Laying Judgement on either JP or Kate is completely unfounded when you do not have a clear understanding of all the information.

Post positively and responsibly, JP seems to just want a response, which he was unable to get privately and so he called out publicly, no need for the mob to Lynch anyone.

On 2022-11-23 13:34:22 Kate said:
And no JP82 I asked for the R3000 upfront as you never paid for my time the previous booking made. What should I just start seeing everyone for free and not charge them coz you clearly state I didn't charge you nor do I need the money to pay my bills? I told you I'm taking the R3000 for the booking you never paid for and you played dumb.

Also my number changed as did my name due to family that found out irt what I was doing for a living. So no I didn't change my number multiple times. But you however did.

As a matter of fact I'm not the only wg that has stopped seeing you or blocked you, a few ladies have now confirmed they have done the same as they started feeling uncomfortable, and to be honest, you're even doing it now not coming to an end.

I'm still working on a response to your first paragraph (lets just say the story you have told is not at all consistent with the whatsapp message trail)

Paragraph 2: I know why your number changed. I have had two punting sims and I also occasionally took the risk of contacting you from my "real" phone. Mostly because I wanted to resolve this and you'd blocked my punting number - but I never tried to hide my identity when contacting you from a different number, I straight up said "This is [JP]"

paragraph 3: I thought that this would come up at some stage, after you said as much in yesterday's voice-notes calling me every x-rated name under the sun and bizarrely accusing me of being on meth (seriously, wtf?). Look, I can't comment on "other ladies" as I don't know who these supposed ladies are or if I even have ever seen them, but if you are uncomfortable with me, I'm not thrilled, but that's fine. (I fully support a lady's right to see who she wants) What it doesn't explain is why you would then accept the overnighter, and then abscond with my deposit. Even if you felt I owed you money, are you now admitting that making the agreements for the overnighter was all a ruse from the very beginning? Because that kind of undermines your excuse that it was a "miscommunication"? You're now saying that you didn't want to see me, but you wanted to get the money you felt I owed you. That's not a miscommunication.

On 2022-11-23 13:55:46 KICKASS said:

We all strip naked and have sex because at the end of the say this is a sex site.

What if I'm shy and you're hung like a team of pack-mules?

On 2022-11-23 14:04:06 YourChunkyFunkiness said:
On 2022-11-23 13:45:48 Arhwen said: On 2022-11-23 12:43:37
In my personal opinion no scammer has ever offered to pay back the money they scammed from someone.

But I can be wrong.

Has anyone ever been refunded by a scammer?

Its one thing to make a public pledge to refund someone and a total different thing to actually do it. Just ask Amber Heard.

This is true but let's give her the benefit of doubt again until she actually does pay him.

On 2022-11-23 14:04:06 YourChunkyFunkiness said:

Its one thing to make a public pledge to refund someone and a total different thing to actually do it. Just ask Amber Heard.

Gold.

On 2022-11-23 14:08:13 JP82 said:


I'm still working on a response to your first paragraph (lets just say the story you have told is not at all consistent with the whatsapp message trail)

Paragraph 2: I know why your number changed. I have had two punting sims and I also occasionally took the risk of contacting you from my "real" phone. Mostly because I wanted to resolve this and you'd blocked my punting number - but I never tried to hide my identity when contacting you from a different number, I straight up said "This is [JP]"

paragraph 3: I thought that this would come up at some stage, after you said as much in yesterday's voice-notes calling me every x-rated name under the sun and bizarrely accusing me of being on meth (seriously, wtf?). Look, I can't comment on other ladies as I don't know who these supposed ladies are or if I even have ever seen them, but if you are uncomfortable with me, I'm not thrilled, but that's fine. (I fully support a lady's right to see who she wants) What it doesn't explain is why you would then accept the overnighter, and then abscond with my deposit. Even if you felt I owed you money, are you now admitting that making the agreements for the overnighter was all a ruse from the very beginning? Because that kind of undermines your excuse that it was a "miscommunication"? You're now saying that you didn't want to see me, but you wanted to get the money you felt I owed you. That's not a miscommunication.

JP why not take your 3K Kate has offered to pay back and Leave her alone as she requested.

It's not like you have a reputation to uphold you can still call a sp from all your numbers and you will not be link to this saga. She however does and unless ESA removes the comment you put on her profile it will alway be there even if she does refund you.

Some food for thought.

On 2022-11-23 13:48:42 kelv87 said:
On 2022-11-23 13:42:08 Teletubby said: This is bizarre. How is saying "I'm willing to forgive in order to maintain our friendship, but I'm not willing to be scammed and then have you ride off into the sunset" spiteful?
Because if there was a real friendship, and you really felt that you were compromising her income, you'd be okay with her keeping the money in the name of the friendship, *even if* that means she won't see you again (following the demise of said friendship).

Did "if you love someone let me them go..." somehow morph into "if you're friends with someone, let them scam you..." somewhere r along the line, and I just missed it?

Reading Kate's response -

You say you didn't want to see him but didn't have the heart to tell him .

But then why would you Agree to an all nighter and negotiate on 3 k if you had no intention of seeing him - surely that's a scam ?
The other stuff regarding not being paid for going out etc etc - if there was outstanding amounts you had to disclose that before negotiating a new contract .
Also you met another punter for a drink . Did he also get billed for time spent ?

With Chunky on this one -
Easy to say will refund - or pay back .
Let's see if it's done .

Lol zuma still ummmm paying back the money bwah